Is it possible for a girl to be completely faithful for 4 years to her bf because she is far gone. I mean my girlfriend has gone to school now, but I have a feeling that she cannot endure to stay single over there for good 4 years. I do not want to share this girl with any1. Makes me feel bad whenever I think about her going out with someone else.

@ poster, Im in the same kind of situation as u do, my guy, no put ur mind for wetin she go dey do for school. Just observe if she is still urs when u call and when she comes back home. Chikena!!

That shows that you boys do not trust your partners. If theres no trusts, how do you expect to have a relationship?

Na who u dey ask?

Gab, u cannot compare ur own people to ours here, Nija girls are just, am not saying all, bt few are to be trusted.

Guy let's not deceive each other. There are sharp guys in our institution and most of the girls are user friendly

Bros please what do u mean by " user friendly"

it's probably because you know you are not worth the babe, and you know when she sees other better guys she'll free you. you'll have to step up your game if you still want her.

ztyle:

Na who u dey ask?

I hope you are not beefin at me ooo. . , . . . Blog Worshipper u

eyonigger:

Gab, u cannot compare ur own people to ours here, Nija girls are just, am not saying all, bt few are to be trusted.

Are you saying out of a million, only 5 can be trusted? Common now, . . Ok, heres the thing, Lets do a reality check. You guys arw worried that with the distance relationship thingy going on, your gf's might be having a secret affair right? How about your side? I bet most of you guys are also having a secret affair and thats why this problem keeps hitting you guys. Stop being so unsecure of yourselves. If you dont like your gf's to behave as such, you too dont behave as such ooo. . .

oops! Sorry. Ok, first answer this question, are you the poster having any other affairs besides your gf? Answer honestly now.

Eyo, I know you do.

Campuses are a severe test to distant relatioships. There is no guarantee what would happen if one's beau goes to school and it's not predicated on if ur girl is good or bad. The pressures inside campuses for dating relationships are severe and mostly peer induced so it could be helpful if you do visit your girl, once in a while, and get to know her girlfriends and establish a kind of presence in her life on campus.
There's no bigger bait in schools for guys than a babe who doesn't have a recognisable boyfriend. If your babe is "boyfriendless" in skul,they'll swarm her. She might not be able to cope with the derison and contempt of her friends who'll want her on the same "level" with em . On the other hand, if she gets a platonic relationship as a front and the guy is a sharp guy, she's dead duck as she's so likely to fall!
Your best bet is to sit her down and talk about the basis of ur relatioship. Point out the pressures she'll face and help her understand how she'll handle them. Open and maintain a communication channel and establish your presence in her new environment.
On the other hand, YOU CAN SET HER FREE. IF SHE COME'S BACK TO YOU, SHE'S YOUR'S. IF SHE DOESN'T, THEN SHE'S NEVER YOUR'S TO START WITH. Enjoy!!

HhHAHAHHA, @Gabb, yes I know u do, and kerma is probably hitting back at me.

Thats correct. You are a smart guy.

Ifedisky:

Campuses are a severe test to distant relatioships. There is no guarantee what would happen if one's beau goes to school and it's not predicated on if ur girl is good or bad. The pressures inside campuses for dating relationships are severe and mostly peer induced so it could be helpful if you do visit your girl, once in a while, and get to know her girlfriends and establish a kind of presence in her life on campus.
There's no bigger bait in schools for guys than a babe who doesn't have a recognisable boyfriend. If your babe is "boyfriendless" in skul,they'll swarm her. She might not be able to cope with the derison and contempt of her friends who'll want her on the same "level" with em . On the other hand, if she gets a platonic relationship as a front and the guy is a sharp guy, she's dead duck as she's so likely to fall!
Your best bet is to sit her down and talk about the basis of ur relatioship. Point out the pressures she'll face and help her understand how she'll handle them. Open and maintain a communication channel and establish your presence in her new environment.
On the other hand, YOU CAN SET HER FREE. IF SHE COME'S BACK TO YOU, SHE'S YOUR'S. IF SHE DOESN'T, THEN SHE'S NEVER YOUR'S TO START WITH. Enjoy!!

I really feel ur response, man ur a genius in stating facts. However I do not have much time to visit her in school, bt in a year, I might be able to visit her twice, and our communication is constant, even though she acts up attimes, bt she still get her acts right. It might be quite obvious she'll have a front guy in school, bt I beleive she will never free me. Its just that I do not want her to be shared with me in any way possible. Gabbryl I am not cheating on her.

can somebody tell me y my gf in school will sleep with a toaster of hers and come back to tell me and ask 4 forgiveness aam really confused plz help

MrCrackles:

It is possible to stay faithful for that long!

