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10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by danimodd(m): 10:59am On Jun 29, 2015
Have you ever wondered why all the ladies are ''in a relationship'' and all the guys are ''single''? Well, it is because men are deceiving women.

My friend once told me that he has a friend who would buy about five rings and engage five different girls at the same time, constantly deceiving each one of them that she's the queen of his heart.
According to him, it is cheaper and easier to get a woman to do what he wants once he appears serious or committed with them.
Unfortunately, he's not alone. Many men are actors. Ladies should learn how to discern a man who really care about them and those who are players.

These are 10 ways to know if a man is serious about you or not.

1. HE DOESN'T PLAY MIND GAMES WITH YOU.
If he says he will drop in to see you, he does. When he makes plans with you for the weekend, he sticks to them. He doesn't torment you by saying one thing and doing something else.
He's not cold one instant and warm and affectionate the other. If his ex-girlfriend calls him, he tells you about it for the sake of honesty and not in a way that makes you uncomfortable. When a man plays mind games, it's typically because he doesn't really care, or because the relationship is casual for him. If your man makes a special effort to be honest and open,that's a sign of his commitment to the relationship

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Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by tmv10(m): 10:59am On Jun 29, 2015
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Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by IamLEGEND1: 11:36am On Jun 29, 2015
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Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by danimodd(m): 12:16pm On Jul 05, 2015
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Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by danimodd(m): 9:12pm On Sep 09, 2015
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Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by rawpadgin(m): 9:44pm On Sep 09, 2015
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Ten Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You

Have you ever wondered why all the ladies are ''in a relationship'' and all the guys are ''single''? Well, it is because men are deceiving women.

My friend once told me that he has a friend  who would buy about five rings and engage five different girls at the same time, constantly deceiving each one of them that she's the queen of his heart.
According to him, it is cheaper and easier to get a woman to do what he wants once he appears serious or committed with them.
Unfortunately, he's not alone. Many men are actors. Ladies should learn how to discern a man who really care about them and those who are players.

These are 10 ways to know if a man is serious about you or not.

1. HE DOESN'T PLAY MIND GAMES WITH YOU.
If he says he will drop in to see you,  he does. When he makes plans with you for the weekend, he sticks to them. He doesn't torment you by saying one thing and doing something else.
He's not cold one instant and warm and affectionate the other. If his ex-girlfriend calls him, he tells you about it for the sake of honesty and not in a way that makes you uncomfortable. When a man plays mind games, it's typically because he doesn't really care, or because the relationship is casual for him. If your man makes a special effort to be honest and open,that's a sign of his commitment to the relationship.


2. HE WANTS TO KNOW THINGS ABOUT YOU.
And it's not just the regular stuff like ''what are your hopes and dreams?'' or, ''What inspire you to paint?'' or '' What's your favorite rock band?''
He asked you questions about your childhood, your job, parents, etc.
He wants to know what it likes to be the elder sister or, he always asks you how you cope with your long stressful work hours. He is genuinely concerned about your career and asks you about your plans. Even the best actor cannot feign an interest in mundane details such as, ''What time did you wake up today?'' or ''Did you get enough sleep last night?'' If he's serious about you, he will find all the mundane details interesting.



3. HE CALLS YOU MULTIPLE TIMES EVERYDAY.
He calls you sometimes for no reason.
Even if you've met at a coffee shop an hour ago, he calls you after he reaches home, or from the elevator.
This behaviour is typically displayed in the first few weeks of the relationship, when everything is new and exciting.
 However, when you realize that he still calls you just to hear your voice and it's been about a year since you started going out, you should know that he is serious about you.

4. IF HE'S ALWAYS PUNCTUAL.
If he's always punctual, he's definitely into you. When a man is serious about his girlfriend, he will ensure that she doesn't have to wait for an hour at the bus stop. He says he will pick you up for dinner and 8 p.m. and calls around 7. 55 p.m. to tell you he's stuck in traffic and will be 15 minutes late, he's respectful of your feelings.
He won't ever have you hanging around the park for half an hour before he shows up. Most girls constantly find themselves waiting for their boyfriend's phone call, or for him to pick them up. If you don't find yourself in that position, you've got yourself a winner.

