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6 Ways To Enjoy Being Single by Kangol99(m): 2:43pm On Jul 19, 2015
You don’t have to be in a relationship to have fun.
Being single is equally great.
Yes, being in a relationship is great. It makes you
happy and you surely get to spend a memorable
time
with your loved one. But that doesn’t mean you
cannot have fun all by yourself as well.
Being single is necessary at times, it helps you
understand yourself better and also lets you do
things that you otherwise wouldn’t have been able
to,
had you been with someone.
Read the tips below and discover how to be “happily
single”:
Go on a holiday alone: One of the best ways to enjoy
yourself is by venturing out all by yourself. It makes
you feel liberated and builds your confidence as
well.
Choose a destination as per your personality. If you
love shopping Paris would be a great option or if you
love water sports Thailand or Venice could be your
best bet if you can afford it.
Focus on your career: If you have a job that you love,
this is the time to concentrate on it. Says clinical
psychologist Mimrah Ansari, “Spending your
maximum time to work will not only help you
achieve
a professional high, but will also make you feel
happy
and powerful. This does not mean that you have to
turn into a workaholic, but giving your best at your
job will liberate you as well.”
Spend time with friends: If you have missed out on
socialising with your gang of pals, go ahead and
party
hard. You could meet your friends over the weekend
or simply call them over to your place after work
hours and just chill with them. These memories will
go a long way in nurturing you and creating
wonderful memories.
Shop or go out for a movie: How many times have
you cancelled plans because your guy or girl couldn’t
make it for that late night show? Well, you don’t have
to rely on them anymore. There is something about
going out all by yourself to watch a movie or simply
shop. Says relationship counselor, Sauleha Shaikh,
“Most people don’t like the idea of going out all by
themselves. It helps build your confidence and also
shapes your personality. It teaches you to be
independent.”
Live for yourself, not by yourself: Often people
confuse between living for themselves with living by
themselves. You must realise that this is the time
that
you need to invest in yourself. It shouldn’t be your
aim to only look out for love, rather it should be a
quest to find yourself and learn how you can be the
best. If you have been thinking of learning a new
language or doing some sort of social work, do it
now. Spend this time to enhance yourself.
Revisit your interests/hobbies: Utilise this time to
indulge in your interests. If you love cooking, simply
start your own cooking class and invite your friends
or neighbours to come and learn from you or if you
love gardening, create your own garden on the
terrace or balcony.
Essential tips for living the perfect single life:
This is the time for introspection rather than looking
out for love once again.
Reflect on your past relationships and try and learn
from the mistakes that you have made in the past.
Be prepared for love to come in your life rather than
preparing for it.
Be open to meeting and interacting with new people
in your life, just don’t hold onto old ones.
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Life is full of change, and that change eventually leads
to whatever in our hearts.
Re: 6 Ways To Enjoy Being Single by kossyablaze(m): 2:48pm On Jul 19, 2015
For d guys...always make soap or cream handy Girls.....cucumber or banana can do the magic

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Re: 6 Ways To Enjoy Being Single by archangel101(m): 2:49pm On Jul 19, 2015
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Re: 6 Ways To Enjoy Being Single by Kingsasian(m): 2:51pm On Jul 19, 2015
I love this.

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