Men's disinterest in marriage is a growing concern. Girlfriends have to wait for what seems like ages before he finally pops the questions.

Marriage is definitely a good thing; you can always get sound second opinions, new source of encouragement, better quality of food amongst others.

In view of these, what are the possible challenges and deterrents that scare men and what can be potentially done

COMMITMENT!

Men are natural cheaters, so its hard for them to commit to someone forever.
They wanna remain single and be sleeping with different women.

another reason is finance. they may not have money for bride price and other stuff, so it'll make them pop the question late. I bet if it were the ladies paying bride price and other wedding payments, its men dat'll be complaining now nt women! lol (no offense to my fellow ladies out there )

Marriage is scary to promiscuous people that is all

Try it and see.

Yup itz scary.......dont ask me y.

I hear it is and I have seen enough to confirm the claim.

yep very scary cos its for the bi+ches and when they Finally lure you into the hole with fake attitudes and their apple (pu$$¥) then you realize you re in hell with the devil/serpent (women)

save for having a child and raising a family men aren't interested in marriage...


F*ck pus$¥
F*ck marriage!!

MsBliss:
I hear it is and I have seen enough to confirm the claim.

Lol, so u won't be getting married?.. The purpose of the thread is to get enough evidence that despite all the bad sides, marriage is still worth it

EroticAngelina:
COMMITMENT!

Men are natural cheaters, so its hard for them to commit to someone forever.
They wanna remain single and be sleeping with different women.

another reason is finance. they may not have money for bride price and other stuff, so it'll make them pop the question late. I bet if it were the ladies paying bride price and other wedding payments, its men dat'll be complaining now nt women! lol (no offense to my fellow ladies out there )

So basically if Nigeria adopted the Indian style of marriage more men will be willing to marry?

As far as commitment goes, we have jazz to take care of that

marriage was based on the fact dat d wife will be submissive and be catered for by the man. bt with the feminist and gender equality bulShi.t women are now men in d real sense. sone women are bread winners too nowadays. the west that we are copying marriage is going extinct. wen i was in d uk. u jst hv a man or woman having kids with diff pple. marriage non existent. some women in nigeria also see marriage as a way to escape poverty. d divorce rate nowadays self is scary. God help us all o

It depends on the perspective u look at it from

MsBliss:
I hear it is and I have seen enough to confirm the claim.

me too,u will just feel as if,u re being imprisoned

EroticAngelina:
COMMITMENT!

Men are natural cheaters,

Men are not natural cheats. Whether man or woman whoever wants to cheat cheats because he chooses to, not because it is natural. One or two cases of cheating men around you isn't case enough for such conclusion. Cheers!