Ladies this might sound funny but it is real, what would you do if your husband tells you he is impotent on your wedding day would you still marry him or call off the wedding after you have already invited people.

asanga himself

...call it off.


oops i'm not a lady. I'm sorry

then layi that is not love

i'll screeeaaammmm..but i dont know what to say

hell..no, i will run out of the church.............
But, if he really loves you, he should tell you before the wedding day.

If i am marrying him for money (of which i don't see myself doing)... I'll think well well... Then i'll stay, chop some money and divorce him later.

If i am marrying for love... God e go hard ooo.. I'll first of all run out and cancel the wedding. Then i'll think and think.... and think.... And decide to marry him, cos of the love. He's impotent don't mean we cant have sex... And there are soo many kids waiting to be adopted. WHy not? I'll marry him. And adopt two cute babies. A boy and a girl... or God bless me there r twins to be adopted.

cancel the wedding, find another man. If he's lied or hidden something like this, what else is in the closet?

Impotent how? He can't get an erection or he cannot produce sperm?

Either way if I loved him enough to want to get married, him being impotent would not make my love disappear for him.

Like Vexxy said, I need to know exactly the level of impotency, he can't get an erection (he shld forget me, marry fire!!!).
If he can't produce sperm, I'll probably stay. But the fact is while dating he hid it from me, what more will he hide
Why I say I'll probably stay is becos if he can have an erection we can do something about the sperm, or adopt kids, but the erection stuff....., I can't marry a drug addict (addicted to viagra)

God Forbid

impoten what. oh pls if that ever happen to me, _{God forbid}. i am not going on with the wedding, i dont want to know the level of his impotency. oh pls, am out.

Mennnnnnn!!!! YOU ------- ARE-------OUT.......FINITO!!!!!

What are you waiting for? Call off the wedding immediately!

god for bid, i will run away and call off the wedding immediately

Ohh i just thought of something.

I will also tell him I'm barren. Then wait to see how he reacts. If he acts like.. "OH HELL NO".. I will call off the wedding. If he acts like "Awwwwwww.... we both have problems?" I WILL STILL CALL OFF THE WEDDING!

what of he fail to tell you before wedding..........and stay cool till after yu have said ....[size=5pt]till death do us part?

tunjikrown:

what of he fail to tell you before wedding..........and stay cool till after yu have said ....[size=5pt]till death do us part?

we nova yet die so we go part (hastily) jare!!!

There's always an option for divorce.

I will rather marry him and let God be the intervener

then i will know that he is a killer

IMPO wat?My mama must not hear.
Come to think of it,if it were to be the other way round its the mother in - law that will first pursue the wife.They wont allow u adopt any child even if u let them understand d fact dt u're in love.They'll definitely find a way of sending her out.Na wa for mother in laws o.
I no dey do o.I want a child of my own.

Hot-angle.wht u said is very much easier said than done, u r talking 'bout love, y didn't the guy tell u a long time before then, so u too wud have sat down and talked about what to do and all that? Can u really do such?
well.............i'll have to call off the whole thing wedding planned or not! such a man can kill me if he can keep sucha thing away from me for so long a time. I wud have considered marrying him if only he had told me a bit earlier!
But now, it's 2 late, even 3 late and i'll have to call off the charade of a wedding

I believe that every secret/problem should be let out before marriage that is when u're very sure that the marriage will hold, and if ur partner really love's u both of u can work something out..but if u conceal any secret and later ur spouse find's out by him/herself, definitely there's bound to be problem. In this particular case, for the man to have hidden such a big problem mean's he could really do more worse things..i don't think he really love's the girl rather he wanted to ruin her if not he would have told her long before the marriage and if the girl really love's him, she'll stick with him. If God forbid i happen to be the one in that situation, without thinking twice i'll call off the wedding immediately.

exactly

i'll shoot him to death, thats the only thing that befits da m@#$%^&*ker!!! just thank God i aint no female..

Ceekay:

i'll shoot him to death, thats the only thing that befits da m@#$%^&*ker!!! just thank God i aint no female..

Now, now Ceekay............mind your manners!

when VIAGRA never finish.....

i will !!!!!get and faint!!!!when i gain my consiousness i just don't know what ild tell him!!!!ill probably faint again!!!! i'll call off the wedding i guess?cause if thats the fact then what are we eveen marrying for?/? thou it will be really hard for me!!!

humans can be very funny. this question should have being a vis versa one, cos it could also be the female here. Anyway if i love him, i'll probably stay,only if its a sperm thing. i have no qualms with adoption, but i do with sex . am a very emotional person, and can't see my self holding him all the time without sex(hell no!!!!). if its an erection problem which am sure cannot be cos any man that stays close to me without having a hard-on is probably sick so i'll know before hand, and won't even let it get to that stage before quiting.

what ever level of impotency, if he is courageous enough to reveal that before our wedding, i will marry him if i really love him and i will pray to God to heal him

Hmmmm, thank God he told me before n not after the wedding. It's over for good. _{anyways , its not my portion}[color=#006600][/color]!

of course i'll go ahead and marry him what happened to ''in sickness and in health till death do us part''if im marrying a man, im not doing so because of his abilities but because of the love i have for him if you dont marry him, then who do you expect to marrry him cant you adopt a baby or something i mean i know it's not the best but it's already happened and the seem like the best thing to do

Rhodalyn:

of course i'll go ahead and marry him what happened to ''in sickness and in health till death do us part''if im marrying a man, im not doing so because of his abilities but because of the love i have for him if you don't marry him, then who do you expect to marrry him can't you adopt a baby or something i mean i know it's not the best but it's already happened and the seem like the best thing to do

in case you did not know, that only applies AFTER you get married.