Hey people, i'm seriously having a crush on one of my male friends. Well, we were class mates in the university and i used to admire him then. We are still friends after school but now my feelings for him is getting stronger. He's such a nice guy and above all, a christian. Our relationship is platonic but i need more. How do i get his attention without looking or sounding desperate. Advice please.

Nothing new.
Been there done that.

Does he show signs that he wants more?

mmm, not really. He strikes me as a shy person anyways but, i'm the one having the crush here and he doesn't even know. When we meet, we gist like normal friends but deep down my heart, i wish he could at least ask me out. Honestly, i like him.

Utchry:

mmm, not really. He strikes me as a shy person anyways but, i'm the one having the crush here and he doesn't even know. When we meet, we gist like normal friends but deep down my heart, i wish he could at least ask me out. Honestly, i like him.

Eyah.
I understand how you feel

Why don't you try telling him with body language.
Action speak louder than words sometimes

Utchry:

Hey people, i'm seriously having a crush on one of my male friends. Well, we were class mates in the university and i used to admire him then. We are still friends after school but now my feelings for him is getting stronger. He's such a nice guy and above all, a christian. Our relationship is platonic but i need more. How do i get his attention without looking or sounding desperate. Advice please.

I think I'm have a man crush on this guy too

Get talking with him on relationship issues
His kind of girl, if u qualify
If he is in relationship, gives u a little hope if he is not

He is a shy guy meanin there is 40% chance that he will ask u out
If he is in a relationship there is 20% chance that he will ask u out
If u are not his kind of girl there is 10% chance that he will ask u out
If u are his kind of girl and he his not in a relationship there is 75% chances that he will ask u out

But till then be extremely close to him
I knw this might be hard for u to do, looking into his eyes sometimes it speaks more than words
and sence his reactions at all times when u are together.

And ask urself these questions
How much time does he spend with u?
Is he free with u?
How often does he call or text?

And please dnt force yourself on him let it flow
all the best

If u want him to soji, tell him a guy is asking u out and ask him whether u should say yes, he will jump out of that shyness

@ut

Nothing is new under the sun,

Just tell him how u feel abt him,


Forego that mentality of been cheap,
Don.t allowed the passion to fade away,

Just give it a trial,
He too might have d same feeling,
As u said he is a shy guy,

@poster,
Have you ever heard where the put a gun over a woman's head for telling a man how she feels or is there any law forbiden that?
Someone else will come and tell him and you will regret it.

@ poster

do not make a fool of urself by telling him how u feel yet, find out if hes into a serious relationship

tell him how you feel, but find out if he''s into any relationship. guys like that always stick to their women like super glue.

There is nothing wrong in telling a guy u like him.
dont u have a boifriend?why do u want to take your wonderful gift away from nairaland now?pls deregulate,some of us can do better than just offering an advice ok.

see sum1 already has a crush on u

why stalling sister
i op ur story doesnt end up like my friend's
she opened to how mush she cared about me after i had wooed and stated dating my beloved girlfrind.
i and this frnd of my were pretty lose, but she never cared 4 have a relationship with me,even when i approached her with it

but, now she's going thru everyday of her life wishing we dated.


stop stalling

@charminme,u've got a 9ce idea,really like dt,@poster,try charminme's idea,guess,it's gonna work

@charminme,u've got a 9ce idea,really like dt,@poster,try charminme's idea,guess,it's gonna work,lexi's idea is nt bad too,try dt too and get back 2 us, we dey gbadun ur thread!

@above all christian


this is what is killing we pple, religion have divided us,its must be christian first if not she wont fancy him lol
i think ur race shud come first before ur religion our God is a God for all and not a God of christians
african americans will surely see race before religion and so other countries but africans will see religion before race, shameful

@poster


Do whatever you know will attract him and whatever you know he fancy

y me:

@poster


Do whatever you know will attract him and whatever you know he fancy

that's if he is not into some1else, if not u'll look cheap to him and he might take advantage of that by having a quickie wit u and later dump ur sorry ass

@camelot, that quickie business does not usually work u know!!!!! I tried it wit a lady a few years ago, am telling u she's stuck up
my throat like a fish bone up till today.lol

tlet him know how u feel

@ poster,u need 2 search ur heart if truely what u have 4 him is love.atimes crush often confused with love,its purely physical attraction and has no lasting effect.