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If she has moved on . . . What stops You from doing same??
Besides 'Ogbanje' or 'Jazz'. . . Some pple walk into Your life and leave
indelible footprints . . .It doesn't necessarily mean it's spiritual.
Put Yourself in order . . . She is married!! Let her remain what she is . . . .an Ex.

@ poster as time goes on you we find one that is better than her
pls let her go she has become another man wife.

indeed i've bn tryin 2 move on 4 d better part of 2 yrs yet it seems an impossible task

indeed i've bn tryin 2 move on 4 d better part of 2 yrs yet it seems an impossible task

@ topic
is she don jazzy?

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]@ poster "person wey dem jazz no dey know". so she didnt jazz u , u just dont want to let go man, may be na her lovemaking or some other attitudes of hers, na u sabi.u need deliverance from all abiku bondage, release, [/font]

Don't be selfish. From what you've said so far, I think you want her back because you can't control your emotions. She's married my dear and there's nothing you can do about that. I would advice you to detach yourself and stop mounting unnecessary pressure on her; because if she gives in to your pressure and starts having affairs with you. . . and her marriage crashes, God would hold you responsible. And believe me your life would be worse than the way it is presently because you be under a curse. So in order to avoid unnecessary gallops in life, you must learn to respect other peoples marriages.

Missy B:

If she has moved on . . . What stops You from doing same??
Besides 'Ogbanje' or 'Jazz'. . . Some pple walk into Your life and leave
indelible footprints . . .It doesn't necessarily mean it's spiritual.
Put Yourself in order . . . She is married!! Let her remain what she is . . . .an Ex.

gbam well put

guy nobody has you jazzed

you are the one choosing to feel this thingy you are

she isnt available let her be ,guy


once you do. . . .i am sure you will find someone who will measure up

Guy she did nothing to you. It might just be that there's something about her that you had grown attached to in the time you were together. Maybe the fact that she has moved on to another level and you consider yourself to be at the same place you were when it ended makes you long for a relationship with her to upgrade you to where you wish to be.

The best thing for you to do is to keep trying to forget her and find someone who you're more in tune with, even with your present state of mind, and let her help you get out the low you find yourself in.[sub][/sub]grgjyjnfhyhfxz

Ogbanje? Abiku?
Perhaps you are simply thinking with your crotch?

efeski:

indeed i've bn tryin 2 move on 4 d better part of 2 yrs yet it seems an impossible task

I find it interesting when people very quickly and very comfortably use abstract issues/notions to mask thier in-competencies and weaknesses.

You are weak in the knees for her. It's as simple as that efeski. You neva tried or attempted to move on. You have consoled yourself with the fact that since YOU know HER buttons and you clearly understand how to use them  . . . . this means that she has not moved on. Do you know that with every new man in a woman's life; new buttons are created and most of the old ones either become defunct or passive?

You are hurting yourself by holding on to her mentally. She did not jazz you. You jazzed yourself. I believe, in life, you are in control of every situation. Your control can only be defined by your reaction to each individual situation. Life is about choices and discipline.

Make a choice and discipline yourself to stick to it.

@poster,
if anyone dey jazz himself na u dey jazz urself.how come u r even tinkin of havin somtin wit a married lady ur ex gal or not,& pls wen u see a pastor tell him 2 flog u

spoilt:

Ogbanje? Abiku?
Perhaps you are simply thinking with your crotch?

lol.

am with you bro, its possible you don chop love portion, visit the oracle

O! this is damn superstitious. I really hope she loved much more than any other man. D real fact is that she didn't jazz u. Like menace001 said person wey dem jazz no dey no. Pls, get along n keep searching 4 ur own missing rib, leave her pls she is married. U HEAR!!!!! God go bless u nyafu nyafu if u do so.

@poster
they have said it all
but to be on the safe side go for deliverance too

am with you bro. sorry dont be afraid . O rie fo ka si be

abiku's are very principled??
LOL!!!

o boy dont kid urself. if na abiku she really be u for don die since! love or no love.

all dese yeye gurls wen the 'confess' to abikuism self thier making it hard for we normal girls!!

@ OP


See your smelly mouth. . .

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