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Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by GLeesMODEL(m): 3:45pm On Aug 16, 2015
If you recall in 2014, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and his wife Anita, who now goes by her maiden name Ebhodaghe caused quite a stare when news of divorce between the two hit the net.

The divorce was filed in April 9, 2014 at Divorce Section A, Central Family Court, First Avenue House, High Holborn, London, United Kingdom on the grounds of "unreasonable behaviour" and for the first time since that divorce, Anita is now speaking.


Anita took to her blog to discuss how her life has been changing as of late making some serious references to her marriage as she wrote. She wrote:


[b]It is my desire to reach out and inspire you especially if you feel vulnerable and in need of a change. I hope to inspire you to believe in yourself no matter the circumstances. I want to help you recreate your life going forward, so you can live beautifully. I have been through this journey of rediscovery and nothing is as beautiful as realising one’s uniqueness as I have done. Life is a precious however, your life can go through different seasons: winter, spring, summer or autumn. Life can hit you with financial loss, disappointments, death of a loved one, a broken relationship, loss of a job, a divorce, being falsely accused or being a victim of crime. These can shatter you to pieces but you can do something about it.

Life is a gift from God and you deserve to be happy irrespective of your age, race, gender, background or financial situation. I urge you to appreciate the gift you are, you are precious and valuable. Never lose sight of who you are; begin to create new visions and dreams for your life. Let nothing stop you from growing every day. My story is not one of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to either beat myself over the regret of tolerating abuse for so long or put a stop to the abuse and recreate my life for the best. My journey was not in vain. I can now help others realise that their situation does not define them.

In order to move on with life, I have come to realise that nothing is permanent. Your problem is not permanent; you can do something to change it by ensuring you do not allow the situation or the person make your life miserable. Pain is a fact of life, it is inevitable but suffering is optional. You can do something to change the pain by over looking every obstacle, take control as a force of nature to grow and expand. Do what is necessary now to use the gift God has given you to unleash your purpose.

My message to all is simple: you have value therefore discover your potential. Do not allow anybody destroy you or rob you of living a joyful life. Your life is not wasted; you have just started a different phase of life. God will show you how to use your testimony to help others and restore their lives to exuberance. Please join me to encourage and inspire others. You have a story to tell, you can contribute and participate in the dialogues here. Let us all learn from one another’s experience and reach others with the gift of love and kindness. Share your experience by emailing me or making a comment. Celebrate your uniqueness because there is only one of you.[/b]


https://www.pastoranita.org/beta/

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by MuguliciousMUGU: 3:46pm On Aug 16, 2015
Open letter for what? Nitori olorun

FTC chai, i too bad...

I dedicate this award to sister chiamaka for the sweet soup that she cook for me, and the bedmatics.

And also to ogochi, chai, that girl won kill me for bed.

DJ play me, " i want your body sleeping in my bed" by wizkid

forget chris oyakilhome, he too dey listen to wizkid songs that is why he carried another woman inside his bed.

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by ladyF(f): 3:47pm On Aug 16, 2015
It's the kids I pity. Caught up in all the mess

It's [size=20pt]LadyF [/size] again grin grin grin

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by donholy28(m): 3:53pm On Aug 16, 2015
where's d letter

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by delishpot: 3:56pm On Aug 16, 2015
This na letter of encouragement na! Wey the messy one?

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by HsLBroker(m): 4:01pm On Aug 16, 2015
house fellowship, then i will come back

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by boboLIL(m): 4:27pm On Aug 16, 2015
Nothing is permanent.......

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by Houseofglam7(f): 6:02pm On Aug 16, 2015
This has got nothing to do with the divorce na

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by may01(f): 6:19pm On Aug 16, 2015
Typical of bloggers. Y'all just use a catchy topic whether it's the truth or not

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by angelTI(f): 6:54pm On Aug 16, 2015
ladyF:
It's the kids I pity. Caught up in all the mess

The kids no send. They are no longer even kids sef

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by Came: 7:06pm On Aug 16, 2015
Na person way wear shoe no where e dey pain am. Na only the women fit talk wetin make am divorce her husband, but I know say the thing way make am divorce am no go easy for her.

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by itoese(m): 8:05pm On Aug 16, 2015
Consolatory message. Prove to the world that you know and obey the scriptures by taking the part of forgiveness.

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by enoqueen: 8:06pm On Aug 16, 2015
But I hear say them don settle.

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by Afrok(m): 8:27pm On Aug 16, 2015
That's none of my business... but Op dem no tell u for school say letter whether open or close dey carry address (es) before u refer to it as a letter?

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by baralatie(m): 8:51pm On Aug 16, 2015
Houseofglam7:
This has got nothing to do with the divorce na
the blog and the op were mischevious.
the last I heard was both pastor and Anita had settled their differences and were making out afresh

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by Houseofglam7(f): 8:55pm On Aug 16, 2015
baralatie:

the blog and the op were mischevious.
the last I heard was both pastor and Anita had settled their differences and were making out afresh

Seriously, most people are absolutely jobless

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by frmglorytoglory: 9:11pm On Aug 16, 2015
Op why didn't u acknowledge where u culled this write up from? Its from pastor Anita's blog at pastoranita.org/beta
It is well with this woman . God will lift her and protect her and comfort her.
For those quick to condemn her be careful. Don't take the role of the judge and also the jury.
What matters is making it to heaven. The Lord never listed being a Mrs as the criteria for entering heaven. It is well.

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by baralatie(m): 9:29pm On Aug 16, 2015
frmglorytoglory:
Op why didn't u acknowledge where u culled this write up from? Its from pastor Anita's blog at pastoranita.org/beta
It is well with this woman . God will lift her and protect her and comfort her.
For those quick to condemn her be careful. Don't take the role of the judge and also the jury.
What matters is making it to heaven. The Lord never listed being a Mrs as the criteria for entering heaven. It is well.
how will you feel if you heard they are making out afresh

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by Elefida(f): 9:33pm On Aug 16, 2015
Misleading topic

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by frmglorytoglory: 9:43pm On Aug 16, 2015
baralatie:

how will you feel if you heard they are making out afresh


I will simply say 'To God be the glory '

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by oliviacute(f): 11:30pm On Aug 16, 2015
lipsrsealed
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by bright007(f): 1:19am On Aug 17, 2015
open letter?


wat about close letter

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by Okestra01(m): 12:27pm On Aug 17, 2015
ok
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by Leyemoshood: 12:27pm On Aug 17, 2015
Na only God sabi who is righteous


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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by kayo80(m): 12:27pm On Aug 17, 2015
I clicked on this post thinking I would read some juicy info...but was disappointed.

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by frinx: 12:28pm On Aug 17, 2015
reading


*modified*
READ

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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by Georgekyrian(m): 12:28pm On Aug 17, 2015
[img]SMA[/img]All ears.. YEYE!!!
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by hazyfm1: 12:28pm On Aug 17, 2015
Hmmmm
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by youngwarlocks: 12:28pm On Aug 17, 2015
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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Opens Up After Divorce Tale by strawb(f): 12:28pm On Aug 17, 2015
Ok

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