If you’ve been married or in a long-term relationship, how did you decide that the person was (or still is) the right person for you? What made this person different from others?

Hmmm

chumakk:
If you’ve been married or in a long-term relationship, how did you decide that the person was (or still is) the right person for you? What made this person different from others?

Different things.

Number one, my wife can cook fire, literally and I love food.

While we were dating, I gave her money to buy some stuff for herself but instead she bought foodstuff for the house. We were living together at the time.

I always feel comfortable around her. We are like 2 kids when we are together and most people confuse us for just bf&gf or even brother and sister.

She stayed when I had nothing and sometimes will even soak garri with salt for us to eat when we can't afford something better.

The list is endless sha

You know what you want in a woman, and when you see 70 percent of it in that woman you are dating... How you feel about her when she is not with you I dated my wife for 4yrs and we have being married for 5 yrs, what I saw in her is that she forgives very easily and knows how to manage both in lack and plenty.

Seriosly speaking, there is no unique reason.