WHY DO WOMEN TAKE QUIET MEN FOR GRANTED.. SHOULD HE PRAY OR JUST CHANGE?

I will try to be objective as much as possible. I have heard different men lament especially the quiet ones. So I will just list out what most honest, well meaning men are going through.

1. A wife earns above 200,000 naira while the man earns about 100,000 naira. The wife starts getting pompous. The husband provides for his home and even settles the lady's debt. Yet the woman denies the man sex and only allows him when she is in the mood.

2. The woman demands for details of how the man spends his money but she does not tell the man how she spends hers and when the man asks she gets angry and start unnecessary quarrel.

3. Everybody envies the marriage from outside they see it as perfect because the wife acts her best and shows more love when people are watching.

4. Is it a crime to be quiet? She decides what he wears but the man has no right to decide what she wears.

5. The man's manhood no longer stands when with her, he cannot explain why?

6. She has stopped washing the man's clothes or even cooking because she claims too busy. Even the man now washes her own clothes.

7. This man meets his responsibilities very well.

8. The pride of the wife multiplies when she discovered she is pregnant.

From this it's like most ladies prefers domineering men and the ego of a man is what makes him a man and not the responsibility.

Are all quiet men going through this? A concerned husband is asking. Should he pray or change.

This is serious

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That's some serious shii there o

sorry. some women are jx disgrace to womanhood
jx bkus u got money more than ur husband doesn't mean u are above him in his house. and after they complain that their husbands are sleeping outside.

talk to her abt it, if she doesn't change... then she doesn't luv u.

Eleyi gidigan ooooooo

Marry your size, dont marry an over sized woman!






My advice to men...

It always helps to have a big ego, whether you can "back it up" or not. I consider myself a quiet man to some extent, but I always assert my authority and dominance (albeit in a calm way) from the very beginning...sexually and otherwise. Even when you have issues or slight quarrels, you should make it clear that it's your way or the highway... And thereafter you can pet her and show her your sweet, loving, apologetic, and considerate side if she behaves well. Doesn't matter if she earns more money than you or not. Your ego has to reign supreme.

A man without a big ego in his relationship with a Nigerian woman is finished. They will toss you around mercilessly and feed you bullshit till eternity. You should never settle for a woman that can't submit herself. Better to let her go and look for someone else that knows her place - so that you can be the sweet, lovingly quiet man you naturally are without facing undue pressure everyday.

I can bet on it that the lady in question is married to a quiet and religious man (and possibly religious herself).
I can also bet that instead of standing his ground the guy has been being nicer, indulging her, picking all the bills, trying to prove to be a man, possibly with little left by month end. The babe will scarcely be satisfied.
It's a pity you are dealing with a Naija babe who regards people by the size of their pockets.
Most probably she has evaluated the husband's limit and now integrating within this limits.
Most probably she believes the guy is "stuck" with her and will continue to tolerate her mis-demeanours.
The man's manhood no longer stands when with her because his emotions towards the wife has been "assassinated" by the lady's actions.
The engine of this marriage is already on fire.
First the sex life dies and then partners grow apart and then become room or house mates.
The guy should wake up and set the limits of the bullshit he thinks is fair to take.
This guy should imagine what will happen to him if he ever loses his income.