cococandy:
It's never ok.

Stay and Pray until he changes.

If you get AIDS, carry on and pray until you die and continue the prayer in your grave.

*bangs gavel.

Court rise!
The court is adjourned.

edwife:
It's actually okay to leave when you feel that you have had enough,"enough" can be immediately you find out he cheated,the second time or whatever.

It's all in your hand,your life-your decision!

Joy1706:
The man runs after everything in skirts, the woman is told to turn a blind eye. He impregnates one of his side chics, the woman is told not to leave her home for any woman and is even told to bring the baby into her home to raise. He infects her with STDS, she is told to use condoms and to do periodic tests. They also never fail to emphasise that she must never deny him sex. He goes as far as bringing his mistresses into their matrimonial home to sleep with and she is still told to turn a blind eye and pray till she can't move her jaw again. We hear all these advice from men and sadly, women too.
Where is one supposed to draw the line? When is it okay to leave a cheating husband? Why do we advise women to swallow all these bullshit? Abi, is it just me that finds a philandering man intolerable?

EfemenaXY:


Nobody dishes out such daft advice in this day and age. Not even an im.be.cil.e.

And if any parent does advocate such for their daughter, such parent(s) deserve to be strung, drawn, and quartered. Slowly and excruciatingly.

cococandy:


Don't you wish so.

There must be many imbeciles around then.

cococandy:
It's never ok.

Stay and Pray until he changes.

If you get AIDS, carry on and pray until you die and continue the prayer in your grave.

*bangs gavel.

Court rise!
The court is adjourned.

Joy1706:
The man runs after everything in skirts, the woman is told to turn a blind eye. He impregnates one of his side chics, the woman is told not to leave her home for any woman and is even told to bring the baby into her home to raise. He infects her with STDS, she is told to use condoms and to do periodic tests. They also never fail to emphasise that she must never deny him sex. He goes as far as bringing his mistresses into their matrimonial home to sleep with and she is still told to turn a blind eye and pray till she can't move her jaw again. We hear all these advice from men and sadly, women too.
Where is one supposed to draw the line? When is it okay to leave a cheating husband? Why do we advise women to swallow all these bullshit? Abi, is it just me that finds a philandering man intolerable?

EfemenaXY:


Nobody dishes out such daft advice in this day and age. Not even an im.be.cil.e.

And if any parent does advocate such for their daughter, such parent(s) deserve to be strung, drawn, and quartered. Slowly and excruciatingly.

edwife:
It's actually okay to leave when you feel that you have had enough,"enough" can be immediately you find out he cheated,the second time or whatever.

It's all in your hand,your life-your decision!

EfemenaXY:


Nah, this is just another one of those numerous "what if scenario" threads from a sensation seeking thread starter.

Joy1706:

Really? Taking toke's predicament for instance, most of those commenting were advising her to forgive and make sure she doesn't give room for Anita to come in and take over her man.

iykedare:
Op,why don't you answer the question first.
It's so easy to advice other people to do what you can't do.
What would you do if yo people find out that your hubby cheated on you?

Most people will advice other people to leave the marriage that very minute but these same people would stay pray and fast .

I've heard that very toke makinwa tell people to leave their cheat boyfriends. why is she not doing the same now?

Always give the kind of advice you sef can follow.

SAMBARRY:
It's still a fresh case na. She'll still be b weighing her options and getting advice from di

iykedare:


I really feel sorry for her.
Sometimes I wonder how my sisters will feel if their husbañds cheat on them. It shatters me.

It's been on my mind for some hours today . Infact, I had to ask a man I met in the gym what would make him cheat on his wife?
His reply? ........men are adventurous.

Joy1706:

Really? Taking toke's predicament for instance, most of those commenting were advising her to forgive and make sure she doesn't give room for Anita to come in and take over her man.

lilmax:
Try find happiness without marriage