I dont knw if i am the only one who have noticed this trend..

Ladies seem to be taking in than used to be the case, more out of the ordinary.

Why is it so?? Before you conclude on the negative, note that abortion is real!

So what could be the possible cause of this rapid increase in unwanted pregnancy despite the downward state of the economy??...

Am suprised!!

I will never have a child out of wedlock,never.
Condoms are cheaper than babies,ladies be warned!
That how my ex broke boyfriend wanted me to have a baby for him,
because according to him i was too beautiful and he was scared that
a rich man will take me away from him,thank God i stood my ground.
Today he got a job and married someone else after feeding him for 4 years.

ladies are taking in more than used to be the case because more ladies in 9ja have a lot of free time, and lots of men in 9ja have lots of free time on their hands due to lack of job and all that, so naturally the ladies will spend more time with their man and vice versa.
Don't worry, you should not start to fear now, your fear should come when most ladies start living with their man even when they are not yet married, and I am not referring to weekend living in o, I am referring to full time live-in, I know it's already started happening, but it has not yet gotten to that alarming rate, it is still under the radar, most girls still dey fear them parents and elder brothers.

nasha1:
I will never have a child out of wedlock,never.
Condoms are cheaper than babies,ladies be warned!
That how my ex broke boyfriend wanted me to have a baby for him,
because according to him i was too beautiful and he was scared that
a rich man will take me away from him,thank God i stood my ground.
Today he got a job and married someone else after feeding him for 4 years.

you fed him for 4 years, SO?
if you could feed him that long you could also afford to feed his and your baby.
he came to realize that you did not truly(or maybe you did truly) love him, or fully love him(WHICHEVER).

Babe na d rain cause am o

I dnt knw abt any other institution but come to my school and see things for urselves lol

Girls no wan hear again

Maybe some environmental factors are causing females to be more fertile than usual

It's not just you ooo.its happening everywhere now!I guess most babes are tired of being Careful when doing d dooooo(smiles)..funny enuf ,when pregnancy happens,most guys now wants BABIES but not the carrier of the baby.they'll say they don't want any girl to tie them down with pregnancy..(Its all about making money for most guys now)they l say have the baby,then let's see how it goes abt us.that's y you see more of babymama's around nw.in most cases,the guys are proud of d kids..he's well relaxed that what's d need to. get married when he has a child already?the babe'll just be there knowing fully well that the guy has moved on!!in most cases,the lady has to start allover again.while d guy is making money and rolling with fine babes and can easily wed one when he's ready.
Moral lesson:every pregnant babe is responsible for her action!*pls pardon my epistle ooo*lol

goldbim:
It's not just you ooo.its happening everywhere now!I guess most babes are tired of being Careful when doing d dooooo(smiles)..funny enuf ,when pregnancy happens,most guys now wants BABIES but not the carrier of the baby.they'll say they don't want any girl to tie them down with pregnancy..(Its all about making money for most guys now)they l say have the baby,then let's see how it goes abt us.that's y you see more of babymama's around nw.in most cases,the guys are proud of d kids..he's well relaxed that what's d need to. get married when he has a child already?the babe'll just be there knowing fully well that the guy has moved on!!in most cases,the lady has to start allover again.while d guy is making money and rolling with fine babes and can easily wed one when he's ready.
Moral lesson:every pregnant babe is responsible for her action!*pls pardon my epistle ooo*lol

but will the guys family accept the baby?

that's what all these musicians are doing, but does it make sense if the baby is illegitimate

Gurgle:


but will the guys family accept the baby?

that's what all these musicians are doing, but does it make sense if the baby is illegitimate

the guy's family don't really have a choice.afterall,if the guy says he's responsible for it and he's up to the task financially,family'l only observe from an angle and respect his wish..and really,celebrities make it seems like its right,which should not be .

nasha1:
I will never have a child out of wedlock,never.
Condoms are cheaper than babies,ladies be warned!
That how my ex broke boyfriend wanted me to have a baby for him,
because according to him i was too beautiful and he was scared that
a rich man will take me away from him,thank God i stood my ground.
Today he got a job and married someone else after feeding him for 4 years.

