1. TO CHOOSE BETWEEN YOU AND HIS MOTHER
Whatever your issue is with his mother - Maybe he sometimes puts her over you or you two don't simply get along, drop it for your husband's ( and your relationship 's) sake. She is , after all, the reason he exists in the first place. Will it kill you to let her sit in the passenger seat when he drives, and you take the the rear? Yes , it's demeaning, but keep the situation in perspective, " says relationship expert April Masini. "Don't put the burden of your issues with her on him. You'll drive a wedge between the two of you, not him and his mother."

2. TO LISTEN TO YOU LIKE A FEMALE FRIEND WOULD
You husband should hear you out in tough times, but he shouldn't be your personal venting to - go. " Men and women tend to have different goals with communication, with men concerned about identifying and fixing problems, and women expressing feelings and connecting emotionally, says relationship expert David Bennett, author of Eleven Dating Mistakes Women Make ( and how to correct them). "To him to actively listen to gossip will make him frustrated, and you will be frustrated when he doesn't fulfill that role adequately. "

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3. TO NEVER NOTICE ANOTHER WOMAN
Men and many of their wives , too can't help but notice a beautiful woman, says relationship coach Jason Nik, and it's unreasonable to expect your husband to divert his glance whenever a pretty female walks by. "Looking is natural, and it's not even unhealthy as long as it's just looking, " Nik says.
Obviously, if your husband is full on flirting with another woman ( beautiful or not), confront him about his behavior.

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4. TO GIVE UP HIS PASSIONS, WHETHER PROFESSIONAL OR PERSONAL
Your husband's interests are likely part of what attracted you to him in the first place, so resist resenting the time and energy he spends on those things once you're married. "When a husband throws himself into work or a hobby, it isn't to ignore his family, but to ground himself for his overall happiness." That said, balance is key: His passion shouldn't deny you regular family time or a weekly date night at the Isi Ewu joint.

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