Am pregnant for my school boyfrnd who is in his finals and am in 300l. We wld really want to kip d bby bt our parents wld be madt at us nd they could stop my schoooling. We planned having the bby witout d knowledge of our both parents bt as it is now we are runnin outta cash. Pls advise, shld we abort d bby oda dan face our parents n every odd involved in keeping it AM SCARED.

Since you said School Boyfriend, that means there is a Home Boyfriend. You can pass the pregnancy to the home boyfriend who I believe can take care of you and the belle

BTW, what's with this typing in textspeak? Nairaland doesn't have 180 characters limitation I guess

Congrats babe, lets pop champagne

mtchwwwwwww

Brace up for the worst..
Tell your parents and have the baby.
You can always come back to school if you need to defer your admission but there are many women out there having babies in school without stopping.
Let your boyfriend support your schooling if your parents refuse to foot the bills.

Just go and run mad

Okay u don try, u just won an olympic gold medal.

UnknownT:
Since you said School Boyfriend, that means there is a Home Boyfriend. You can pass the pregnancy to the home boyfriend who I believe can take care of you and the belle

BTW, what's with this typing in textspeak? Nairaland doesn't have 180 characters limitation I guess

by school boyfriend I dnt mean I have anoda one. I mean we are dating in school and we are stil students.

Dz ur bf wants u to keep d baby, yet ask him what he wud do if ur parents find out.
Most guys especially at d uni level, d moment ur parents find out and both parents urs and his are involved there is a very high chance of him denying u.
Also keeping d baby, even if ur parents don't find out, a baby is not a straight ticket to true love, I hope u know dat... thanks.

The best thing to Do is To Actually Tell Your Own Parents.... Surely they'll Scold you...but You'll still be Allowed to Have your Child.


By the Way, What the Bleep where You Doin Getting Pregnant As Old as you are you can't Take Proper care of Yourself Dammit!! Condoms are Just #50. Even Tablets No Cost for Market

Benignasweety:
Am pregnant for my school boyfrnd who is in his finals and am in 300l. We wld really want to kip d bby bt our parents wld be madt at us nd they could stop my schoooling. We planned having the bby witout d knowledge of our both parents bt as it is now we are runnin outta cash. Pls advise, shld we abort d bby oda dan face our parents n every odd involved in keeping it AM SCARED.

Pregnancy is no joke o....most especially if you are a first timer



The way i'm seeing it...i don't think you really know, what you've gotten yourself into

U guys shuld own up 2 it cuz u were d ones who decided 2 b young parents. If u were scared u shouldn't av opened ur 2 legs at first place

Benignasweety:
by school boyfriend I dnt mean I have anoda one. I mean we are dating in school and we are stil students.

You are already in 300level, just 1 year school fees remain. There are many hotels your boyfriend can work in owerri to augment his pocket money to be able to pay for your ante natal, baby powder, diapers and if possible host your mom when she comes for omugwo , keep the baby and tell the people "tellable", when the 8th Assembly resumes sitting, they will make a law to legalise "baby mama" . For how long do you plan to hide the pregnancy? You are Igbo, you must have heard this, "afo ime anaghi ekpuchi ya aka"

baby mama increased by 1 congts

Benignasweety:
Am pregnant for my school boyfrnd who is in his finals and am in 300l. We wld really want to kip d bby bt our parents wld be madt at us nd they could stop my schoooling. We planned having the bby witout d knowledge of our both parents bt as it is now we are runnin outta cash. Pls advise, shld we abort d bby oda dan face our parents n every odd involved in keeping it AM SCARED.

so he his telling you to abort it. you guys are on ur own. U want to destroy an innocent soul. A sensible person know what is right so i will keep my advice.

tuzle:
so he his telling you to abort it. you guys are on ur own. U want to destroy an innocent soul. A sensible person know what is right so i will keep my advice.

he isn't suggesting abortion though neither did he deny his responsibility but we are scared of our parents and we don't have funds.

there are alotta things u don't need people's opinion on.... & this is one of em

Benignasweety:
he isn't suggesting abortion though neither did he deny his responsibility but we are scared of our parents and we don't have funds.

is it not money dat you are going to use to abort the child. And you dont even know if that child is going to be a blessing to you. Ur parent are not going to kill you, they will only scold you, and about the fund, you are not the first person and you wont be the last and most of them survived. Aborting the baby will live bloods in ur hand, i hope these little advice of mine will let you make the right choice. You can Do whatever u want with the pregnacy it not mine.

Benignasweety:
Am pregnant for my school boyfrnd who is in his finals and am in 300l. We wld really want to kip d bby bt our parents wld be madt at us nd they could stop my schoooling. We planned having the bby witout d knowledge of our both parents bt as it is now we are runnin outta cash. Pls advise, shld we abort d bby oda dan face our parents n every odd involved in keeping it AM SCARED.

