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enoqueen:
But I hear say them don settle.

But why is she still bearing her maiden name if they have truly settled?

Eeyah

Irrelevant nonsense.

PLS ADVICE WHAT CAN OFF BIZ CAN SOME1 USE 150K TOO START

So much for an internet driven society.

Houseofglam7:


Seriously, most people are absolutely jobless

Wasnt there the time u guys were spending money together... Next news abeg.

Winning123:


Anita you are a very selfish woman. Your words doesn't inspire me at all. A Christian woman must understand that the husband is the head just like Christ is the head of the man and God the head of Christ. Your post is disgraceful, disheartening and saddening

And you really believe Pastor Anita wrote that stuff? I don't think so.

buchilino:
madam anita if u have a problem with ur hobby, go on ur knees, internet or outsiders r not d best option

Thank you for your reasoning. You made my day.

adexcoco:
PLS ADVICE WHAT CAN OFF BIZ CAN SOME1 USE 150K TOO START

garri business

Houseofglam7:
This has got nothing to do with the divorce na

I come dey think say na only me observe am o

I doubt she wrote the words above.

ladyF:
It's the kids I pity. Caught up in all the mess

kindly re-comment and append your signature

frmglorytoglory:
Op why didn't u acknowledge where u culled this write up from? Its from pastor Anita's blog at pastoranita.org/beta
It is well with this woman . God will lift her and protect her and comfort her.
For those quick to condemn her be careful. Don't take the role of the judge and also the jury.
What matters is making it to heaven. The Lord never listed being a Mrs as the criteria for entering heaven. It is well.

Did Jesus encourage divorce? Forgiveness is for those who forgive, bro.
Anyone who calls himself/herself a Christian and cannot forgive is a Joker. Going to heaven,you'll have to deny yourself of somethings.
What she needs with her husband is serious prayers because many marriages depend on theirs

DeRoyalFranco:
Wasnt there the time u guys were spending money together... Next news abeg.

My brother no mind the gal. When the going was good, she dey follow am fleece all the mumu followers. No that kati kati don enter she's trying to make herself out as some kind of 'victim of abuse'. Typical female hypocrite.

GLeesMODEL:
If you recall in 2014, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and his wife Anita, who now goes by her maiden name Ebhodaghe caused quite a stare when news of divorce between the two hit the net.

The divorce was filed in April 9, 2014 at Divorce Section A, Central Family Court, First Avenue House, High Holborn, London, United Kingdom on the grounds of "unreasonable behaviour" and for the first time since that divorce, Anita is now speaking.


Anita took to her blog to discuss how her life has been changing as of late making some serious references to her marriage as she wrote. She wrote:


[b]It is my desire to reach out and inspire you especially if you feel vulnerable and in need of a change. I hope to inspire you to believe in yourself no matter the circumstances. I want to help you recreate your life going forward, so you can live beautifully. I have been through this journey of rediscovery and nothing is as beautiful as realising one’s uniqueness as I have done. Life is a precious however, your life can go through different seasons: winter, spring, summer or autumn. Life can hit you with financial loss, disappointments, death of a loved one, a broken relationship, loss of a job, a divorce, being falsely accused or being a victim of crime. These can shatter you to pieces but you can do something about it.

Life is a gift from God and you deserve to be happy irrespective of your age, race, gender, background or financial situation. I urge you to appreciate the gift you are, you are precious and valuable. Never lose sight of who you are; begin to create new visions and dreams for your life. Let nothing stop you from growing every day. My story is not one of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to either beat myself over the regret of tolerating abuse for so long or put a stop to the abuse and recreate my life for the best. My journey was not in vain. I can now help others realise that their situation does not define them.

In order to move on with life, I have come to realise that nothing is permanent. Your problem is not permanent; you can do something to change it by ensuring you do not allow the situation or the person make your life miserable. Pain is a fact of life, it is inevitable but suffering is optional. You can do something to change the pain by over looking every obstacle, take control as a force of nature to grow and expand. Do what is necessary now to use the gift God has given you to unleash your purpose.

My message to all is simple: you have value therefore discover your potential. Do not allow anybody destroy you or rob you of living a joyful life. Your life is not wasted; you have just started a different phase of life. God will show you how to use your testimony to help others and restore their lives to exuberance. Please join me to encourage and inspire others. You have a story to tell, you can contribute and participate in the dialogues here. Let us all learn from one another’s experience and reach others with the gift of love and kindness. Share your experience by emailing me or making a comment. Celebrate your uniqueness because there is only one of you.[/b]

https://www.pastoranita.org/beta/

I thought Anita read the bible up-down or did she read it down-up. Anita should better go and reconcile with her husband if she is truly godly.

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If she really wrote this, she really showed class but for the op, two things it's either you know her or you are a dumb.ass trying to sensationalized the title. The woman wants to encourage others like her with h just a reference that she was abused. Thousands go through the same daily anyways, so enough of this stale story already or simply just get a life, because it seems you don't have one.

boujaye:



I thought Anita read the bible up-down or did she read it down-up. Anita should better go and reconcile with her husband if she is truly godly.

Hypocritical nonsense, so what if she decided not to, that makes her ungoldly? Some of you f00ls are ridiculous with your holier than though mentality. I don't know what rock you crawled out of, just an fyi, it's a free world. NONSENSE.

