Some ladies (especially the nagging type of ladies and stubborn head ladies) said that it is not good to hit or slap a nagging wife (or a wife who has bad mouth) at all...
But then, another treatment for nagging wives and wives with bad mouth is cold treatment or silent treatment (which may even span weeks and months).
But it happens that these same type of ladies hate the cold/silent treatment too..
So ladies.. What is the best way to handle a nagging lady.??
Slapping.? or Long Silence.? or What.??

Answer me please

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Is it okay for the wife to beat the husband if he behaves badly?

Hitting a lady is a no no for me. Silent treatment is the best.

It is not good to hit a woman... hitting her will only fuel the nagging spirit ...Silence is the best, she go nag tire she will rest after

Am very hot tempered but I don't support hitting. Lady no matter what!

Leave her to nag or use silent treatment but beat? No no. It wl make u luk stupid. Sorry to say.

Silent treatment is more effective than violence. Just pretend like they don't exist. At least that is not a criminal offence unlike physical abuse which can land you in jail.

Its only a beast who will raise a hand on a lady regardless the provocation... Its always best to take a walk whr U̶̲̥̅̊ are temperamental or jst ignore her rantings if U̶̲̥̅̊ can stand it or better still seek 4 a divorce whr U̶̲̥̅̊ are sure d Marriage has irritrievably broken down. Der is no excuse 4 Domestic Violence.

tk4rd:

So.. What is the best way to handle a nagging lady.??
Slapping.? or Long Silence.? or What.??

My dear its both but they need to be applied properly. If she open mouth abuse ur mum in public-na automatic slap. But if its btw u and her and d kids-na silence, but that's after reprimanding her at least to command respect b4 ur children. But for me after reprimanding her, I will just leave the house and come back at night and d silence go looonnng wella cuz its gud to remain silent than to cause a bigger trouble with ur mouth out of anger

But the earlier a woman agrees that a man can not perfectly meet up with all her heart desires, d lower her nagging and d better for her.

D funny thing is some women will nag and nag and still expect dia hubby to perform well on bed. Its in record that nagging is one of the cause of temporary impotence in men. A man's heart have to be in a state of peace if he must perform sexually well. No man's heart is a rock even if he has 6packs

See what d bible says about such women (prov.21:19)

It's wrong for a Man to raise his hand against his wife, no matter the crime the woman commits.
You have to understand women, they are so emotional. Yes! They "talk alot" as some men say. But when a woman continues nagging, it's advisable the man picks his shirt and walk away from the house at that moment just to stop frustration/anger of the man...and return in a later minutes or hours.

Mariecakes:
It is not good to hit a woman... hitting her will only fuel the nagging spirit ...Silence is the best, she go nag tire she will rest after

For how long?
Sit her down and talk sense into her.

Kingsasian:
Hitting a lady is a no no for me. Silent treatment is the best.

Exactly,nd when d anger has subsided_he can talk to her about the issue

Mynd44:
Is it okay for the wife to beat the husband if he behaves badly?

For where.??

Mariecakes:
It is not good to hit a woman... hitting her will only fuel the nagging spirit ...Silence is the best, she go nag tire she will rest after

Nagging ladies hate silence.. it drives them wild and silly..
If you are nagging lady, u will understand what I mean.
They would say: "This your silence is killing me.. so u are quiet, let a mad woman be talking alone naa.."

ChappyChase:
Am very hot tempered but I don't support hitting. Lady no matter what!

Would you leave the house for her if she continues firing you with her vocal missiles.?

QueenEdna:
Its only a beast who will raise a hand on a lady regardless the provocation... Its always best to take a walk whr U̶̲̥̅̊ are temperamental or jst ignore her rantings if U̶̲̥̅̊ can stand it or better still seek 4 a divorce whr U̶̲̥̅̊ are sure d Marriage has irritrievably broken down. Der is no excuse 4 Domestic Violence.

COOL..

tk4rd:
Would you leave the house for her if she continues firing you with her vocal missiles.?

Before she start I don comot go chill with another chick before you know, she go dey beg make you come back.

Olasco93:
It's wrong for a Man to raise his hand against his wife, no matter the crime the woman commits.
You have to understand women, they are so emotional. Yes! They "talk alot" as some men say. But when a woman continues nagging, it's advisable the man picks his shirt and walk away from the house at that moment just to stop frustration/anger of the man...and return in a later minutes or hours.

If it happens that you left the house and come back later at night, only to hear: "This man, where did you go.? and by the way, where did I stop...".. What will you do.? Leave the house again that night.?

tk4rd:
Nagging ladies hate silence.. it drives them wild and silly..
If you are nagging lady, u will understand what I mean.
They would say: "This your silence is killing me.. so u are quiet, let a mad woman be talking alone naa.."

lolzzzz I dnt nag but I believe silence is still best, when the mad woman is tired of talking she will keep quiet

LaurelP:


For how long?
Sit her down and talk sense into her.

For two weeks or so.. A very long silence..

ivyT:

Exactly,nd when d anger has subsided_he can talk to her about the issue

Remember.. Nagging wives are always right.. The husband is always wrong., no matter how hard he tries..
So, what will the husband (who is always wrong) be "talking to" with his "always correct" wife.??
....
I am not referring to misunderstandings in the family..
I MEAN... A NATURALLY NAGGING LADY.. OR SOMEONE WHOSE BAD-MOUTHING IS IN HER BLOOD.

ChappyChase:

Before she start I don comot go chill with another chick before you know, she go dey beg make you come back.

Na there you go hear nwụịiin... Nagging wives can even hit u or physically fight with you if they catch you red-handed (or have a good evidence of you going out) with another chick.

Men should stop complaining about nagging wives cuz you dated her for a while, why didn't you find a solution to her nagging before marriage? ? You must have seen a sign or two that she nags...It's not like cheating that you can hide

tk4rd:
Na there you go hear nwụịiin... Nagging wives can even hit u or physically fight with you if they catch you red-handed (or have a good evidence of you going out) with another chick.

Bros you don't get! When I leave am done with the marriage, make she dey nag her self dey go..

Mariecakes:
Men should stop complaining about nagging wives cuz you dated her for a while, why didn't you find a solution to her nagging before marriage? ? You must have seen a sign or two that she nags...It's not like cheating that you can hide

MY DEAR.. THIS THING CALLED LOVE IS SO BAD.. BEFORE MARRIAGE, HE THOUGHT HE COULD COPE..
EVEN WHEN HE MIGHT HAVE WANTED TO LEAVE THE LADY, THE LADY WOULD CRY IN SUCH A WAY THAT HE WOULD HAVE THIS SILLY FEAR OF BREAKING HER HEART IF HE LEAVES HER..
LOVE IS REALLY CRAZY.

Mariecakes:
Men should stop complaining about nagging wives cuz you dated her for a while, why didn't you find a solution to her nagging before marriage? ? You must have seen a sign or two that she nags...It's not like cheating that you can hide

You never jamb desperate babe way wan marry, she will be cool as a saint till she enter your house!

ChappyChase:

Bros you don't get! When I leave am done with the marriage, make she dey nag her self dey go..

You would quit the marriage.?? Wooww.. Wahalla dey oo

tk4rd:
You would quit the marriage.?? Wooww.. Wahalla dey oo

I can stand a cheating wife than a nagging wife!

Yes very effective,only 1 slap can do the trick

its not easy to handle a nagging wife or a woman with bad mouth coz the hurtful words can push a man to the wall. As a man u just have to wear the garment of patience if u have such wife.