In a situation where you need to make a choice between your spouse and your children who would you put first?

This is not a matter of who comes first or second. In a relationship, everyone deserves to be treated equally. None has to suffer in the expense of another.

Yeah, as much as i want to agree with d person dat commented first "that everyone shld be treated equally", but i beg to differ..before God we ar equal, but in a family? Nay! ur spouse shld always come first..a lot of women make ds mistake(the men ar not exactly innocent though), they tend to "shift" attention to their children, in other words "pay less attention" to their spouse as soon a child is welcomed into d family..this is so not right, aside exposing ur spouse to "temptations"/"the other woman/man(as d case may be)", u ar also offending God...remember "what God has joined together, let NO MAN put assunder".. man here refers to ANY HUMAN BEING, so not U nor ur Child/Children is permitted to come between u & ur spouse.. I believe if a situation arises where a choice is to b made btw d children & ones spouse,one shld discuss wt d said spouse & both shld then agree on a decision(choice) togther....in fact, i thank God 4 my mum, over dz yrs, i can't remember a day mum was more concerned about what we d children wil eat than what her husband wil eat...i hv watched her put her husband first & above all & for that i hv great respect & admiration for her..same goes to dad, in those dayz wen i hv misunderstanding wt mum, i sometimes expect him to take my side, but NEVER, he either sides his wife or he sides noone..(God continue to bless them)... & honestly, putting d child/children first hv wrecked many homes than build them up...

HenryDion:
This is not a matter of who comes first or second. In a relationship, everyone deserves to be treated equally. None has to suffer in the expense of another.

no let my wife hear u o! Am serious!!

The maid comes first.