Bwahahahaha..make sure you dont delay the next guy's baby O!..or else he will swing by too.

Mznaett:
Babe na d rain cause am o
I dnt knw abt any other institution but come to my school and see things for urselves lol
Girls no wan hear again

Lol! No tym jaré

Gurgle:
Maybe some environmental factors are causing females to be more fertile than usual

Or perhaps the guys like to see their offspring at a very early age.

goldbim:
It's not just you ooo.its happening everywhere now!I guess most babes are tired of being Careful when doing d dooooo(smiles)..funny enuf ,when pregnancy happens,most guys now wants BABIES but not the carrier of the baby.they'll say they don't want any girl to tie them down with pregnancy..(Its all about making money for most guys now)they l say have the baby,then let's see how it goes abt us.that's y you see more of babymama's around nw.in most cases,the guys are proud of d kids..he's well relaxed that what's d need to. get married when he has a child already?the babe'll just be there knowing fully well that the guy has moved on!!in most cases,the lady has to start allover again.while d guy is making money and rolling with fine babes and can easily wed one when he's ready.
Moral lesson:every pregnant babe is responsible for her action!*pls pardon my epistle ooo*lol

Lol! Dey there dey write epistle for here while some ladies are registering their third child's name in Teaching Hospital.

Gurgle:

but will the guys family accept the baby?
that's what all these musicians are doing, but does it make sense if the baby is illegitimate

Pls how can a baby be illegitimate when they are supposed to be a blessing of fruitfulness?

Skin to Skin... Condom feels as if you are making love while putting on a rain coat

goldbim:
the guy's family don't really have a choice.afterall,if the guy says he's responsible for it and he's up to the task financially,family'l only observe from an angle and respect his wish..and really,celebrities make it seems like its right,which should not be .

No but by traditional law and custom, if he hasn't paid for the baby then its not his right? in all tribes

even if the family doesn't say anything or they don't mind, at the end the baby wont be able to claim that compound as his own since nobody paid for him

@Op let me use this thread to make a shout out to 2 face, Wizkid, Davido, Olamide and every other single parent with kids outta wedlock #peaceout

Gurgle:


No but by traditional law and custom, if he hasn't paid for the baby then its not his right? in all tribes

even if the family doesn't say anything or they don't mind, at the end the baby wont be able to claim that compound as his own since nobody paid for him

lol,you are quite funny..I dnt think they even put the future of the child into consideration..I guess if a child's paternity. Is recognised by d man's side,then there should not be an issue over his rights/entitlement..like I said,the woman is responsible for her actions so let them deal with the outcome.

goldbim:
lol,you are quite funny..I dnt think they even put the future of the child into consideration..I guess if a child's paternity. Is recognised by d man's side,then there should not be an issue over his rights/entitlement..like I said,the woman is responsible for her actions so let them deal with the outcome.

Hm Ok o

Maamin:
@Op let me use this thread to make a shout out to 2 face, Wizkid, Davido, Olamide and every other single parent with kids outta wedlock #peaceout

Lol, can you imagine

goldbim:
It's not just you ooo.its happening everywhere now!I guess most babes are tired of being Careful when doing d dooooo(smiles)..funny enuf ,when pregnancy happens,most guys now wants BABIES but not the carrier of the baby.they'll say they don't want any girl to tie them down with pregnancy..(Its all about making money for most guys now)they l say have the baby,then let's see how it goes abt us.that's y you see more of babymama's around nw.in most cases,the guys are proud of d kids..he's well relaxed that what's d need to. get married when he has a child already?the babe'll just be there knowing fully well that the guy has moved on!!in most cases,the lady has to start allover again.while d guy is making money and rolling with fine babes and can easily wed one when he's ready.
Moral lesson:every pregnant babe is responsible for her action!*pls pardon my epistle ooo*lol

Ur 100% correct...!!! Shout out to u