biaka1994:
I do dat. I dnt even luk Lyk sum1 dat has given birth. Its rili painful

cococandy:
Let's say I believe you.
Of all the people you could discuss your sexual problems with, you chose his cousin?
Why not someone who doesn't know him
Someone neutral?

Do you know how embarrassed he will feel when he finds out his cousin knows all the sexual details of your marriage?

Anyway try to stay away from him.
After all is said and done, he's not worth it.
As for how to spice up your sex life and get your husband interested again, the experts are coming. Just be patient.

EmmyDe25:

Really? Give me his number or yours lemme talk some sense into his head. JK
But facT is your hubby is already cheating with some olosho girls with better sex skills than you But this doesnt mean his cousin should be your attraction. Never ever cheat on your husband with his brother or cousin. It will ALWAYS boomerang. And when it does, it means you activated your exit all by yourself and will be a huge dent/shame on your persona. Your family might end up rejecting you.
But really, i wont advice you to keep sticking around if things dosnt work your way. Thank God its just one child you have and base on your assertion. You dont look like youve given birth. It wont be cool to realise there is no way out of this mess when you have about 3 kids. Im speaking from experience. In life the ultimate thing is to be happy with your self and not live every moment to regret a decision that could have been nipped in the bud in the early stage.

mradjoy:

It's your calling, please go after it, but don't hesitate to ask God about it first ok?

biaka1994:
Please I just need your advice or advices which ever of them. I met my husband in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make love almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used to it. When we got married and I got pregnant my husband became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Some times i'll have to beg him to make love to me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought things would change but it's all the same. I keep begging and begging I have just decided to be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk to is his cousin and have become so close to him that am beginning to lust after him he is married tho but he lives close to us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him and I felt so embarrassed. Please guys help me it's Getting out of hand. What do I do? Please no bashing we all are humans and we do silly things atimes.




Cc: Lalasticlala

iyke4ever:
Sister, please understand in a very clear terms that men don't like women that beg for sex most often, it irritates men. Try everything possible to let the opposite be your experience, you will see him loving you like mad again. Above all, go to his maker in praying & fasting, He will turn back his heart to you. However, before u go to GOD, ensure you confess that evil thought of lusting after his cousin & stop forever, then God will bring your husband back to you. Good luck & don't give up. God bless you.

biaka1994:
We ain't poor we ain't rich!quote author=jpphilips post=35183699]



Your hubby has a Girlfriend now, get yourself a Bf but definitely not his cousin, what is the financial situation at the home front?

sukkot:
nigga this is end times, 2015. nobody is looking for companionship. everyone wants to be bleeped

jpphilips:



How old are you bros?

sukkot:
nigga this is end times, 2015. nobody is looking for companionship. everyone wants to be bleeped

Rilwayne001:

sukkot:
abi i lie bros ? e ku weekend sir

You no lie my bros, everything na 'end time things'.

If you are still doing weekend over there, well, its a new week here. Today is monday, no dulling at all.

Rilwayne001:


You no lie my bros, everything na 'end time things'.

If you are still doing weekend over there, well, its a new week here. Today is monday, no dulling at all.

sukkot:
oh yeah its monday. no mind me. bros, end time people full everywhere. another one for frontpage just break cucumber inside her vajayjay-

But why would she do that?

P.S: I am 15years old.

Rilwayne001:


But why would she do that?

P.S: I am 15years old.

sukkot:
15 ? well dayumm. why she do that ? she is a vegetarian

hahahahahahahaha Lwkm. So, vegetarians eat food with VJ and not with their mouth

I don't even know what Vj is, e no dey my dico. Can you please elaborate

Rilwayne001:


hahahahahahahaha Lwkm. So, vegetarians eat food with VJ and not with their mouth

I don't even know what Vj is, e no dey my dico. Can you please elaborate

sukkot:
lol vj is pucci

OMG!! What I dey fast.
Have a nice day sire

Rilwayne001:


OMG!! What I dey fast.

Have a nice day sire

fem29:
My dear, my mantra is don't let anything anyone does stake away my joy. I TRY to live my life by this motto God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.

Hun sex is not food. Fact is you can live without it. Also try to lose weight and stop begging him. prob if he sees you looking all sexy and you are no longer begging him for sex, he may come round. Develop an air of mystique.

Brilliant one there fem29
I also suggest you get a rampant rabbit for times when you are really turned on. Sometimes we need to stop expecting our spouse to make us happy when they have shown they cannot and find our happiness outside of them. Empower yourself.

sukkot:
old enough to whoop yo ass nigga

forix4u:
Dis babe self na wa 4u ooo... I'm very sure u r just a little girl without any sense of humor and experience. Jus some months back u were pregnant and was asking if "Nnzu" is good for a pregnant woman. The other time after some months of giving birth u seek advice for the dropping of ur baby's hair on nairaland instead of taking her to d hospital. U even sold ur blackbery phone here on nairaland...now its how ur husband is denying u sex...na wao...woman don't u have shame for urself? Full house wife has turn u to a Nairaland specialist where u spend vitally all ur day commenting and posting different issues of even ur private life and seeking advice here n there. Pls get urself occupied and stop being a child. That u r married wit a baby doesn't mean u r matured enof of. Look for sth to do pls. I fink maybe ur constant sitting at home is one of d main reason ur husband is denying u sex.

OCTAVO:

I like your honesty, not everyone can boldly post this. Just talk to your hubby. It is well.

jpphilips:



You are more shameless to have followed her around this long, I doubt if you earn a decent living.

Emaprince:
your entire stint on Nairaland was spent narrating stages of your life and how extremely promiscous you get as you grow. There's no iota of shame in you. You think promiscuity is something you can go about and brag with? Because all the women in your familly are who.res, you think every other females are like that? You must have lost count of the number of men you slept with. Your vagina must be so wide that you'll fall asleep while a man is labouring on top of you cos your rotten and over fukced pusssy won't feel the impact of a diick. By the way, how's your aunt coping with the bastard in her womb?

I don't even need to tell your stories because you've already exposed them enough in this forum.

remind me again.... You said your parent's marriage is 32yrs? I can BOLDLY tell you that your parent's marriage is a BIG FAILURE!!!

You started your ashewo lifestyle with a girl which means you are a lesbian(14yrs in prison loading...) Then you had a crush on a guy at 8...at 8??...dam.n your mom must be sleeping around when she had you in her womb that you came out and turned out to be a nympho.

Now you are 28yrs old and still no husband. Men are even tired of sleeping with you cos there's nothing to enjoy again. You are too ugly with a flacid breast, you have no self esteem, you give in cheaply to men's advances. You have been used and dumped, you are worthless.

Smh....you need deliverance because you are cursed. But then, no amount of deliverance can tighten that grave yard between your legs again.

Mixty:
I sent you a PM. Kindly respond

jpphilips:


wots dat?