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TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by princemillla(m): 10:47am On Aug 18, 2015
He said he was a doctor , I
didn’t have any cause to doubt him,
he had extensive knowledge and even
gave me some medical advice from
time to time, we eventually moved
from twitter to blackberry chat, we
chatted all the time, I got so
comfortable with him, I gave him my
number, and that would come to be
the biggest mistake I ever made.
Tobi called me every day, some days
he called more than once, at night he
would call and I would lay on my bed
and have phone intimacy with him, his
voice was so soothing, he made me do
things I never thought possible, he
had gained so much access into my
head, I realized later I had done
some very sick and twisted things
just to please him, I would take nude
pictures of myself, I would send him
videos of me touching myself in
private, and send him voice notes of
me making moaning sounds and
simulating orgasms, and all this
while we had not met, not face to face
at least, eventually I played into his
hands, I began pestering to meet him
in person, at this point I had lost my
mind, I assumed I was in-love with
him, and when my boyfriend at the
time broke up with me, I really
welcomed it, for me it meant no
more sneaking around.
Tobi eventually agreed to come to
lagos to meet me, all this while he
had made me to believe he was in
calabar, and would take time off
work to spend a weekend with me in
lagos, when I heard this I was excited,
he told me to book a reservation for
him, stating he would pay me back as
soon as he arrived and also he said
it would make him more committed
to the visit and would convince him
of my seriousness, I bought it all, he
was smart, he was cunning, and I was
stupid, oh how stupid I was. The funny
thing was I had sent him tons of
pictures, and all I had was just one
picture of him, and whenever I asked
he would claim he wanted to be sure I
loved him for him, and not for his
looks, and sheepishly
I would try to convince him of my
undying love, and would try to
appease him with nude pictures of my
body...


He eventually made it to lagos, I met
him at the hotel, he was tall,
handsome and had a wonderful
smile, he made love to me over and
over, and convinced me to spend the
night with him, I told him I couldn’t,
because I had a test the next morning,
now at this point I don’t know what
triggered his anger, don’t know if it
was because I couldn’t spend the night,
or maybe I said something else I can’t
remember saying, but whatever it
was, brought out a very ugly side of
him, he called me foul names, and
kept going on and on about how he
always knew I was cheap, and he knew
I was sleeping with other men, the
same man whom had swept me away,
slammed me on the floor, he told me
of how he had shown his friends all
my nude pictures and how they had
watched the videos and listened to
the voice notes, he told me he had
made a bet with his friends, that I
would actually pay for him to have
sex with me, just to prove how stupid
I was, well you can imagine how I felt,
I was confused and shocked, but I
attempted to regain any little
dignity I had left, and so I tried to
mouth off at him, suddenly he
punched me in the face, and I tripped
over, and hit my head on a stool.
The next thing I remember was
waking up on the bed, I was tied up,
and he was staring at me, his eyes
were dark and he had a sinister
smile on his lips, he stood up and
walked towards me ,I tried to scream
and realized my mouth was tapped,
my head was racing, the unfortunate
part was that no one knew where I
was, he turned me over, and told me
he was going to teach me a lesson, at
this point I was naked, he rapped me
from behind, and I mean my anus,
the pain was mind blowing, I
struggled, and he hit me, when he
was done he brought out a small
blade, and he looked at me for a
minute and said, this scare is going
to always serve as a reminder, for
girls like you always trying to be
more than you are, for stupid fools
like you, he put the blade to my
nipple and cut it off....
And anytime I
think of it, I still feel the pain, it was
like nothing I had ever felt before, he
was calm, like he had done it a
million times, I could feel the warm
blood dripping down my mutilated
breast, tears of fear and pain
running down my face, and suddenly
he turned around again, this time
all I saw was a flash.
I don’t know how I survived it, but I
woke up in a hospital days after, well
I was awake, bt my eyes were swollen
shut, It took a couple of days for me
to open my one good eye, and realize
d damage he had done, he had
plucked out my eye, and cut my face,
he had cut my breasts up real bad,
they had to it out, like I had cancer
or something, there was no record of
who I was, coz he had taken
everything, he had taken my bag,
containing everything I had.
I was able to tell the nurses about
what I could remember, and also give
them my mum’s phone number, the
hospital felt so much pity, they
actually treated me for free, hard to
believe right?
Anyway I was taken home after weeks
at the hospital to recuperate, it was
tough, I was blind in one eye, I had
one breast and a hideous scar of my
face, talk about your sinage, he did
a number on me, how dumb was I,
sometimes I wish he had killed me,
but there are fates worse than death,
and I guess this is one of them, he was
gone without a trace, the receipt
from the hotel was in my name, so yes
he had played me from the start.
I didn’t dare go back to school, I was
sure everyone would have heard, and
I was not going to become a statistic,
so I decided to stay home, and mind
my business, besides what do I need an education for, I’d rather stay home, because there is no rising from this,
there is no happy ending to this
story, this is the simple ending, I was
a victim if a sexual predator, and I
let him into my life period, and I take full responsibility for that, I was driven by greed and lack of morals, I allowed myself fall into an
abyss, but well saying all this doesn’t change anything....
It's a memory I
will have to live with for the rest of
my life, well not a memory, because I
look at myself in the mirror everyday, who would want to see a
nude picture of a woman with one
breast, one eye, and a stub. I have decided to publish my story,
because with the rise of social media there will be lots of victims! *Parents/guardians Train up your child in d way of d Lord, always pray for them, equip them nd guide them, Girls/Ladies find something doing with your life pls, have honour & dignity, It is well! Nice day!