I sense a hoax somewhere. I don't wont to believe Anita can go low to be writing things like this. I SINCERELY HOPE THIS IS NOT TRUE!!

You went and copied the" about me" and tagged it opening up? U are a bast*rd @Op,I haven't used that word in a while but u deserve it. Its people like you that ruins lives,I bet u posted this dumb sh*t on our blog . Fvcking r*tarded a*swipe.

I fail to see where she opened up on her failed marriage. Fishing for controversy, are we?

itoese:
Consolatory message. Prove to the world that you know and obey the scriptures by taking the part of forgiveness.

It depends.

While I am not holding brief for her, forgiveness is her prerogative if there has been any incidence of marital infidelity.

However, Christians who honor their marriage do not hastily separate or divorce when difficulties arise.

Jesus stated: “Everyone divorcing his wife, except on account of fornication, makes her a subject for adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” (Matthew 5:32)

Cc: Baddiekay

itoese:
Consolatory message. Prove to the world that you know and obey the scriptures by taking the part of forgiveness.

Has the forgivee repented?

Every woman is now claiming Abuse now. It's the in thing...

You have a wife who will nag you like hell and when you decide to ignore her...she will run out to tell the world. "I suffered Abuse"

You will have a wife who will say 1000 words per minute and does not know what it means to dialogue peacefully and the day you shout "Will you shut up your mouth before i slap you"...she will run out to tell the world. "I suffered Abuse"

You will have a woman who gives you hell in your home because she thinks you are cheating while you are not and when you finally divorce her or breakup with her....she will run out to tell the world. "I suffered Abuse"

Women can play this "Abuse" and "Rape" game at any slightest means to gain popularity and garner sympathy! SMH!

angelTI:

The kids no send. They are no longer even kids sef

u won't knw mehn! just put ur self in dat position then u will understand...
if ur parents are having troubles..u are troubled too. even wen u have ur own kids already.. it's psychological mehn!..

may01:
Typical of bloggers. Y'all just use a catchy topic whether it's the truth or not

It's called "click baiting"..

They use those deceitful headlines to get you to click on the link.

ladyF:
It's the kids I pity. Caught up in all the mess

lol, u no shout ur name today,

GLeesMODEL:
If you recall in 2014, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and his wife Anita, who now goes by her maiden name Ebhodaghe caused quite a stare when news of divorce between the two hit the net.

The divorce was filed in April 9, 2014 at Divorce Section A, Central Family Court, First Avenue House, High Holborn, London, United Kingdom on the grounds of "unreasonable behaviour" and for the first time since that divorce, Anita is now speaking.


Anita took to her blog to discuss how her life has been changing as of late making some serious references to her marriage as she wrote. She wrote:


[b]It is my desire to reach out and inspire you especially if you feel vulnerable and in need of a change. I hope to inspire you to believe in yourself no matter the circumstances. I want to help you recreate your life going forward, so you can live beautifully. I have been through this journey of rediscovery and nothing is as beautiful as realising one’s uniqueness as I have done. Life is a precious however, your life can go through different seasons: winter, spring, summer or autumn. Life can hit you with financial loss, disappointments, death of a loved one, a broken relationship, loss of a job, a divorce, being falsely accused or being a victim of crime. These can shatter you to pieces but you can do something about it.

Life is a gift from God and you deserve to be happy irrespective of your age, race, gender, background or financial situation. I urge you to appreciate the gift you are, you are precious and valuable. Never lose sight of who you are; begin to create new visions and dreams for your life. Let nothing stop you from growing every day. My story is not one of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to either beat myself over the regret of tolerating abuse for so long or put a stop to the abuse and recreate my life for the best. My journey was not in vain. I can now help others realise that their situation does not define them.

In order to move on with life, I have come to realise that nothing is permanent. Your problem is not permanent; you can do something to change it by ensuring you do not allow the situation or the person make your life miserable. Pain is a fact of life, it is inevitable but suffering is optional. You can do something to change the pain by over looking every obstacle, take control as a force of nature to grow and expand. Do what is necessary now to use the gift God has given you to unleash your purpose.

My message to all is simple: you have value therefore discover your potential. Do not allow anybody destroy you or rob you of living a joyful life. Your life is not wasted; you have just started a different phase of life. God will show you how to use your testimony to help others and restore their lives to exuberance. Please join me to encourage and inspire others. You have a story to tell, you can contribute and participate in the dialogues here. Let us all learn from one another’s experience and reach others with the gift of love and kindness. Share your experience by emailing me or making a comment. Celebrate your uniqueness because there is only one of you.[/b]

https://www.pastoranita.org/beta/

..problem is both Her and husband are too vague and abstract in their msg...come down with a real life msg...then folks will understand. ..ur human anyway but is always a rhapsody with them. ..wish them well sha

is she a nigerian? she looks mixed...

ladyF:
It's the kids I pity. Caught up in all the mess

I cant make up one single sense in what she wrote in relation to her divorce.

As far as im concerned,she has been unreasonable in her apprroach.

God help her with her negativity,persimism and unreasoning nature.

I dread piscean ladies like...

If i write an article on the nature of piscean ladies talking about women born within feb 20 and march 20 you all will agree with me that pastor anita is just acting out her nature.

They are naturally unreasonable.