Ebony-Silk:

- Open relationship (check)
- He still loves his ex (check)
- Gives you half of him emotionally/physically (check)
- You can't concentrate in school because of him (check)
- Been in the relationship for 5 months (check)


Dump his ass. I don't know why women put up with this nonsense. We don't need it.
He treats you well, but still loves his gf. . . . so what? I treat my heels better than my flats, but I still love my flats any day any time. They're so comfortable

amebo no1.:

@poster

pay no mind to d pple telling u to quit,you cant quit until u talk things out with him,and your quitting depends on d outcome of dat conversation

1. for all we know,u might be d one imagining things

2. the guy gives u the attention u need,is carin like you said

3. no proof dat he is cheating on you,maltreating you,or beating you

sometimes we women walk out of certain situations wt no reason, and at the end of d day we end up frustrated

you know your problem? inferiority complex ,the earlier u work on dat complex the better for you,cos the girl u r killing urself for im so sure does not care about you

what beats me is why u allow an ex or a fellow woman like you,intimidate your emotions

talk to him about it,and sort yourself out

why not try and win his heart d same way if not more than his ex,you can make him forget that girl like so easy you can shift his whole attention to urself

stop feeling inferior ,dats your problem

tonye-t:

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old things stinks, new things scents, this is more reason why i know he may never gpo for the ex again

i still have that problem with my ex'es, i have had over 5 dates i personally broke-up with, now for everytime i think about them, i jus feel i should still be with them, but then there are some other things i never liked about them

old things stinks, new things scents, this is more reason why i know he may never gpo for the ex again

i still have that problem with my ex'es, i have had over 5 dates i personally broke-up with, now for everytime i think about them, i jus feel i should still be with them, but then there are some other things i never liked about them

yeah yeah your bf still remenissces his ex, but that aint mean he wants her again believe me, because if he does, he wont have come for you or still stick around till date, my advise is that you try as much as possible to let that thought off your head because they say that "whatever we think is what eventually happens,even though they may not have been designed that way"-this i call the power of our thoughts

tope2000:

@OP
Stop being paranoid

Czarskit:

I suggest that you start having feelings for your ex as well! 50 - 50 no cheating! *kidding*


I can't b of much help 'cos I'm in same shoes with u (mine's even worse & has a lot of twists and turns).

So right now, I'm just 'free lancing'. . . Doing wateva, howeva, whereva & wheneva and expecting d worst (as well as the best). Don't let it disturb u in anyway (academically or wicheva way). Let's say u leave him and he still doesn't return to his ex? That'll b a lot worse 4 u 2 bear. . .


We often worry ourselves unnecessarily. . . So just face ur books & ur man and turn ur back on those crappy thoughts. . . Gudluck! Beta still, do what u deem right. Who knows, U might just be right. . .