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Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by Dsage1: 9:32pm On Jun 14, 2015
i posted this here in order to get a reasonable suggestions from the experienced adults.

i met this lady few months back during one of my business trips. It was like love at first sight expecially from me, and she love me too. Though she visited me the same weekend but refused to have sex with me when i attempted to. I love her to the extent that i'm now thinking of replacing my fiancee(who have been giving me a serious headache lately) and put her.

She has been giving this silly excuse i thought it was a joke or mere mind game played by the women in order not to be see as cheap ladies. she said she always has a serious stomach pain whenever she had sex,and that was the reason she abstained from sex since she started experiencing it. Since me too has changed my mind from "chop and clean mouth" and make her my princess, i decided to be patient with her till she has no option but to give in.

Just yeaterday, she lost control when we were romancing, and that was how everything started. It was a terrible experience i wont forget for the rest of my life. Thank God i was able to brings her back to life after she almost gave up the gost due to the stomach pain.

My question is, is this normal or spiritual? i'm afraid of her now, infact she has been crying since yesterday even on phone because i'd demanded she tell me the truth or i put an end to our relationship.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by estheremma(f): 9:40pm On Jun 14, 2015
Where exactly is d pain?i think she shud see a doc ASAP.It cud be a PID.she may hav had a trauma too.if u love her help her

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Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by psucc(m): 9:43pm On Jun 14, 2015
Though it is good that she abstain, but the condition is a health related issue. That must a cram due to the stressing of some muscles.

Tell her to visit a Doc immediately.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by missKiffy(f): 9:44pm On Jun 14, 2015
It could be medical, it can also be spiritual. If the pains is mild I would say it could be medical but if it's severe, most likely spiritual cos I don't understand why anyone will be having severe pains after sex
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by MissSlimbody(f): 9:53pm On Jun 14, 2015
Kingtom you're WANTED heretongue
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by iamodenigbo1(m): 9:53pm On Jun 14, 2015
why must you guys attribute everything to the supernatural.I tire

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Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by shawnfamous(m): 10:00pm On Jun 14, 2015
Lol d op is afraid!if it wz spiritual just to destroy ur career! Den i say NO! D only ones dat destroy 1's career re thse that flirt! U see friends of 5 banging jst 1 girl in rounds! Dis ur girl need a medical attention! Maybe she dsnt get wet enough while fvcking!
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by vislabraye(m): 10:12pm On Jun 14, 2015
Dsage1:
i posted this here in order to get a reasonable suggestions from the experienced adults.

i met this lady few months back during one of my business trips. It was like love at first sight expecially from me, and she love me too. Though she visited me the same weekend but refused to have sex with me when i attempted to. I love her to the extent that i'm now thinking of replacing my fiancee(who have been giving me a serious headache lately) and put her.

She has been giving this silly excuse i thought it was a joke or mere mind game played by the women in order not to be see as cheap ladies. she said she always has a serious stomach pain whenever she had sex,and that was the reason she abstained from sex since she started experiencing it. Since me too has changed my mind from "chop and clean mouth" and make her my princess, i decided to be patient with her till she has no option but to give in.

Just yeaterday, she lost control when we were romancing, and that was how everything started. It was a terrible experience i wont forget for the rest of my life. Thank God i was able to brings her back to life after she almost gave up the gost due to the stomach pain.

My question is, is this normal or spiritual? i'm afraid of her now, infact she has been crying since yesterday even on phone because i'd demanded she tell me the truth or i put an end to our relationship.



Wow.... shocking. Mention it to your pastor... tongue . But seriously you guys need to see a doctor.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by Cuneddy(m): 10:19pm On Jun 14, 2015
iamodenigbo1:
why must you guys attribute everything to the supernatural.I tire
Say ur own n stop dat trash.it its nt dat Wats it den?
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by Nobody: 10:22pm On Jun 14, 2015
Visit a doc ASAP.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by KingTom(m): 10:33pm On Jun 14, 2015
Are the pains before, during or after sex?
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by Dsage1: 10:47pm On Jun 14, 2015
estheremma:
Where exactly is d pain?i think she shud see a doc ASAP.It cud be a PID.she may hav had a trauma too.if u love her help her

Thank @all. i pray non of you experience what i experienced yesterday. i was profusely sweating, thinking about being jail,newspapers and the social websites when she was completely unconscious.

What kind of health issue was that for God sake. Well, i will take her to the hospital myself.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by Dsage1: 10:58pm On Jun 14, 2015
KingTom:
Are the pains before, during or after sex?

She started the drama during and she was immediately became unconscious. I still not believe it's an health issue until i confirm by taking her to the hospital myself.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by Godownchild(f): 11:00pm On Jun 14, 2015
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Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jun 14, 2015
It could be endometriosis or some other health conditions.

The thing wey make you know say na headache your fiancee they give you lately naim go make you know say you no dey feel headache again. Yeye dey smell.

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Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by Nobody: 12:51am On Jun 15, 2015
Lord have mercy
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by cococandy(f): 6:47am On Jun 15, 2015
Spiritual undecided

Pls tell her to go see a doctor.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by jnrbayano(m): 7:05am On Jun 15, 2015
Godownchild:
@ op, that is a symptom of pelvic inflammatory disease thhat usually affects women when caught with the disease.
It causes severe pain during sex that is usually very unbearable for the woman that most times won't be able to go thru the sex and can make a woman hate sex if not treated.

