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Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by marriagebliss: 1:07pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Refuse to see the glass half empty rather see it as half full- DO NOT take irrational decision DO NOT entertain any evil thought against your husband or marriage DO NOT entertain idle talk or gossip from friends and relatives about your marriage STOP stalking him – get busy if you are presently not DO NOT resent him Shut your eyes to his perceived short comings Focus on the man you married and make the best of your home, Your marriage is for eternity but your BIL’s stay is a temporary arrangement (Talk to a good (female) soul that has bn married for more than 12 years) The above conditions may not be easy but trust me this cup will pass you by, if you handle it this way- one day you and your hubby will look back and make joke out of this ugly incident. The Wounded Healer |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by delishpot: 1:07pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Your Bro Inlaw did funny move you no raise dust? Abeg, women of today when soneone of trust makes funny move. Run and shout it out. Shout and talk to a neighbour or two to come and see what has just happened. Call your spouse, let the world know what he did so that he can be removed from the vicinity. When you bottle it up, you end up becoming the victim. Do not remain in that house with such a man or person. You could be harmed to keep the case hidden. If you say it out, he will be too embarassed to continue living with you. 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by amInigerian: 1:09pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Will be nice if you can get evidence of his trying to get with you. Then just keep it as an ace in your stack of cards. Help him get a job too (with your husband as the in-between person) and speak worriedly to your husband about his getting married and settling down as he is not getting younger. Do not confront again. It doesn't change men like that |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by obinna1984(m): 1:12pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
lagmostkuit: that will be a wrong move why not to his friends and see if that can change her and as for u lagmostkuit am new here and am having a crush on u |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by cuteoly(f): 1:25pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
I don't know why men forget that they can ruin their life and that of their families when they cheat on their partners. Op, I will advice you not to discuss it yet with his family members because it won't solve the problem. If you guys do pray together, keep praying against any man or woman that is out to destroy your home. And always discuss the implication of adultery with him. You can also share these passages with him; Ephesians 5:31, Hebrews 13:4 and proverb 6:32. Don't worry, God will see you through. I have once been there and I know how it hurts. You have to intensify your prayers, and do not leave night vigil out. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by kkboy(m): 1:30pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
If you have Children concentrate on them, Ignore your husbands attitude and actions. Be more loving and prayerful and watch out. "Agaracha must come back" with a beg for that matter. Try it and you will testify. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by xtervaganza(m): 1:54pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
so your brother in law wants to break your home? wheres rat poison when u need it |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by maureeoy: 1:54pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
soonest: very true 2 Likes |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by maureeoy: 2:03pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
He does not fear God and respect u as his wife. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by maureeoy: 2:06pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
kkboy: It is not every time agaracha comes back to beg ooooooo before u know it another woman DON TAKE OVER |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by wurnoahmad(m): 2:08pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
My friend shit happen sometimes, but notwithstanding women are known for cleaning up their husbands MESS. Talking to him was the first approach to be taken by any wise woman and you did just that, the second step is left for you if you really love your husband. from negotiation to action. got it? |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by sashacoleman: 2:11pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
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Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by refreshrate: 2:25pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
6ty6ix: Or just put poison in his food. one less piece of waste product. 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by chamstick(m): 2:32pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
MixedMan: Don't you have a pastor? Or a spiritual leader? As a woman u should... Coming only for advice will confuse u more cos u get diverse ideas and evry 1 with different opinion . So I expect U to. Tnx *mr.calikor @gmail.com |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by grandstar(m): 2:38pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
MixedMan: I really don't know what to say. Adultery is wrong. Its better you make your point clear that to you husband that his brother is irresponsible encouraging him to womanise. Here in Nigeria, womanising is belittled by men and even seen as normal. It is not. Let your husband know its irresponsible and must end the habit. Next "set" up your brother in law. Always have a means of recording events on you. Whenever he makes a move on you, record it and expose it to your husband. He is a good for nothing fellow |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Mancity26: Which one is calabar style? |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by FRANKOXY(m): 3:06pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
pray and remain faithful to him. exodus 14 Vs 14 is OK for you to stand on. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by NobleG1(m): 3:12pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
MixedMan: Your problem is NOT your brother-in-law, it's your husband. A man who doesn't want to cheat on his wife will not cheat. If he was the type that doesn't cheat, your brother-in-law would know and won't try to "help" him to cheat. Your husband has been cheating on you even before your brother-in-law came. You only noticed it now because you don't like your brother-in-law and realized since he came to the your home, you noticed your husband has been coming home late frequently. Your brother-in-law is a blessing to you in disguise because without his presence, your husband would continue cheating under the radar unnoticed by you. Now you have confirmed his cheating ways, give him a serious ultimatum to either change or lose you and the children! Keep monitoring him secretly and gather as many evidence as possible in case of divorce because that's where the marriage should be heading if he doesn't change. If you try everything and he still cheats, DIVORCE him. Remember, gather enough evidence to have leverage in your divorce case. It will help you win the custody of your children, properties (if there are) and cash for child-support. 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by fortunechy(m): 3:22pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
srry,i dont put mouth on marriage issue. just go down on ur kneels. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by mimiwhite4real(f): 3:38pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
My dear my advice 4 u is go on knees and ask God bundle him out of home |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by toniet: 3:43pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Pray about it and also try to talk things out with your husband |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Dbboy(m): 4:27pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
lantessy: You are as clueless as your president. Some one is in an active problem and your recommendation is prayers, no wonder Nigeria is bad by the day, if you don't have any relevant solution, I suggest you keep your invisible God one side because for all I care that is not a solution. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Sparkles003(f): 5:04pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
MixedMan:Prayer is thy key. Prayer is thy key. Prayer is thy master key. Jesus started with prayer and ended with prayer. Prayer is thy master key. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by borntwice2008(m): 5:09pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
As already mention, pray for your husband, package yourself and look more sexy than before, give yourself to him on bed with different styles ....... Finally use women power to get him( your husband ' s brother out of your home |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Your husband is going to club and you're accusing his younger brother for his actions. Since you're not truthful to yourself by shifting blames, I don't see your husband stopping soon . The problem here is your husband not his brother. I see no reason why a 38yrs old man is living under his elder brother's roof, tell your husband to pay for an apartment for him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by phintohlar(f): 6:15pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
0luwatope:hey.. U style wicked ooh 4ny anyway.. But like seriously na only God go save us 4rm dis our so called husband's chai.. 1 Like |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Mancity26(m): 6:21pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
lonelydora:Dats tru |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Mancity26(m): 6:22pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
RedBenson:Na for my mouth u wan hear am? I mean sabiness |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by phintohlar(f): 6:24pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
No kill ur sef cos of 1 man ooh cos if u do..Thousands women go match ur grave.. D only thing u can do in dis kind of situation is 2 be prayerful, eat good food,put ur mind at rest & leave d rest 4 God & pls don't also 4get 2 protect ur sef anytime he said oya.. Cos even if u talk 4rm now till next year he no go hear untill dem teach dem lesson outside their head no dey correct & as for dat ur broda in-law leave dat 1 ooh na God go handle hin case. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by bemyguest(f): 7:50pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Organise three days dry fasting and prayers on top your brother in law head. pray him out of your home. he is definately a physical escorter to your marriage. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
obinna1984:Thanks for crushing on me.. |
Re: My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 9:51pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Frankly my dear, YOU ARE JOBLESS! Since when did having a husband become a full-time JOB? 2 Likes |
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