Please dear,
Firstly I must say despite the obvious challenges that would arise, having a child is a blessing. I would advice you to inform ur parents. Ur mum first asap. They will surely scold you, but be rest assured they want the very best for you.
From you explanation, your bf is not denying it meaning you are not alone. Tell your parents, you need there help seriously in many ways. Having a baby doesn't mean you are going to stop schooling. Married women are in schools.
Abortion is criminal, please keep it. Inform your parents they are your best counselors.
Wish you the best.

YOU CAN ONLY RUN,RUN,RUN

RUN RUN RUN!!!

PASS TERRY G

WHEN YOU RUN MAD!!!

#MozartOnCrack

And I'm guessing that's the pix of you and your school bf in the profile @OP +location
....common sense no common at all.

Take a microfinance loan. Its fast cash to rasing a child. Email me for details.

When u were making love with ur bf, u didn't ask me for advice now wey u carry Belle u come dey open mouth here, wen we go dey tell una say make una run from pre-marital sex, una no go hear, face the consequence dear, happy child birth and a prosperous family

Hhmmmm, I ve made this mistake once. We took care of it. Up till now, I still regret that very action, I should ve stood up and take care of my responsibilities, but NO, I choose the easiest route, may GOD forgive us. I am never proud of what I did.

I ve faced more challenges in life, challenges were I was eager to sacrifice my life for the course I believed in, thank God I survived the jungle. I came to realize that keeping and taking care of the mother and child was a no task for me. Money was not my problem, I was still a student den, I was just irresponsible.(Don't ask me how I make my money).all I know was that I was loaded.



I came to realize that this life was never all about money, it is about being responsible in the real and actual context of being responsible, I failed woefully in that aspect.

My being irresponsible all boiled down to "what will people say? , I can't do dis to my mum, she might die," until I realized that the only thing that does not have a solution is a matter of life and death. Even that sef has a solution as @ some point I never really valued my life.(I was like wats the big deal? Once I am gone I won't know anything happening behind me, life will still go on without me, so wats d big deal?) I stopped thinking about that when I realized that it is not the dead person that feels the pain of death, but people he/she left behind, some might not even come out from d shock of ur death.

All my university days, I had never wanted to give my parents especially my mum any reason to regret aver giving birth to me. thank I never did. But I made so many mistakes which I corrected/took care of.
I know this is also ur fears and regrets.( Don't worry, no one is above mistake)

I ve lived my life the good,bad and ugly. But I am still alive,I still ve a reason to live, because I found out that no one gives a phuck about how u live ur life except urself. Whatever I do, I take responsibility for any action I take in this life and stand by it.

I know this is also ur problem(forget about what people will say).


My point is this.

*what do u want?

*can u stand by ur decisions no matter the odds?

*can u cope even if the boy denies u?

*i ve seen the scapula on ur neck,(u re a staunch roman catholic and maybe ur parents too) now ur fears are,what wll they say? What will people say?

*he is in his finals, if he is serious he wants to keep d baby, he can make it, he can take care of both of u, let him know that education is not all that there is to life, b4 u give birth, he must have graduated.

*u can still carry ur baby without dropping out. Please take the responsibility of what has happened in ur life, @least for once.( Make sure u graduate, prove people wrong, tell them that u re responsible, tell them that what happened was just a mistake which no one is above) but the only way to do it is by being successful ,thrive ,work hard, make sure u are better than ur peers in the society.


*i will advice u keep ur baby. U will not know d joy now, until u give birth.( Joys of motherhood)


*tell ur parents, beg them,they are human, they can carter for u until u graduate. They might reject u now, don't blame them, but once they see ur new baby, they will reconsider.
Tell dem about ur pregnancy, don't hide it, ( adighi ekpuchi afo ime aka).





I feel your pains and your confusion as raising a child is not a child's play.(Financially, psychologically and other wise).

U dey crazy, u got me laughing,

UnknownT:
You are already in 300level, just 1 year school fees remain. There are many hotels your boyfriend can work in owerri to augment his pocket money to be able to pay for your ante natal, baby powder, diapers and if possible host your mom when she comes for omugwo , keep the baby and tell the people "tellable", when the 8th Assembly resumes sitting, they will make a law to legalise "baby mama" . For how long do you plan to hide the pregnancy? You are Igbo, you must have heard this, "afo ime anaghi ekpuchi ya aka"

chigoizie7:


My point is this.

*what do u want?

*can u stand by ur decisions no matter the odds?

*can u cope even if the boy denies u?

These are d kind of pple we need in diz section(matured, experienced and problem solving dudes) not those who cry over spilled milk, nt those who batters, criticize, derides and demoralizes d poster when they are not even beta.

