Teempakguy:
LOL, na wah oh.

STFUareyouGod:

Toks2008:


lol..as in?

STFUareyouGod:
just don't think whatever answer she gives will mean anything

Laveda:

Mznaett:
y

Toks2008:
It is no longer a new thing that after graduation of a male child from a tertiary institution,there is so much expectation from him especially the one whose parents had to make huge financial sacrifices and this male child is expected to do his best as regards the ability to provide for himself,his aging parents and also prepare to start a family and in a country where the cultural beliefs predominantly cast more weight on the men when it comes to marrying a lady since it is believed that it is the man who has to take most financial responsibility in the process of marriage ceremony and in some quarters,the bride price becomes too high for comfort not to mention the endless list of items and much more.

As if this is not enough for the male child,the female folks who have spent years in tertiary institutions to have a sound intellect and ought to be a succor in terms of encouragement and financial support have become an additional burden.

Despite all the wahala a male child have to overcome to be a "real man" as they tag it,the typical naija lady graduate will still expect the same man to carry her bukata join to his own.

Please understand this...there is absolutely nothing bad for a lady be a graduate or not to want,hope or desire a rich or financially ok guy...which lady will not want that? but when you go in search of one or make it a condition before saying yes to a man then you have crossed the line.And it gets even crazier by the day cos those ladies who have no opportunity of bagging a degree are unbelievably hard working as we can see many of them doing one thing or the other legitimately to be financially independent while the acclaimed graduates mostly pride themselves in speaking grammar with fake accent,they go about with fancy cloths,Brazilian hair and designer bags just looking for one unfortunate maga to buy them..how sad.

Ok lets take a look at this..In Nigeria,both the male and the female child go to the same private or public schools right from nursery to tertiary levels,we had the same educational qualification because the last time i checked the University as well as polytechnic degrees are awarded to both male and female...we go through NYSC together and start looking for jobs in the same labor market in the same country.It is even easier for a female graduate to get jobs compared to the male folks yet these same ladies expect these same guys to be "financially ok" enough to take care of them HABBA! what happened to equal opportunity to be financially ok since we are faced with same economy conditions. What sought of magic are these ladies expecting the male folks to perform? It even becomes more unrealistic and wicked when ladies are looking for financially ok guys in their 20s and early 30s.

This has made me conclude that its gradually becoming a waste of money and resources for some parents to send their daughters to school since they are likely to come out and dump the zeal and qualification just to start scouting for "financially ok guys" before they can think of making a headway for themselves in life.And if that is the case,there is no need to get a degree since they don't need that to get a rich guy as they can use their natural body degree to achieve that thereby saving the parents hundreds of thousands of naira.

So i am advising every Nigerian parent to ask their daughter this vital question before spending a dime on her tertiary education and beg her to tell them the truth;"Are you ready to go to school and acquire a degree to become self reliant financially or are you nursing the thought of going to school and latter come out to start looking for a rich guy or financially ok guy"?

Be observant to the way she answers and make up your mind.

Odiegwu.

Raalsalghul:
I love this!

MrsPhyno:
Ah this is lubbish o. What if she doesn't plan on getting a job, so you won't pay for her secondary school education either? Where do you draw the line? And what's to say that girls with a tonnn of education still don't want to marry "a rich man" and sit at home all day? How does it affect you? You as their future father should just do your duty and pay for the highest level of education they can/want to attain. They can work out the rest in their matrimonial houses.

Honestly, all of you that are screaming 'yes yes' over here probably don't have any kids yet so I'm not so surprised.

Rukkydelta:
I don't know why ? I just don't like reading the op's topics because they always get me annoyed. Please let the female gender be

Rukkydelta:
I don't know why ? I just don't like reading the op's topics because they always get me annoyed. Please let the female gender be

Toks2008:


I can show you the way to the lagos lagoon.

You dont like my threads yet you keep visiting them.

What is my own with ladies?im only stating the obvious and i sense its touching somewhere in you.

hoes69getwifed:



Nah, these guys can't have enough of us

Rukkydelta:

Yes some of your topics touches me by getting me angry cos you see female's as objects

Jolllyjoy:
And you think the girl child would be sincere with her response?


Heck no!!

Ask me such question and i will so impressed you with a response you never imagined.

Toks2008:


Lol then you have been reading my threads wrongly..next time ask questions and i will clarify..my threads will do you great good if you comprehend very well.

Rukkydelta:

thank you, some of your threads are good but others i can't say

Toks2008:


Good..though you look sweet but im more drawn to your decorum cos unlike many nairaland ladies who would have lashed out,you just comported yourself respectfully which shows your level of discipline.keep it up.

Ishilove:
Oga o, Toks I always admire your articles but this one is way off. Completely offpoint

I swear. The offpoint reminds me of my students in AKS that year, I would try so hard to read meaning, when I don't see any. I just use my red biro to cancel the work .

Even if toks creates a thread on rapture, trust me _ he would have a way of dragging females into it.

Wetin dey pain me pass be say, create a thread on careers, you would never see some of this Romanceland voltrons there. When do these kinda guys even hustle the money that babe would leech on?

Kachisbarbie:


I swear. The offpoint reminds me of my students in AKS that year, I would try so hard to read meaning, when I don't see any. I just use my red biro to cancel the work .

Even if toks creates a thread on rapture, trust me _ he would have a way of dragging female into it.

Wetin dey pain me pass be say, create a thread on careers, you would never see some of this Romanceland voltrons there. When do these kinda guys even hustle the money that babe would leech on?

Kachisbarbie:


I swear. The offpoint reminds me of my students in AKS that year, I would try so hard to read meaning, when I don't see any. I just use my red biro to cancel the work .

Even if toks creates a thread on rapture, trust me _ he would have a way of dragging female into it.

Wetin dey pain me pass be say, create a thread on careers, you would never see some of this Romanceland voltrons there. When do these kinda guys even hustle the money that babe would leech on?