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9 Signs You're Not In Love With Your Man by Nobody: 7:32am On Jun 17, 2015
¤ 9 SIGNS YOU'RE NOT IN LOVE WITH YOUR MAN
Are you in a relationship? Do you love your man? Here
are a few things that show that you’re just playing
around:
1. Little things annoy you
If you always get unnecessarily agitated about a shirt
he wears or some extra weight he gained or the way
he sings in the car, then you don’t love him. When you
really love someone, those things are funny, or at the
very least tolerable. But if there’s no real connection
there, the little flaws irritate you.
2. You don’t talk and you don’t care
If you don’t hear from him for two days, and you’re not
bothered, then there’s a serious problem. Wanting to
talk to your man, is a sure sign of true love. If you
couldn’t care less, then you’re not in love.
3. You’re constantly comparing your relationship to
others
When you’re really in love, you don’t care what
everyone else is doing. You’re happy with what you
have. Those differences in your relationship don’t feel
like a problem. But, when you know you’re not meant
to be with a guy, you constantly try to find something
wrong with your relationship.
4. When going out, you still dress with other men in
mind.
If you’re daydreaming about meeting handsome guys
and dressing with that goal in mind, it means you wish
you were single. That shows that you’re not really
committed to your man.
5. He’s not the one you run to
When you’re upset about something, crying to your
man seems like the obvious thing to do. But if you
never confide in your guy, then you don’t really care
about him. If you really wanted to be close, he’d be the
one you go to when you need a sympathetic ear.
6. The image of you two standing at the altar gives you
anxiety
If you can’t picture the two of you gazing into each
other’s eyes happily on your wedding day, then you’re
not meant to be. If you don’t smile at the thought of
being his wife, then you’re just playing around.
7. You’re managing
If there are serious issues militating against your
relationship that you know can’t be resolved but you’re
still seeing the guy, then it’s obviously a dead end. If
he’s of a different religion from you and you know you
can only marry a man of the same religion, then you’re
going nowhere. You’re only still with him because
you’re avoiding the question: what next?
8.You’re disrespectful to each other
If you regularly insult your man, even in front of
others, it’s a sign that you don’t really care about him.
You’re lashing out at him because you know being with
him is a waste of time.
9. You feel a little guilty around his family
Deep down you know you won’t be around forever, and
they’re expecting you to be a daughter-in-lawand the
mother of their grandchildren someday. When you’re
around the family of a man you don’t want to be with,
it’s hard to suppress the guilt.
Re: 9 Signs You're Not In Love With Your Man by neutrotoba(m): 7:35am On Jun 17, 2015
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Re: 9 Signs You're Not In Love With Your Man by jargonzboi(m): 8:15am On Jun 17, 2015
Na so.
Re: 9 Signs You're Not In Love With Your Man by adeblow(m): 8:23am On Jun 17, 2015
nice write up front page things..

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