God bless you as u read
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Nobody: 11:05am On Aug 18, 2015
A boyfriend at hand is better than 10husbands in the bush.

The devil you know is better than the Angel you dont know.

Loyalty saves life's......you think you know it all and as such you can take care of yourself. My question for you is why did some people come before you in life. Its to guide people like you who came after. If you dont have loyalty in you how can you obey your seniors hence you fall unto this type of ordeal.

For guys if you have loyalty, money will come. If you dont have loyalty then your only other option is fraud. Either way a guy succeeds but a girl dies or worse end up like the OV.
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Cutehector(m): 11:23am On Aug 18, 2015
Online dating... smiley embarassed
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by dulux07(m): 11:24am On Aug 18, 2015
I hope ladies learn rm dis.

I beliv social media is not d main issue. Its how cheap ladies present themselves nowadays n common sense. Never trust anyone.. meetin for d first time in an hotel is silly. Despite all d op has said, some foolish ladies wil stil fall victim.

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Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by princemillla(m): 3:08pm On Aug 18, 2015
Mods pls let this story hit the front page, so people can learn abeg. May we not fall victim if this terror.
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Rukkydelta(f): 3:11pm On Aug 18, 2015
Hmmmn
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by jennamarv(f): 3:45pm On Aug 18, 2015
I couldn't even imagine myself reading this......gosh embarassed lipsrsealed
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by ogogoro: 5:13am On Aug 19, 2015
This guy is a monster, but the morale of this story is s bit twisted. I as a parent would not just warn my girls, but also my boys too! It is this exclusive warning of girls that makes boys think they can go scot-free with this sort of behaviour!

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Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Pidggin(f): 6:54am On Aug 19, 2015
Sad story, but what efforts are being made by the police to investigate and arrest the man. What kind of country is this?!
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Bahaushiya: 7:27am On Aug 19, 2015
Gaskiya na Allah?
Who would do this much to a human and walk free?
*Disgusted*
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by sisisioge: 8:19am On Aug 19, 2015
Holy moses! shocked shocked shocked
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by DeeMain(m): 12:00pm On Aug 19, 2015
@OP where is the source? Who is the girl to you?

What a story! If this story is true, it's a sorry world.

She that has ears let her hear!
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Nobody: 12:29pm On Aug 19, 2015
E TOO LONG.......................NO NEED READING IT!THE OP NO DO SUMMARY FOR SCHOOL.
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by cococandy(f): 3:14pm On Aug 19, 2015
ogogoro:
This guy is a monster, but the morale of this story is s bit twisted. I as a parent would not just warn my girls, but also my boys too! It is this exclusive warning of girls that makes boys think they can go scot-free with this sort of behaviour!
kiss
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Ewuro4: 3:24pm On Aug 19, 2015
Been dodging this story because I know it'll infuriate me and it did.

Pidggin:
Sad story, but what efforts are being made by the police to investigate and arrest the man . What kind of country is this?!

Nah that wasn't necessary. Even his pictures in her possession aren't enough to start an investigation.

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Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Onegai(f): 4:52pm On Aug 19, 2015
ogogoro:
This guy is a monster, but the morale of this story is a bit twisted. I as a parent would not just warn my girls, but also my boys too! It is this exclusive warning of girls that makes boys think they can go scot-free with this sort of behaviour!

Nothing more to say than this. Predators exist out there and parents should teach their sons and daughters to avoid them and also trains their sons and daughters not to prey on people. We can't keep telling girls "be afraid all the time" and keeping quiet to boys. Of course girls will start to hate and fear boys and boys will feel they can do anything they want with no repercussions. And everyone suffers for it.

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Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by Mopricelezz(f): 8:11am On Aug 20, 2015
Oh My God! This is so pathetic
Re: TRUE LIFE STORY - Parent Teach Your Girls by jashar(f): 10:57am On Aug 20, 2015
cry[color=]This is a story that touches... she should release whatever info she has on the guy. [/color]

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