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What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by peacettw: 5:03pm On Aug 23, 2011
This got me thinking. If i had changed in certain areas since marriage then i'm sure my spouse has too. I can remember during d first few weeks of our marriage, my husband wld always come into d kitchen while I'm in there to 'help' me out. Now, while many will think dt to be thoughtful and even romantic, to me, it was irritating as hell. I don't knw abt u guys but if I'm not all alone in d kitchen, my senses go on overdrive n not in a good way (is dt what claustrophobia is?). Anyways, i told him kindly how i app what he was trying to do but will rather he's not in d kitchen. It wasn't hard to do considering dt he went overboard by telling me how wrong i was to use a certain pot 4 certain food on certain days(Seriously?). Also, he had had this habit of ignoring me 4 a wk anytime I offended him even without my knowing what i had done which he wldn't tell me, now he just ignores me for 6 days while listing out all my wrongs 4 close to an hr. It's not much but still crossing my fingers. So, in which areas ve your spouses changed. I figured this will be easier to share since we all feel more comfortable talking d 'other person' other than ourselves.
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by Nobody: 5:05pm On Aug 23, 2011
peacettw:

This got me thinking. If i had changed in certain areas since marriage then i'm sure my spouse has too. I can remember during d first few weeks of our marriage, my husband wld always come into d kitchen while I'm in there to 'help' me out. Now, while many will think dt to be thoughtful and even romantic, to me, it was irritating as hell. I don't knw abt u guys but if I'm not all alone in d kitchen, my senses go on overdrive n not in a good way (is dt what claustrophobia is?). Anyways, i told him kindly how i app what he was trying to do but will rather he's not in d kitchen. It wasn't hard to do considering dt he went overboard by telling me how wrong i am to use a certain pot 4 a certain food on certain days(Seriously?). Also, he had this habit of ignoring me 4 a wk if i offend him even without my knowing what i've done, now he just ignores me for 6 days. It's not much but still crossing my fingers. So, in which ve your spouses changed. I figured this will be easier to share since we all feel more comfortable talking d 'other person' other than ourselves. This got me thinking. If i had changed in certain areas since marriage then i'm sure my spouse has too. I can remember during d first few weeks of our marriage, my husband wld always come into d kitchen while I'm in there to 'help' me out. Now, while many will think dt to be thoughtful and even romantic, to me, it was irritating as hell. I don't knw abt u guys but if I'm not all alone in d kitchen, my senses go on overdrive n not in a good way (is dt what claustrophobia is?). Anyways, i told him kindly how i app what he was trying to do but will rather he's not in d kitchen. It wasn't hard to do considering dt he went overboard by telling me how wrong i am to use a certain pot 4 a certain food on certain days(Seriously?). Also, he had this habit of ignoring me 4 a wk if i offend him even without my knowing what i've done, now he just ignores me for 6 days. It's not much but still crossing my fingers. So, in which ve your spouses changed. I figured this will be easier to share since we all feel more comfortable talking d 'other person' other than ourselves.


From which phone did you type this your message with? Please delete some. Scattered everywhere
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by Nobody: 5:10pm On Aug 23, 2011
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Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by peacettw: 5:14pm On Aug 23, 2011
jennykadry:


From which phone did you type this your message with? Please delete some. Scattered everywhere
Thanks. I have modified it while correcting some grammatical errors.
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by peacettw: 5:18pm On Aug 23, 2011
peacettw:

Thanks. I have modified it while correcting some grammatical errors.
chaircover:

I could have sworn that my husband used to be much quieter when we first got married 
Lol. Wld give anything to hear my husband say more than 10 sentences in a day. It really can be so frustrating esp during a conversation when u're d one yapping away n he's as quite as ever. He's yet to change in dt
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by blank(f): 9:51am On Aug 24, 2011
He is now more of a dictator. angry

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Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by r231(m): 11:43am On Aug 24, 2011
A lot
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by ronkebp(f): 7:21pm On Aug 24, 2011
My husband has not changed at all, i think he is the same man i married, hmmmmmm, though i want him to change in so many aspects, i guess it is gradual, patiently waiting for that positive change.
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by Thatdave(m): 12:42am On Aug 25, 2011
my wife has not changed at all since i married her. (because am not married to anyone yet!!!)
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by kabukabu(m): 12:43am On Aug 25, 2011
Well now she gives me the evil eye anytime I mention bringing another girl home, she never used to mind that before we got hitched grin grin
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by MariaP: 12:43am On Aug 25, 2011
His prick has become bigger, more fukkable and more enjoyable. . . Yeah!
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by DonJoey(m): 12:50am On Aug 25, 2011
too many to mention
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by seedord247(m): 2:14am On Aug 25, 2011
since am not marry what should say ?
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by N101: 2:28am On Aug 25, 2011
seedord247:

since am not marry what should say ?