Pls for the love of mike, tell your lady to see a doctor, who wud prescribe drugs for her

Ask her if she has ever seen a doc pertaining this issue

It used to be "Pete" and now "Mike"

Who da hell are these guys?

cheesy
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by jnrbayano(m): 7:09am On Jun 15, 2015
Op,

It is health related from what you narrated.

I also read where you wrote that you will take her to the hospital yourself. Please do.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by KingTom(m): 7:21am On Jun 15, 2015
Dsage1:


She started the drama during and she was immediately became unconscious. I still not believe it's an health issue until i confirm by taking her to the hospital myself.
Please take her to the hospital, you just never know it may be a health issue
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by mygeeZ(m): 7:23am On Jun 15, 2015
i suspect STI or fibroid.. she shud see a doctor.. alternatively do a scan and possibly visit a good lab.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by focus7: 8:31am On Jun 15, 2015
Which truth will you want her to tell you again when you have witnessed it yourself? I guess she has a real medical problem and If you indeed love her find a way to help her overcome it that way she will make you her idol. I believe it is a problem that has medical solution. Start by searching google then take her to the hospital, it might just be a therapy she needs.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by InvisibleGhost: 8:43pm On Jun 15, 2015
Lemme take a sit first to read before commenting...
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by InvisibleGhost: 9:00pm On Jun 15, 2015
Dsage1:
i posted this here in order to get a reasonable suggestions from the experienced adults.

i met this lady few months back during one of my business trips. It was like love at first sight expecially from me, and she love me too. Though she visited me the same weekend but refused to have sex with me when i attempted to. I love her to the extent that i'm now thinking of replacing my fiancee(who have been giving me a serious headache lately) and put her.

She has been giving this silly excuse i thought it was a joke or mere mind game played by the women in order not to be see as cheap ladies. she said she always has a serious stomach pain whenever she had sex,and that was the reason she abstained from sex since she started experiencing it. Since me too has changed my mind from "chop and clean mouth" and make her my princess, i decided to be patient with her till she has no option but to give in.

Just yeaterday, she lost control when we were romancing, and that was how everything started. It was a terrible experience i wont forget for the rest of my life. Thank God i was able to brings her back to life after she almost gave up the gost due to the stomach pain.

My question is, is this normal or spiritual? i'm afraid of her now, infact she has been crying since yesterday even on phone because i'd demanded she tell me the truth or i put an end to our relationship.




That could be caused by a severe pelvic inflammatory or other sort of infection...I ain't see anything spiritual with that...



Advice: if you really, and truly love her, don't threaten or tell her you'll off the relationship, she loves you as you can see,,,she opened up to you about her condition on your first attempt, you can't say that she's playing hard to get cus your assumption of such which she might have found is what have led to this, she wanted to prove it to you and now you have first hand experience and a witness to it... help her by taking her to good hospital for thorough checkup and X-ray scanning.... I believe she can be medically be cured...



Goodluck.

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Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by KanwuliaJara: 9:00pm On Jun 15, 2015
Absolute BULLSHYTE!!!!! kiss
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by InvisibleGhost: 9:08pm On Jun 15, 2015
missKiffy:
It could be medical, it can also be spiritual. If the pains is mild I would say it could be medical but if it's severe, most likely spiritual cos I don't understand why anyone will be having severe pains after sex



That's lie, severe PID can lead even to a case far worsen than that sef...
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by RapLawd(m): 9:13pm On Jun 15, 2015
missKiffy:
It could be medical, it can also be spiritual. If the pains is mild I would say it could be medical but if it's severe, most likely spiritual cos I don't understand why anyone will be having severe pains after sex



it can be as a result of an untreated infection,it can even lead to less fertility if not treated soon, I advice the Op to take the lady to good hospital for an immediate diagnosis to ascertain her problem, it can be cured in 3 to six months time with an appropriate medications...
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by RapLawd(m): 9:19pm On Jun 15, 2015
Cuneddy:

Say ur own n stop dat trash.it its nt dat Wats it den?



medically, it's an infection, not one of the so called courses from tha gods -they are not to be blame for this...
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by Cuneddy(m): 12:55pm On Jun 16, 2015
RapLawd:




medically, it's an infection, not one of the so called courses from tha gods -they are not to be blame for this...
Ayt,nw u talk
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by 5minsmadness: 2:11pm On Jun 16, 2015
Two things:

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)

Or

Vaginismus.

Ignorance is no longer bliss but a disease. Something she would have cured since.


Take her to see a doctor.

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Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by 5minsmadness: 2:12pm On Jun 16, 2015
Once heard of a lady who had this problem. Turns out her mother put a coil in her to prevent pregnancy when she was a teenager and it got lost in there and everyone forgot about it. An ultrasound scan revealed the blighter. A simple surgery and she was free.


See a doc.
Re: Ladies: Can A Normal Woman Experience This. by Luckygurl(f): 2:27pm On Jun 16, 2015
5minsmadness:
Once heard of a lady who had this problem. Turns out her mother put a coil in her to prevent pregnancy when she was a teenager and it got lost in there and everyone forgot about it. An ultrasound scan revealed the blighter. A simple surgery and she was free.


See a doc.

Now why will a mother do that?

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