Hi guys

I'm from SA, thanks for having me here. I have a problem that I'm not sure what to make of. My boyfriend yesterday told me that he supports an SA Idols contestant (apart from that she sings well and from our mutual home city) that she looks like his ex-girlfriend. He dated her 6 years ago, she cheated on him with one of his friends and was apparently seen as a slut. I remember though that earlier in the relationship he told me that he had contributed to her being called a slut, I don't know how,   He lied to me the whole time yesterday trying to confuse me when I confronted him, luckily I have a good memory and know each of his ex's names, how they looked and why they broke up.

He eventually confessed he saw the Idols contestant looked like his ex and that made him support the contestant more and that he thought about all the good times they had together. Should I worry?

Dont give yourself hyper because of a guy, give him the benefit of a doubt, if he then goofs you can take action.

Thanks yes you're right,

Reminescence, nostalgia, fantasizing. call it what you like.
I guess everyone has a right to let his or her mind wander or float.
The problem starts when one begins to impement the fantasy.


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U've got nada 2 worry 'bout. . .

Who r you angry at now, your bf, his ex or the idol contestant??

Annele:

Hi guys

I'm from SA, thanks for having me here. I have a problem that I'm not sure what to make of. My boyfriend yesterday told me that he supports an SA Idols contestant (apart from that she sings well and from our mutual home city) that she looks like his ex-girlfriend. He dated her 6 years ago, she cheated on him with one of his friends and was apparently seen as a slut. I remember though that earlier in the relationship he told me that he had contributed to her being called a slut, I don't know how,   He lied to me the whole time yesterday trying to confuse me when I confronted him, luckily I have a good memory and know each of his ex's names, how they looked and why they broke up.

He eventually confessed he saw the Idols contestant looked like his ex and that made him support the contestant more and that he thought about all the good times they had together. Should I worry?

What??!!!  You are joking right?

I tell ya if I were you, I woulda unplugged the TV. . . Yep, that ought to do the trick.

And if that doesn't work, you can always hunt the idol girl down and kill her. . . I mean how dare she!!!

Simple.

Girl calm down, the closest he'll get to her is by sitting right in front of the television.

lmao! sis ur back

poster uve got nathing to worry about until he starts making efforts to rekindle the relationship with the ex then uve got something
until then, make the house fun by opposing the girl
tell me is she a really good singer?
if she is uve got urself a good argument