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Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by IamSassy(f): 11:55pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
Hello nairalanders, pls, i just need you guyz to explain something to me. I want the married people here(unmarried peoople included) to please tell me what it takes to be married. How to know that you are ready for marriage. And how marriage affects ones life (as a woman). Thanx in advance. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by DennisEche(m): 11:57pm On Jul 02, 2015 |
am not yet married....... But i believe when the right time comes you should know 1 Like |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by Nobody: 12:02am On Jul 03, 2015 |
IamSassy: On three occasions I was engaged to be married....and I bailed on every one of them (one was a proposal I said yes to...then ran away....dunno if it counts) With each engagement I would wake up with a pounding heart and an elevated blood pressure...no kidding As soon as I broke each one....my body would be at peace At least that is a way to know you are NOT ready...when your heart thuds like it wants to escape from your poor chest, and you feel like the world is shutting down on you ...and you feel happier once the engagement is off I wish I could describe it better NB...this is totally independent of age....I would know 1 Like |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by IamSassy(f): 12:08am On Jul 03, 2015 |
Thanks, but i want to know if its possible to build ones career, manage the home, the husband and the kids at the same time. milychocs: |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by Nobody: 12:22am On Jul 03, 2015 |
Sex.. Be good at that and you're good to go |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by Cutehector(m): 6:59am On Jul 03, 2015 |
IamSassy:its not that possible nwadays... Just pray u hav an understandin husband... Why not build a carEer first...den wen u r half way up, u get married since u r very young nw.. |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by BlackBaron: 7:18am On Jul 03, 2015 |
IamSassy:Bit of counselling before marriage greatly helps I suppose. |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by pickabeau1: 9:22am On Jul 03, 2015 |
IamSassy: Not being sassy helps 2 Likes |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by bellong: 10:37am On Jul 03, 2015 |
IamSassy: Very possible. Career is something you build throughout your professional years as well as the family till death do you all part in old age. Finding a balance in all these tasks/aspirations is the key to having it all without stress. In achieving a peaceful and united home front with productive career, you should be thorough in spouse selection process. If you are joined with the wrong man, marriage will not be the institution meant to enjoy. However, if you marry a great and nice man, heaven is the only thing that "best" it. Your moniker though. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by IamSassy(f): 11:42am On Jul 03, 2015 |
pickabeau1: bellong:Lol, Sassy means different things. The 'sassy' i mean does not mean what you are thinking. it means confident, lively, stylish. NB: I ain't rude 2 Likes |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by jaybee3(m): 11:46am On Jul 03, 2015 |
IamSassy: It takes personal desire to get married but it takes wisdom and God’s guidance to stay married There is never any perfect time to get married. Being ready for marriage mean you are ready to accommodate other person’s differences, embrace flexibility of approach and understand the need to endorse your other half as your primary concern Marriage is an individual journey so you need to be in it to face your own unique challenges before you can understand how it affects one’s life. 3 Likes |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by jaybee3(m): 11:50am On Jul 03, 2015 |
IamSassy: Yes it's very possible hence the need to be flexible with your approach. Your other half has to be understanding and should be able to meet you half way where possible in order to balance want and need. Marriage ain't no rocket science. You are expected to juggle all the aforementioned together as a wife in 21st century marriages 1 Like |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by jaybee3(m): 11:54am On Jul 03, 2015 |
youngpol: What happens when the sexual desire declines? I'm sure you know it isn't ideal to have sexual favors as one of the most important reason for getting married 2 Likes |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by pickabeau1: 1:06pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
IamSassy: sassy- while there are other synonyms, the most common association is typically the first one
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sassy 1 Like |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by bukatyne(f): 2:25pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
bellong: Lovely post Re career building: I always wonder when people say they want to build their career to a stage before getting married. |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by bukatyne(f): 2:26pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
IamSassy: Sweetheart, none of us can help you You should be having this discussion with the man you want to get married to. 1 Like |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by Jennifer89(f): 3:09pm On Jul 03, 2015 |
How old are you? |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by Sunnypar(m): 10:18am On Feb 27, 2016 |
IamSassy:. Avicky PeyButtons Godmother Manie Adex15 Oluchidelly Blessedtwins |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by Godmother(f): 10:35am On Feb 27, 2016 |
IamSassy: Marriage is sweet, but it also requires some work. As to your question, it takes the following to be married: Love Maturity (emotional, financial) Tolerance Sacrifice Etc How does marriage change you? Well, you become more responsible for one and your priorities change slightly. You also have someone else's needs and desires to consider before making some decisions. Oh, and it brings you respect too 2 Likes |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by PeyButtons(f): 7:45pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
IamSassy:My dear Sassy, I've been married for 6 yrs now and talking from experience, the best thing to ever do before marriage is to basically know yourself to an extent. Because during marriage, many things happen like parenting will definitely have a great change in your life cos you'll have to balance all these very well - being a good wife, your career, your children & also nt forgetting ur family and inlaw. So my dear, once again KNOW YOURSELF VERY WELL. No one will tell you the right time to get married expect you cos u are the one involved. I hope this helps and I wish u all d best. |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by Sunnypar(m): 11:26pm On Feb 28, 2016 |
...... Peybuttons!!!!!!!! Its a lie. The yeye of Nairaland PeyButtons: |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by yvelchstores(f): 6:40am On Feb 29, 2016 |
IamSassy:It's good u are gathering information.u will need it so long it is from the right source tho. Let me give u my honest contribution: Ur man isnt perfect.even if he tries hard to look so. Pls give him a break when he offends u, don't crucify him.just get ready with a big heart to accommodate ur differences. It's not d way ur husband sees things u see them cos u two grew up in different worlds but try see things his way... Present ur advise to him as a suggestion. Don't impose it, men don't like feeling controlled. Be ready to take d blame n apologize when in a hot misunderstanding...latter on u can pour out ur heart wisely n u will get ur apology. If u can do these tins then u are almost der. The last piece will be to consult God. He will tell u if it's time to marry n wit whom. Misunderstandings happen, yes. Just try to learn from each one. That way, u better urself. 3 Likes |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by RiffRaff: 7:04am On Feb 29, 2016 |
Dont get married... It is a trap.. If you do not take the advice up there and decide to... Never marry a Nigerian, most of them are selfish and do not understand a woman can have a career. Marry your best friend.. someone who understands u, your hopes, fear, aspirations & can take almost anything from you. 1 Like |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by PeyButtons(f): 8:09am On Feb 29, 2016 |
Sunnypar:What is a lie? |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by Sunnypar(m): 8:18am On Feb 29, 2016 |
PeyButtons:seeing you on Nairaland |
Re: Pls.....explanation Is Needed. by PeyButtons(f): 8:49am On Feb 29, 2016 |
Sunnypar:So funny.....of course,I've always been around. So what's up!? 1 Like |
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