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Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by mcyemite(m): 9:44pm On Jul 13, 2015
naijaboiy:
Your fiancè is probably suffering from erectile dysfunction.

So his dick can't rise except a blöw job is given to him.

But in my opinion blõw job is a part of fore play before sex and besides that's the only aspect a man can enjoy in fore play before sex. While you women enjoy getting sucked and licked and fingered and all other sorts of stuff.

You can't tell me your fìance doesn't return the favour to you too.

I honestly see no reason why you should be worried. It's part of sex.

On the other hand I think your fiancè should see a medical practitioner for help to solve the problem of erectile dysfunction. Drugs could be prescribed for him.

I hope this helps. undecided
nice one
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jul 13, 2015
mcyemite:
imaladiii grin tongue
Iranu abacha!!!
cheesy
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by conquerorsegun(m): 9:50pm On Jul 13, 2015
Wow.. Eating sumtin, seriously got no idea abt dis b4. It's clear nw lol tanx thou
PunkyVeer:


Stop acting all innocent lol. To put it mildly, both of them will be eating something, simultaneously. wink Get it?
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by vislabraye(m): 9:50pm On Jul 13, 2015
mcyemite:
This is a real life story of a friend, shes desperate and needs mature advice.


I am engaged to be married by Christmas. My relationship is 8 months old and all has been rosy and perfect but there is an issue that does not seem right.

Ever since our relationship became sexual, I found out that my man is obsessed with blow jobs. I thought it was an occasional thing but he keeps insisting on getting one before we make love.

I spent last weekend in his house and I decided to confront him when he started insisting that I must blow him again on Saturday morning before we make love. We came home around 2am from a night out in town and I was tipsy and tired. I told him that I was too down to blow him but that he can make love if he so wishes. He simply rolled over and slept off. When I asked him in the morning why he acted that way, he confessed to me that he can’t have an erection if he is not sucked. I thought it was a joke, I calmed him down and tried to dissuade him from that mindset. I decided to prove him wrong.

I did a strip tease, I wore a sexy cloth, I even downloaded porn which  we watched together yet no show. He told me again that he knows himself better that I should suck him and watch his erection come around. so I did and as a matter of fact it worked immediately. I don’t understand the whole thing. Please is this what I will cope with all my life? I love him but sucking dick for ever is not what I bargained for.

Pls serious advice is needed maybe she should go on or switch grounds..

This one serious oh. I'm sure he has been banging olosho well well. He must have picked up the habit somewhere and it doesn't want to let go.
But do you like bj? On the other hand, ask him to give yiu yours too tongue
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Nobody: 10:02pm On Jul 13, 2015
conquerorsegun:
Wow.. Eating sumtin, seriously got no idea abt dis b4. It's clear nw lol tanx thou

Lol, ok.

You also try to have a romantic "dinner" some time. Or even a breakfast in bed with the ms in your life. Hahaha.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by conquerorsegun(m): 10:10pm On Jul 13, 2015
Don't u like dat of lunch ni.... Or does dat av any side effect? Just asking
PunkyVeer:


Lol, ok.

You also try to have a romantic "dinner" some time. Or even a breakfast in bed with the ms in your life. Hahaha.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jul 13, 2015
conquerorsegun:
Don't u like dat of lunch ni.... Or does dat av any side effect? Just asking

lipsrsealed grin
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by conquerorsegun(m): 10:18pm On Jul 13, 2015
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by timm1990(m): 10:22pm On Jul 13, 2015
Jus put some pepper in ur mouth, giv him BJ and teach him some lesson

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Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by mcyemite(m): 10:32pm On Jul 13, 2015
WHAT HAPPEN!!!! shocked

Unto weytin??
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by orogodoganyin(m): 10:42pm On Jul 13, 2015
santakris:
My dear I will advice you to take off if you cannot cope. It's not too late now.
if she can't cope? a lady hu cums back @ 2am tipsy can't give head?
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jul 13, 2015
Well,it all depends,its just his mindset like u said,bt ali is no longer a boy,he must have grown to this belief,Bjs isn't bad,i beliv u love wen he sucks ur clit,talk with him abt it,tell him ur fears,if he's a good man,he could even mas.tubate himself before making love to you,to save u d stress. It all boils down to dialogue.
Goodluck.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Abbey2sam(m): 10:55pm On Jul 13, 2015
mcyemite:
Interestingly akward undecided..#oxymoron


remove the oxy and shes a slowpoke for ever,


for you to get fvcked you have to lick dickk....................dont worry you will get use to it........its a matter of time grin
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by gj22(m): 11:24pm On Jul 13, 2015
Seriously, I am shocked that a lot of girls don't know how a d1ck works.