I really hope so.

ifedisky you talk well!!! Nice one

@ akinjosh,sorry o,wat did u do,hope u gav her d matchin order
@ poster,stop tinkin abt wat she's doing,u ll only end up hurtin urself

@onyxera i cldnt help giving her the matching order i cant just do it i still have my mind on her but i cant just let the feeling go

ol boy wot u dont kno cant hurt u so d sooner u get ur crooked mind off certain things d beta 4 d both of you! Most girls r Unfaithful but anyways wots meant to b will jus b regardless of how much u fight over it so try study her calls when she is around and general behaviour!

Dude of all numbers u chose that are you a satanist

i don't think dat can happen, for her to be faithful for 4yrs.

@ Poster

Guy,jus listen to this dude:

Ifedisky:

Campuses are a severe test to distant relatioships. There is no guarantee what would happen if one's beau goes to school and it's not predicated on if ur girl is good or bad. The pressures inside campuses for dating relationships are severe and mostly peer induced so it could be helpful if you do visit your girl, once in a while, and get to know her girlfriends and establish a kind of presence in her life on campus.
There's no bigger bait in schools for guys than a babe who doesn't have a recognisable boyfriend. If your babe is "boyfriendless" in skul,they'll swarm her. She might not be able to cope with the derison and contempt of her friends who'll want her on the same "level" with em . On the other hand, if she gets a platonic relationship as a front and the guy is a sharp guy, she's dead duck as she's so likely to fall!
Your best bet is to sit her down and talk about the basis of ur relatioship. Point out the pressures she'll face and help her understand how she'll handle them. Open and maintain a communication channel and establish your presence in her new environment.
On the other hand, YOU CAN SET HER FREE. IF SHE COME'S BACK TO YOU, SHE'S YOUR'S. IF SHE DOESN'T, THEN SHE'S NEVER YOUR'S TO START WITH. Enjoy!!

couldnt have said it better myyself

So eyo ur in da same shoes as I am? What are the measures you have been implementing to make urself unworried about the issue?

tonye-t:

This game is a two way thing:

let me speak from a bad brother angle,

i still believe anytime that my chic aint mine until she is mine - hope you know what i mean

there is this psyche i play on them

1. i tell them to feel free and socialise in school, because i aint their husband yet, now what this does is like "giving a dog a rope to hang itself" i discover they come back telling me i dont like them thats why i give them a free hand to relate

now believe me this, your ladies will resent you if you r 2 clumsy, give them breathing space, afterall "girl wer go spoil go spoil" so kini big deal

so far as i know, my chic in school just hates it when i pretend i dont love her, that i rarely call her,but i know deep down that i love her like heaven , take this "ladies hate clumsy guys", like the say goes "whatever you dread is what befalls you" get it?



if you really want to have her as your own, then ENGAGE HER, and give her reasons for your babish act

You are ryte!!

gaussian:

ol boy wot u dont kno cant hurt u so d sooner u get ur crooked mind off certain things d beta 4 d both of you! Most girls r Unfaithful but anyways wots meant to b will jus b regardless of how much u fight over it so try study her calls when she is around and general behaviour!

Will do just that, and one thing I am quite sure about is, to me ooo, I beleive no one can ever be as good in a relationship with that girl than me, even if she's got a guy, there will be so many things missing. Making her run back to me, although I might not know she has been going out with a dude.

pc guru:

Dude of all numbers u chose that are you a satanist

Sure I am, your father initiated me, ur mum is the exorcist, they divorced when ur mum was trying to deliver from the bondage ur father got me in.

delegirl:

i don't think dat can happen, for her to be faithful for 4yrs.

True, very true, though I love to beleive the worse, bt this is quite obvious, its not possible.

@topic,u go dye of hypertension o
@ akinjosh,a man has 2 do wat a man got 2 do

lol, Insecurities . . .

this is my theory:DONT WORRY YOUR PRETTY HEAD ABOUT WHAT UR GIRL IS DOIN ELSEWHERE.i even make a joke of tellin my gf to say hi to her bfs in school for me.that they shuld not hurt her but i will be here waitin for her.truth is ever since i was havin sex with a girl in school and her bf called her and she picked and was talkin like notin was wrong,i find it hard to trust girls.u may call it shootin myself in the leg cos wheneva i call her and her fone rings for sooooo long without pickin,i start thinkin nutty i believe if u dont cheat ur gf,u will ve peace of mind cos u wont know what obtains.

when i call her(as in my gf)

are u faithfull urself?

Clones, if you are not cheating on her but do you sense that she might cheat on you?