As it is, my girlfriend of about 7months and I are having some little bit of trouble in our relationship and it borders on infidelity, disregard and mistrust.

While the first is my alleged crime which I admit, the other two are problems that she has.

She is a lady from a divorced home. Her Dad had several wives and I guess this contributed immensely to her inability to condone any act of familiarity with the opposite sex as I have hitherto been quite good at.

At the sight of a females picture or text which sometimes are playfully amorous she snaps and begins a macabre dance of paranoid and delusional dances

While I must admit that I love her and genuinely of course.

This show of destructive tendencies was never what I bargained for.Severally she had asked to leave the relationship for much more flimsy excuses but this current one with a lady I was once involved with seems to have been the last draw and it has fractured the camel's back.

I however want her back so much not because of lack of options: never but because there are no assurances as to whom the next person would be like

I have been traumatised by relationships in the past and I feel I beat myself too hard sometimes

Sometimes our fights had been physically abusive and believe me my folks raised a good man, I would never raise my hand on a woman. But even with such actions I still have strong feelings for her

I'm I delusional or infatuated or just being plain stupid?

Won't it be wise to just let this lady go Nd move on with someone better?

A physically abusive woman can kill right?

I am confused and I feel my mental judgement is clouded by this thing called love and I need a reawakening.

Someone should please wake me up I need to smell the morning coffee.

Eya

I however want her back so much not because of lack of options: never but because there are no assurances as to whom the next person would be like

your above statement is the solution to your problem if you start thinking otherwise.

See case..
Op it's love jare. It's good to love our partner

U r just being silly




Wo go wake u up kwanu? Sleep well

Wonderful! Wonderment!!

I ran in here hoping to see a crying man,doiing female chores at home.....am highly disappointed

sorry. You'll be alright

mouth sealed

Op... If she beat u again... Beat her back.... U d talk like say u be ajebutta.... Dem no born her well...make she carry her fix fingers near me say she want beat me....whether ah no go dismantle her figure8 for her!....
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In as much as I don't lay a finger on any woman...But I'll never let a woman tries dat with me... But try and work on ur infidelity...then she will trust you...
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She's a jeloz girl and dat is becoz she loves u...and wouldn't want to lose u. Admit that fact and abstain from other girls... Jst satisfy her with that and she will learn to trust u...

acxlers2014:


This:

I however want her back so much not because of lack of options: never but because there are no assurances as to whom the next person would be like

I have been traumatised by relationships in the past and I feel I beat myself too hard sometimes

And this:
A physically abusive woman can kill right?

Focus on those two 'cos you're in a dingy, mahn. Up a creek without a paddle! Think fast! Survival first, right? Well, I have made my thoughts known, albeit tacitly. Use the head; and not the heart.

mcheeeeew guy pls go meet majek fashek in rehab

no any that sh*t women will beat me down

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