We really need sex education in our schools.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by gj22(m): 11:28pm On Jul 13, 2015
naijaboiy:
Your fiancè is probably suffering from erectile dysfunction.

So his dick can't rise except a blöw job is given to him.

But in my opinion blõw job is a part of fore play before sex and besides that's the only aspect a man can enjoy in fore play before sex. While you women enjoy getting sucked and licked and fingéred and all other sorts of stuff.

You can't tell me your fìance doesn't return the favour to you too.

I honestly see no reason why you should be worried. It's part of sex.

On the other hand I think your fiancè should see a medical practitioner for help to solve the problem of erectile dysfunction. Drugs could be prescribed for him.

I hope this helps. undecided

Shut the f*ck up. He isn't suffering from erectile dysfunction. Jesus christ.

That's what works for him obviously from habit.

Is everything erectile dysfunction now a days?
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by naijaboiy: 11:41pm On Jul 13, 2015
gj22:


Shut the f*ck up. He isn't suffering from erectile dysfunction. Jesus christ.

That's what works for him obviously from habit.

Is everything erectile dysfunction now a days?
Comprehension is really a disease to cave dogs like you. undecided

What part of "probably" in my comment did you miss out?

Oh I forgot you are a blind goat.

Besides are you even the man in question? undecided

Why are you putting it on your head like gala?

Next time read properly before you jump and quote someone out of context like a foolish and confused hyena.

Ode!

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Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by gj22(m): 11:53pm On Jul 13, 2015
naijaboiy:

Comprehension is really a disease to cave dogs like you. undecided

What part of "probably" in my comment did you miss out?

Oh I forgot you are a blind goat.

Besides are you even the man in question? undecided

Why are you putting it on your head like gala?

Next time read properly before you jump and quote someone out of context like a foolish and confused hyena.

Ode!

Call me names, whatever. You gave a sh1t diagnosis. Girls get scared easily when they hear those words. What you said could end their relationship if she thinks it's true. You don't just utter words anyhow.

I know what it's like for a girl to think her BF has Erectile dysfunction just because she is ignorant.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by naijaboiy: 12:42am On Jul 14, 2015
gj22:


Call me names, whatever. You gave a sh1t diagnosis. Girls get scared easily when they hear those words. What you said could end their relationship if she thinks it's true. You don't just utter words anyhow.

I know what it's like for a girl to think her BF has Erectile dysfunction just because she is ignorant.
But you saw when I advised that he sees a doctor for check up.

Being unable to have an èrection naturally except after a blöw job is not a good thing.

I'm not in anyway advocating for their break up. Truth must be told and that's my own opinion.

She needs help and so she has to take advises.

You quoted me offensively and I had to return it. It was not in my intent to call you names.

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Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Roseey0(f): 1:15am On Jul 14, 2015
Wen you tell them to stop masturbatin they wont.
Learn to cope or u take d door. Na life time job be this o.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by braimeddy: 1:46am On Jul 14, 2015
This's called space booking grin
manee2:
So u actually suck dick?








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:DSo u actually suck dick?








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Ah jst love it cheesycheesy
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Richy4(m): 2:45am On Jul 14, 2015
I guess that's what works for him. It was a thing of the mind for him. His mindset needs to be reprogrammed.

Rocking the mic. Though is Part of sexual intercourse. Just the way some people hate/ like certain sex positions, that's how i see it.

And i don't think it was an erectile dysfunction. My guess was that he has watched a lot of porn in his young age before really practicing the real love making. And it was on his mindset that his pleasure pole will not stand except someone rocking it.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Nobody: 7:28am On Jul 14, 2015
boynigeria:
dont even tryna play the "im a Christian" card right now.....lets be real since u guys started d humpalumpa shitt got real

If he wants BJ give it to him as long as he's ready to return the favor. wont it be even boring without those
or are u from the 17th century?


100 likes.

I'm sick to death of the way sone Nigerians think. Is his requesting a bj before sex a kind of crime? you said you downloaded porn, did they not suck each other off before getting down to business?.

Please, dear, be sincere with yourself and stop being the typical selfish Niaja babe whose idea of sex is the missionary. Show him your wild side if you really do love him-Dont keep anything back-And watch him take you to the peak of sexual satisfaction too.

I'll conclude with the words of a famous sex expert - "Give a head, get ahead"

PS: I dont do it..But since he's your fiance and he wants it everytime-You cant do nothing but let him have it.