Tenable questions up there... Op, kindly answer those questns up there rhetorically and make a decision.

MztrChukwu:
Take a microfinance loan. Its fast cash to rasing a child. Email me for details.

plz I sent u an email already. You can aswell make it clear to me here on nairaland.

chigoizie7:
Hhmmmm, I ve made this mistake once. We took care of it. Up till now, I still regret that very action, I should ve stood up and take care of my responsibilities, but NO, I choose the easiest route, may GOD forgive us. I am never proud of what I did.

I ve faced more challenges in life, challenges were I was eager to sacrifice my life for the course I believed in, thank God I survived the jungle. I came to realize that keeping and taking care of the mother and child was a no task for me. Money was not my problem, I was still a student den, I was just irresponsible.(Don't ask me how I make my money).all I know was that I was loaded.



I came to realize that this life was never all about money, it is about being responsible in the real and actual context of being responsible, I failed woefully in that aspect.

My being irresponsible all boiled down to "what will people say? , I can't do dis to my mum, she might die," until I realized that the only thing that does not have a solution is a matter of life and death. Even that sef has a solution as @ some point I never really valued my life.(I was like wats the big deal? Once I am gone I won't know anything happening behind me, life will still go on without me, so wats d big deal?) I stopped thinking about that when I realized that it is not the dead person that feels the pain of death, but people he/she left behind, some might not even come out from d shock of ur death.

All my university days, I had never wanted to give my parents especially my mum any reason to regret aver giving birth to me. thank I never did. But I made so many mistakes which I corrected/took care of.
I know this is also ur fears and regrets.( Don't worry, no one is above mistake)

I ve lived my life the good,bad and ugly. But I am still alive,I still ve a reason to live, because I found out that no one gives a phuck about how u live ur life except urself. Whatever I do, I take responsibility for any action I take in this life and stand by it.

I know this is also ur problem(forget about what people will say).


My point is this.

*what do u want?

*can u stand by ur decisions no matter the odds?

*can u cope even if the boy denies u?

*i ve seen the scapula on ur neck,(u re a staunch roman catholic and maybe ur parents too) now ur fears are,what wll they say? What will people say?

*he is in his finals, if he is serious he wants to keep d baby, he can make it, he can take care of both of u, let him know that education is not all that there is to life, b4 u give birth, he must have graduated.

*u can still carry ur baby without dropping out. Please take the responsibility of what has happened in ur life, @least for once.( Make sure u graduate, prove people wrong, tell them that u re responsible, tell them that what happened was just a mistake which no one is above) but the only way to do it is by being successful ,thrive ,work hard, make sure u are better than ur peers in the society.


*i will advice u keep ur baby. U will not know d joy now, until u give birth.( Joys of motherhood)


*tell ur parents, beg them,they are human, they can carter for u until u graduate. They might reject u now, don't blame them, but once they see ur new baby, they will reconsider.
Tell dem about ur pregnancy, don't hide it, ( adighi ekpuchi afo ime aka).





I feel your pains and your confusion as raising a child is not a child's play.(Financially, psychologically and other wise).

thnx dear. You made my morning.

It's simple

If u aren't ready for a child there is a reason 'evacuation' was discovered, evacuate the foetus and continue your life

Make sure you go to a good doctor so it will be done perfectly, it won't cost much and won't hurt much.

When the time is right to have a baby you get pregnant and life goes on...It's a win win situation

Don't always be a religious fanatic who speak ill of evacuating a foetus

chigoizie7:
Hhmmmm, I ve made this mistake once. We took care of it. Up till now, I still regret that very action, I should ve stood up and take care of my responsibilities, but NO, I choose the easiest route, may GOD forgive us. I am never proud of what I did.

I ve faced more challenges in life, challenges were I was eager to sacrifice my life for the course I believed in, thank God I survived the jungle. I came to realize that keeping and taking care of the mother and child was a no task for me. Money was not my problem, I was still a student den, I was just irresponsible.(Don't ask me how I make my money).all I know was that I was loaded.



I came to realize that this life was never all about money, it is about being responsible in the real and actual context of being responsible, I failed woefully in that aspect.

My being irresponsible all boiled down to "what will people say? , I can't do dis to my mum, she might die," until I realized that the only thing that does not have a solution is a matter of life and death. Even that sef has a solution as @ some point I never really valued my life.(I was like wats the big deal? Once I am gone I won't know anything happening behind me, life will still go on without me, so wats d big deal?) I stopped thinking about that when I realized that it is not the dead person that feels the pain of death, but people he/she left behind, some might not even come out from d shock of ur death.