Come back to the thread when you're married?
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by seedord247(m): 2:53am On Aug 25, 2011
N101:



Come back to the thread when you're married?

will the thread still be alive by then?
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by HighChief4(m): 2:53am On Aug 25, 2011
**Subscribing*
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by Eemeekaa(m): 6:02am On Aug 25, 2011
She's now being used to define 'fat' and it irritates moi.I married that slim beauty.
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by Nobody: 7:11am On Aug 25, 2011
Eemeekaa:

She's now being used to define 'fat' and it irritates moi.I married that slim beauty.
ok, u meant to say u married that fat ugliness?
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by itiswell1(m): 7:34am On Aug 25, 2011
I wish i have an experience to share
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by Eemeekaa(m): 7:58am On Aug 25, 2011
Boyloaf:

ok, u meant to say u married that fat ugliness?
I married a slim beauty,now my wife is been used by other women to measure how fat they've gotten. embarassed
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by sayso: 8:02am On Aug 25, 2011
More love than I bargained for.She is more beautiful and attractive.
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by VALIDATOR: 8:04am On Aug 25, 2011
She is a lot better in bed an more co operative.I am loving it.
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by marcus1234: 8:25am On Aug 25, 2011
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by ng4am(f): 8:27am On Aug 25, 2011
He nw tels me what he want to eat even after i ve already made smthing else but b4 he eat whatever i give him. Brb.
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by Nobody: 9:17am On Aug 25, 2011
She (now) gives me a knock whenever I hit her ass.
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by bountimore: 9:55am On Aug 25, 2011
funny thread!
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by manakeagie: 10:07am On Aug 25, 2011
Ever since we got married my husband has changed in so many ways, he now comes back home late, no longer says "i love u" and so many other things the only good thing is he has greatly improved in bed,
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by ifyalways(f): 10:22am On Aug 25, 2011
He has now become semi-stingy.What I used to get with just a kiss during our dating days,I have to get it now by swinging on the chandlers  sad

Dude has become a Washroom pop-star overnight.Its not funny having to endure,tolerate and finally get used to having him sing meaningless,off-key songs every time he steps into the bathroom.

He now plays less with me,spends all his time playing with his boys,our kids.  embarassed

He farts recklessly and anyhow in the house especially in the mornings and when i do complain or flee,he shouts "Na you gimme chop"  angry

He became a better cook.Makes perfect soups and stews. kiss

Beeping/Flashing his phone does not perform the magic anymore.Men sef,then I could flash him 100 times a day and he wud ring back for each flash but now,for where cheesy ,even sms sef no too dey move am. angry

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Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by Eemeekaa(m): 11:37am On Aug 25, 2011
ifyalways:

He has now become semi-stingy.What I used to get with just a kiss during our dating days,I have to get it now by swinging on the chandlers  sad

Dude has become a Washroom pop-star overnight.Its not funny having to endure,tolerate and finally get used to having him sing meaningless,off-key songs every time he steps into the bathroom.

He now plays less with me,spends all his time playing with his boys,our kids.  embarassed

He farts recklessly and anyhow in the house especially in the mornings and when i do complain or flee,he shouts "Na you gimme chop"  angry

He became a better cook.Makes perfect soups and stews.

That's the change we need. grin
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by Nobody: 11:51am On Aug 25, 2011
My
boifrnd was so romantic wen we started datin,he wud apologise for any
little offence he commits.it waz so sweet(almost tot i waz d luckiest
gal on earth). hw will i ever 4get dose days.bt now,d word "am sry" doesnt exist in his dictionary
anymore.he picks offence 2 any little statement i make,he hangs out wif
frnd 4 as long as 11pm.its so annoyin though.
Re: What Changes Have You Noticed In Your Spouse Since Marriage by omoekoni(m): 12:40pm On Aug 25, 2011
Her talking has increased by 1000% and my ears are so sore!!

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