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I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by eherbal(m): 12:25pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Anita Oyakhilome, estranged wife of Pastor Chris Oyakhilome of Belivers' Love World Inc has finally spoken on her divorce. Anita, who now goes by her maiden name Ebhodaghe took to her blog (www.pastoranita.org ) to discuss how her life has been changing as of late making some serious references to her marriage as she wrote. She wrote; It is my desire to reach out and inspire you especially if you feel vulnerable and in need of a change. I hope to inspire you to believe in yourself no matter the circumstances. I want to help you recreate your life going forward, so you can live beautifully. I have been through this journey of rediscovery and nothing is as beautiful as realising one’s uniqueness as I have done. Life is a precious however, your life can go through different seasons: winter, spring, summer or autumn. Life can hit you with financial loss, disappointments, death of a loved one, a broken relationship, loss of a job, a divorce, being falsely accused or being a victim of crime. These can shatter you to pieces but you can do something about it. Life is a gift from God and you deserve to be happy irrespective of your age, race, gender, background or financial situation. I urge you to appreciate the gift you are, you are precious and valuable. Never lose sight of who you are; begin to create new visions and dreams for your life. Let nothing stop you from growing every day. My story is not one of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to either beat myself over the regret of tolerating abuse for so long or put a stop to the abuse and recreate my life for the best. My journey was not in vain. I can now help others realise that their situation does not define them. In order to move on with life, I have come to realise that nothing is permanent. Your problem is not permanent; you can do something to change it by ensuring you do not allow the situation or the person make your life miserable. Pain is a fact of life, it is inevitable but suffering is optional. You can do something to change the pain by over looking every obstacle, take control as a force of nature to grow and expand. Do what is necessary now to use the gift God has given you to unleash your purpose. My message to all is simple: you have value therefore discover your potential. Do not allow anybody destroy you or rob you of living a joyful life. Your life is not wasted; you have just started a different phase of life. God will show you how to use your testimony to help others and restore their lives to exuberance. Please join me to encourage and inspire others. You have a story to tell, you can contribute and participate in the dialogues here. Let us all learn from one another’s experience and reach others with the gift of love and kindness. Share your experience by emailing me or making a comment. Celebrate your uniqueness because there is only one of you. Source : http://www.nigerianbulletin.com/threads/i-tolerated-abuse-for-so-long-anita-oyakhilome-speaks-of-divorce.116141/ Your Take
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Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by Nobody: 12:26pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
nawa o |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by kilode100(f): 12:26pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Abuse my fat ass. 4 Likes |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by experimentist: 12:26pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
dis hoe should shut the f u c k up and enjoy her loot |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by Tallesty1(m): 12:46pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
kilode100:Fat kee 3 Likes |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by kelechi50: 1:08pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Divorce is not the best option. I pray for God's divine intervention |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by kilode100(f): 1:47pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
8 Likes |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by Rukkydelta(f): 2:32pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Interesting |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by Chidoks(f): 2:55pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Woman, your husband is not talking.emulate him and keep shut.every marriage has it's challenges.if your way out is divorce, go ahead and enjoy it but please stop being lousy about it.keep it to yourself. |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by Ewuro4: 2:58pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Why do I find this very bogus? God dey. |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by cococandy(f): 3:06pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Chidoks: Which husband is not talking? Lol it's like you didn't read all his ranting and belittling her when they got divorced? So far I think she's been more mature than him. That's if she's even the author of this one. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by Jorussia(m): 3:08pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
cococandy:Are they officially divorced? |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by cococandy(f): 3:09pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Jorussia: Aren't they? They whipped up a lot of dust then. Or should I say he whipped up a lot of dust then. I figured the divorce must have become final since he's been silent for while. Pls correct me if they haven't finalized it. Make I no go yarn rubbish elsewhere. 2 Likes |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by Ewuro4: 3:11pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Please stop all this ITK, they aren't divorced. Lordy lord have mercy on people's souls. |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by Jorussia(m): 3:16pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
cococandy:I doubt if they are officially divorced, because, i have seen/read in the media where it was reported the divorced. |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by cococandy(f): 3:29pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
Jorussia:ok. Thanks |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by cococandy(f): 3:37pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
. 1 Like |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by blessedtwins: 6:19pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
experimentist: And must you b condescending.how can you call someone's mum those 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by Pidggin(f): 6:27pm On Aug 19, 2015 |
experimentist: Who raised you? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by eherbal(m): 8:38am On Aug 20, 2015 |
cc Lalasticlala |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by Kayelyon: 11:30am On Oct 09, 2015 |
Chidoks: how na ? Her husband who belittled this woman publicly and in his church? Many pple expected her to expose her grieviances but She held back. This is the first time She's speaking publicly for over a year now. And She's merely encouraging emotionally abused persons thru her blog using few tips from her life. Whether or nt you agree, this woman has displayed maturity! 2 Likes |
Re: I Tolerated Abuse For So Long - Anita Oyakhilome Speaks Of Divorce by SAMBARRY: 12:20pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
experimentist:stop disgracing your parents. I know your parents taught you better than that. You don't call a woman old enough to be your mom a"hoe" Show some manners and represent them positively. Don't make it look like your mom didn't give you basic home training and as per the "loot" thing.where you there when she stole the money? Grow up |
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