All my university days, I had never wanted to give my parents especially my mum any reason to regret aver giving birth to me. thank I never did. But I made so many mistakes which I corrected/took care of.
I know this is also ur fears and regrets.( Don't worry, no one is above mistake)

I ve lived my life the good,bad and ugly. But I am still alive,I still ve a reason to live, because I found out that no one gives a phuck about how u live ur life except urself. Whatever I do, I take responsibility for any action I take in this life and stand by it.

I know this is also ur problem(forget about what people will say).


My point is this.

*what do u want?

*can u stand by ur decisions no matter the odds?

*can u cope even if the boy denies u?

*i ve seen the scapula on ur neck,(u re a staunch roman catholic and maybe ur parents too) now ur fears are,what wll they say? What will people say?

*he is in his finals, if he is serious he wants to keep d baby, he can make it, he can take care of both of u, let him know that education is not all that there is to life, b4 u give birth, he must have graduated.

*u can still carry ur baby without dropping out. Please take the responsibility of what has happened in ur life, @least for once.( Make sure u graduate, prove people wrong, tell them that u re responsible, tell them that what happened was just a mistake which no one is above) but the only way to do it is by being successful ,thrive ,work hard, make sure u are better than ur peers in the society.


*i will advice u keep ur baby. U will not know d joy now, until u give birth.( Joys of motherhood)


*tell ur parents, beg them,they are human, they can carter for u until u graduate. They might reject u now, don't blame them, but once they see ur new baby, they will reconsider.
Tell dem about ur pregnancy, don't hide it, ( adighi ekpuchi afo ime aka).





I feel your pains and your confusion as raising a child is not a child's play.(Financially, psychologically and other wise).

Best advice so far
God will continue to bless you jare




Op,take this advice!!!
If I were you,i'll b so happy to see my baby....




It is not an easy thing.
This might b ur last.
Who knows?

chigoizie7:
Hhmmmm, I ve made this mistake once. We took care of it. Up till now, I still regret that very action, I should ve stood up and take care of my responsibilities, but NO, I choose the easiest route, may GOD forgive us. I am never proud of what I did.

I ve faced more challenges in life, challenges were I was eager to sacrifice my life for the course I believed in, thank God I survived the jungle. I came to realize that keeping and taking care of the mother and child was a no task for me. Money was not my problem, I was still a student den, I was just irresponsible.(Don't ask me how I make my money).all I know was that I was loaded.



I came to realize that this life was never all about money, it is about being responsible in the real and actual context of being responsible, I failed woefully in that aspect.

My being irresponsible all boiled down to "what will people say? , I can't do dis to my mum, she might die," until I realized that the only thing that does not have a solution is a matter of life and death. Even that sef has a solution as @ some point I never really valued my life.(I was like wats the big deal? Once I am gone I won't know anything happening behind me, life will still go on without me, so wats d big deal?) I stopped thinking about that when I realized that it is not the dead person that feels the pain of death, but people he/she left behind, some might not even come out from d shock of ur death.

All my university days, I had never wanted to give my parents especially my mum any reason to regret aver giving birth to me. thank I never did. But I made so many mistakes which I corrected/took care of.
I know this is also ur fears and regrets.( Don't worry, no one is above mistake)

I ve lived my life the good,bad and ugly. But I am still alive,I still ve a reason to live, because I found out that no one gives a phuck about how u live ur life except urself. Whatever I do, I take responsibility for any action I take in this life and stand by it.

I know this is also ur problem(forget about what people will say).


My point is this.

*what do u want?

*can u stand by ur decisions no matter the odds?

*can u cope even if the boy denies u?

*i ve seen the scapula on ur neck,(u re a staunch roman catholic and maybe ur parents too) now ur fears are,what wll they say? What will people say?

*he is in his finals, if he is serious he wants to keep d baby, he can make it, he can take care of both of u, let him know that education is not all that there is to life, b4 u give birth, he must have graduated.

*u can still carry ur baby without dropping out. Please take the responsibility of what has happened in ur life, @least for once.( Make sure u graduate, prove people wrong, tell them that u re responsible, tell them that what happened was just a mistake which no one is above) but the only way to do it is by being successful ,thrive ,work hard, make sure u are better than ur peers in the society.


*i will advice u keep ur baby. U will not know d joy now, until u give birth.( Joys of motherhood)


*tell ur parents, beg them,they are human, they can carter for u until u graduate. They might reject u now, don't blame them, but once they see ur new baby, they will reconsider.
Tell dem about ur pregnancy, don't hide it, ( adighi ekpuchi afo ime aka).





I feel your pains and your confusion as raising a child is not a child's play.(Financially, psychologically and other wise).

Ha! We still got people like this?

Houseofglam7:

Ha! We still got people like this?

Lolz. I am not a saint ether.