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Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by pickabeau1: 10:38am On Jul 22, 2015 |
Chidoks: Ok edwife: No...37m people are registered on the site There are other sites and channels Hmmmmm...You are on to something A lot of users will be cat fishes Fake accounts I am miffed with the 2 bit level of online security used by this site. Yeah....Lawyers will make a killing People will see more reasons not to marry Vicious cycle |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by White007(m): 11:14am On Jul 22, 2015 |
Marriage is an absolete institution. We are hypocrits in not admitting. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by edwife(f): 11:46am On Jul 22, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Yea i got that part,was just saying the 37 M people are the one we know,other sites exist of course.Just to tell you that the number of married people seeking extra marital affairs is higher than we want to admit. This is what someone said and i quote:Just who says we're supposed to be monogamous ( some phony religious Arrow? ) turns out that recent scientific research demonstrates that the entire biological world is promiscuous. In fact the delusional human is the only monogamous creature variety (and genetic variance) is good for any species -- humans are inbreeding and will crash the species if they keep it up. For me,when you are in a relationship you can do what you want as long as you don't infringe on the right of the others.I think it is safer for the law to preside around ethics rather than morality. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by pickabeau1: 11:54am On Jul 22, 2015 |
edwife: lol
Does the person advocate for genetic compatibility aka inceest
Pls explain ethics vs morality |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by Nobody: 11:56am On Jul 22, 2015 |
I need to open a site of this nature that will cater to Nigerian women. The profits will be enormous. 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by bukatyne(f): 12:28pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
edwife: You believe in open marriages? |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by bukatyne(f): 12:29pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
@OP: Interesting Perhaps the American 'high' divorce rates are justified. 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by edwife(f): 12:31pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I have no idea,i just found it interesting i just had to post it. Pls explain ethics vs morality ethics is how you treat people you don't know, you have absolutely no personal connection to them and never will whereas moral is what makes you a good husband,wife,daughter ..... Moral is subjective that's why different cultures and religions have different morals.Whether religious or not,everyone should be aware that we all have flaws one way or the other; If we choose to be merciless to someone who has done wrong, how then should we be treated when we do wrong? |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by edwife(f): 12:32pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Coming from you,i ain't surprised... |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by pickabeau1: 12:39pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
edwife: Funny ..the quote was funny I get the difference but I meant in this instance as regards ashley madison Why did u raise it as a dilemma in this scenario |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
edwife: If only you knew how many women are collecting this thing steady undercover. I might as well get paid in the process. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by edwife(f): 12:44pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
bukatyne: Is open marriage good for those who believe in it,YES. I don't believe in it my instance about marriage is this,be honest with your partner-if a man decides to be with more than one spouse,it is his choice and i have the responsibility to decide if i want to partake in it or not. Life is about choices. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by crackhaus: 12:48pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Resident brainwashed indeed Any African who even remotely insinuates that whites/non-africans are more faithful is not only brainwashed but more importantly, lacking the most common of all common sense. I honestly found nothing surprising about the number. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by 5minsmadness: 12:50pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
Timbuktou: But is polygamy really that bad if all partners are consenting and fairly treated? You'll be surprised that it's the Americas that will revive it sef 1 Like |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by crackhaus: 12:51pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
Timbuktou:My brother, dem plenty I tell you... |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by crackhaus: 12:53pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
5minsmadness:But someone keeps saying that polygamy is unfair to one party...as if anyone forces whoever feels unfairly treated to stay. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by 5minsmadness: 12:54pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: Yup. Things are rounding up. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by edwife(f): 12:55pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Because many people tend to judge people who indulge in extra marital affairs,polygamy or so when we are unaware of the nuances of each of their stories, their marriages and their personal experiences. Never judge someone until you walk a mile in their shoes. So we should be careful to what we say or advice we give to people,people are free to live a life that counters morality. Adultery is a moral issue but more of a character issue. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by crackhaus: 12:56pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
edwife:Touché |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by edwife(f): 12:56pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
Timbuktou: making an opportunity out of a bad situation....clever. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by freecocoa(f): 12:57pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
Timbuktou:Yimu. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by edwife(f): 12:58pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
crackhaus: |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by 5minsmadness: 12:58pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
crackhaus: I have never seen a case of polygamy when the second or third etc etc wife was forced into it (barring child marriages where the first girl wife wasn't even asked before she was handed over to her bethrothed). They are actually quite happy to be married as the next wife. It's the first wife that squeezes face. Even at that I'll seen cases where madam number one was quite happy with her husband's choice. At least they don't have to worry about secret mistresses outside. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
edwife: Agree completely except I would use the word choice/right instead of responsibility. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by pickabeau1: 1:11pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
crackhaus: Lol edwife: Ok I get you now |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by edwife(f): 1:11pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
5minsmadness: That is why we presume we know but we don't.How can we know that they are being forced to stay?How many of us can actually be certain that it is the case without being involved or coming from such family. No adult is forced to stay in a relationship they are not comfortable with,none.Unless you are a prisoner or slave.We always forgot that morality is subjective. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by edwife(f): 1:12pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
naijababe: Yea agreed. |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by bukatyne(f): 1:14pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
edwife: I agree with you What do you have with the just legalized gay marriages? |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by crackhaus: 1:14pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Just like Edwife opined, it is a choice mostly and it is left for the woman involved to decide if she wants to bolt or stay and remain as senior wife. The idea of going against polygamy because it's unfair to one party is bollocks to me... I mean, the idea of seeing two men kissing in public is grossly unfair to my senses as well but somehow it's allowed. Not saying that polygamy completely eliminates the need for people to register secretly on such websites, but I'll be damned if it doesn't reduce that number drastically. Humans are very sexual beings, even most women who feel they could never cheat on their spouse require just the right amount of ingredient to get them moaning in pleasure from another man's touch. 3 Likes |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by edwife(f): 1:19pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
bukatyne: I don't have any problem with gays,i just have a problem when i am forced to see it as normal. 2 Likes |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by bukatyne(f): 1:27pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
edwife: Can anyone force you to see it as normal? I guess same will happen if polygamy etc. is legalized |
Re: Life Is Short. Have An Affaire by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Whoever scrapped polygamy must have had a philandering father and felt so much pity for his mom he decided to "set things straight." |
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