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Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by ULSHERLAN(m): 10:20am On Jul 14, 2015
jackyraw09:
why's it that here on NL the person having the problem is always 'a friend'.

i salute una conscience oo shocked

I tell u bro.

They use friend as a shield
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Nobody: 11:37am On Jul 14, 2015
I think he is addicted to bj. if he is ok wen u tease him with ur tongue, i will advice u to think if it as teasing his nipples just like he does to u but if d bj he desires is disturbing and animalistic, then its better u get out of d relationship because im sure he will beat u up in future if u refuse to do it someday.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Nobody: 11:44am On Jul 14, 2015
naijaboiy:

But you saw when I advised that he sees a doctor for check up.

Being unable to have an èrection naturally except after a blöw job is not a good thing.

I'm not in anyway advocating for their break up. Truth must be told and that's my own opinion.

She needs help and so she has to take advises.

You quoted me offensively and I had to return it. It was not in my intent to call you names.

A real man is supposed to be aroused at d slightest, bj was supposed to be given freely wen u want to slow him down and heighten his pleasure not a by force thing. I cant imagine stressing my mouth daily that is if they do it daily.

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Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Ephemmm: 1:19pm On Jul 14, 2015
naijaboiy:
Your fiancè is probably suffering from erectile dysfunction.

So his dick can't rise except a blöw job is given to him.

But in my opinion blõw job is a part of fore play before sex and besides that's the only aspect a man can enjoy in fore play before sex. While you women enjoy getting sucked and licked and fingéred and all other sorts of stuff.

You can't tell me your fìance doesn't return the favour to you too.

I honestly see no reason why you should be worried. It's part of sex.

On the other hand I think your fiancè should see a medical practitioner for help to solve the problem of erectile dysfunction. Drugs could be prescribed for him.

I hope this helps. undecided

The guy should stop self-servicing, simple. If he is not self-servicing, eating much chocolates would be of help.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Mcowubaba: 2:06pm On Jul 14, 2015
PunkyVeer:
He sounds inconsiderate & self absorbed. Suggests a 69 position each time he makes outrageous demands on you, so that he understands exactly where you're coming from.
U self..
A tit for a tat
Relationship/Love is not a game or a "do me I do scenario"
Wat is inconsiderate abt his request...he may have some psychological issue or sexual orientation- which can be adequately corrected through medications, prayers, determination..e.t.c

So following by ur logic...if my girl should keep asking me to buy shoes nd bags for her..I should in-turn ask her to buy Shirts nd trousers for me sad
Wat a flawed logic sad
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by tunexkiboy: 2:14pm On Jul 14, 2015
I swear, I jus had to comment on dis....... My Comment: "Laffffffffffffff" #done
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Nobody: 2:18pm On Jul 14, 2015
Mcowubaba:

U self..
A tit for a tat
Relationship/Love is not a game or a "do me I do scenario"
Wat is inconsiderate abt his request...he may have some psychological issue or sexual orientation- which can be adequately corrected through medications, prayers, determination..e.t.c

So following by ur logic...if my girl should keep asking me to buy shoes nd bags for her..I should in-turn ask her to buy Shirts nd trousers for me sad
Wat a flawed logic sad

There's nothing flawed about my logic & I'll tell you why.
This guy doesn't seem to care about her needs/feelings & only cares about what HE wants.

She mentioned that she was tired one time after a night out. He wanted to be blown as usual, but she turned him down, offering to have sex with him instead. What did this guy do? He turned over & went to sleep. No explanation. I'm sure that made her feel rejected. Love is give & take. And this person doesn't seem to get it. He's selfish. If his needs aren't met then to hell with everything else, including her feelings. If that doesn't sound inconsiderate to you, then I don't know what else to say.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jul 14, 2015
The dude is not attracted to you.... He isnt romantically in tune with you. U shouldnt marry him at all.
Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Enahi(f): 2:39pm On Jul 14, 2015
Babe please tell your friend to run,dump him and his dead di*k asap. We ladies know how easily turned on some Men get even without getting naked. His case is not ordinary,He needs deliverance.

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Re: My Fiancee Insist On Getting B.j First by Enahi(f): 2:45pm On Jul 14, 2015
Brokenbars:


A real man is supposed to be aroused at d slightest, bj was supposed to be given freely wen u want to slow him down and heighten his pleasure not a by force thing. I cant imagine stressing my mouth daily that is if they do it daily.
as in,I never hear her type of story before. She even had to strip and even watch porn, d guy's di*k is obviously addicted to BJ only. He is not even attracted to her.

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