Hedonistically
That's why poor people remain poor. Their mentality can kill. Shame on those visiting people who live in one room and staying for more than one night.

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This omugwo thing is constituting a nuisance for me now as I have one inconsiderate neighbour who invited his mother-in-law and sister in law to do omugwo together in their one bedroomed self-contained apartment. All of them there plus a steady sting of sleepover visitors stretching the compound's resources and inconveniencing me staying on my own. All the space for hanging clothes is taken over; sometimes water shortage is worsened because of all of then and all that, plus incessant noise and walkabout all over one's space. It's been more than four months now and the mother and daughter omugwo squad are still there along with the man's wife that gave birth.

a year preferably, allow the birth mother to learn from the pros as well as reduce the stress of baby-sitting, preparing food and general work.. house-helps can be complete dodos when and after you give birth. and you too can be absent-minded, so its best to have the mother for as long as a year. remember to package at least N200k plus other gifts when she is leaving.. chances are someone else has also given birth and they live in Atlanta