abeg, wetin u dey try tell us? we no understand o.

wat he meant is errrm . . . . . . . hope u now understand

well guy the only reason i don't go through that stress is b'cos at the end of the day you don't get the babe, you'll have wated precious time that would have been productive. so i go straight and if the response is negative i move on to the next one without hesitating. some babes will allow you to fool yourself while building their self-esteem.

@poster
i am trying to get your drift, from what i understand not all relationship begins with the guy toasting it all depends on how close the girl finds you to be and the way she gets attracted to you.

OgidiBoy:

me sef i no understand

Ah ah
The poster aint writing in chinese or greek

He is askin if men need to toast a gal from the point he meets her. He does not do that, rarely do i. Like he said one can make himself attractive to the gal, get closer and the he is in her heart thus she cant jus reject. It works most times but truely takes time as i hav learnt. Better to move fast cos like a poster said the girl will use you to build self esteem and may not gell.

To me one of the best methods is to get money, have taste, be confident, dress well, spend money, speak ur mind and swagger like us