5. WHEN HE LISTEN TO YOU TALK.
Several girls complain that they can't talk to their boyfriends and that they just don't listen.
When you spend time with him, he really listens to you. He's all ears about your problems at work. On the rain, he's not distracted by fellow passengers, but he is listening to you  intently. You have long chats on the phone where he hangs on to every word you say.
You find yourself telling him things you've never told any boyfriend before. He's not constantly checking his cell phone for messages, when you talk about the day. If your man remembers that it's your aunt's birthday in a couple of weeks, just because you mentioned it passing, understand that he's listening to every word you're saying.

66. WHEN HE WANTS TO DATE YOU EXCLUSIVELY.
You're his steady girlfriend and he makes sure everyone knows it. He is faithful and expects fidelity from you too.
He has had the conversation about being exclusive with you. He makes sure everyone knows that he's your boyfriend, not only because he doesn't want random men hitting on you, but because he wants to send a clear signal to all the girls that he's taken. This is a big step and you should appreciate him for this.

7. HE'S TRANSPARENT ABOUT ROUTINE.
You know his routine and what his day holds for him, not because you're tyrant but because he volunteers this information. You know he's in the gym in the morning and reaches work at 10 a.m. after making a quick dash to a coffee shop. You know that if he doesn't take your call in the afternoon, he's probably in a meeting or in the loo. If he's missing for a couple of hours, there's always an explanation that's credible.
You have never wondered, ''What could he possibly be doing now?'' or ''why hasn't he called me?''.

8. HE INTRODUCES YOU TO HIS FRIENDS.
He is keen that you meet his friends and not only because he wants to show off what knockout you are, but because he's so in love with you.
He wants his friends to know you and like you. He wants you to get comfortable with them, because this paves the way for your initiation in the group. He makes an effort to be nice to your friends for same reasons. He wants you to meet his family. This move is not to be underestimated at all. If there's one thing common in men across the continents, it's the fact that they only take the girl home, If they're taking the relationship to the next level.

9. HE ASKS FOR YOUR OPINION AND RESPECTS IT.
He wants you to accompany him while he shops for clothes, because he trusts your choice.
When he is confused about his career , he talks to you and listen patiently to what you have to say. He discusses things with you to seek your opinion.

10. HE'S ALWAYS THERE WHEN YOU NEED HIM.
He may be foul tempered and may say hurtful things from time to time, but he's always there when you need him. When your uncle passed away, he was there to hold your hand. When you lost a job, he took you out for ice cream and reassured  you. He may have his faults, but if he really cares for you, he will always try to protect you. If a bitchy girlfriend keeps picking on you, he calls her bluff and shuts her up. If he genuinely worries about you because you have cramps during that time of the month, he's definitely serious about you. Just like what i will do lol.

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Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by danimodd(m): 9:15pm On Sep 11, 2015
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Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by iameugene(m): 1:17am On Sep 12, 2015
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Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by iameugene(m): 1:17am On Sep 12, 2015
keep teaching players more scope
Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by danimodd(m): 10:32am On Sep 12, 2015
It's cos i don't want those learner to be played ni o!
Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by datprincess(f): 7:46pm On Sep 15, 2015
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Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by bluewles33: 7:49pm On Sep 15, 2015
Hmmmn na talk
Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by datprincess(f): 7:58pm On Sep 15, 2015
lol uve gone through it..?
Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by danimodd(m): 5:56am On Sep 18, 2015
datprince how are u
Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by pet4ril(f): 6:11am On Sep 18, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
bros if u go post the whole thing for here make u post am abeg.

#AintNobodyGotMbToClickBogusLinks
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Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by mrjojo: 7:43am On Sep 18, 2015
All this 10 dis and dat list, imagine, even referring peeps to ur site as if u wrote it.. Obviously the list wasn't written by a Nigerian sef, else coffee shop n all wouldn't be mentioned.. Avid copy & Paste evangelist
Re: 10 Ways To Know If He Is Serious About You, Girls Only! by danimodd(m): 7:00pm On Sep 18, 2015
Not written by Nigerian? negative minded lipsrsealed

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