WORDS FROM A MOTHER TO HER DAUGHTER ABOUT
MARRIAGE
1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband
is not wise. The home is not a law
court.

2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home -
placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and
trousers -lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of
"women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband
simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace
through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help.
A man should be eager to run away from office to be
at home, for that should be the safest and closest
place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean
competition, It simply means
partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to
turn around and become the defacto head of the
home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing
with fire. If
you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of
an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he
assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that
feeling, the woman gently wields
her power and the head actually turns to wherever
the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends'
influence and advice or even from the control of her
mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses
women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife
But soon after
childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of
childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop
bothering about their looks,shape, dressing, etc.
Within 5 years of
marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the
man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her
defence is that if he truly loves her, he should love
her the way she is but when looking for a wife, he
saw people like the present YOU and ignored them
and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed
smelling of onions.... You go to bed wearing
grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with
your marriage? Love is not about looks - we know But
looks enhances love and marriage There is a
difference between someone disfiguring herself and
the person being disfigured by an accident.
Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be,
work on looking like you were when he first saw you
and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with
headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a
joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more
important to you than your husband, you need
prayers.


11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need
to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a
stone that has no
emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not
excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent
and presumptuous. A
wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend, A
girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and
always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a
girlfriend
does not try to win all arguments, does not call the
man a "useless man", is not careless about her looks
or dressing, always smiles
and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet
messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband's
girlfriend in word and in deed?

LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I
DIDN’T JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND
INFORM HIM AND HE WILL SORT
YOU OUT.

Op ur head dey there like dele. hope my future wife will come across this and take heed. i promise to take care of u. i promise insha Allah

Wise advice!really touching and full of inspiration!

to the ladies