Everybody has one thing or another to share
when it comes to love and relationship but
not all advice are meant to be followed.
People give advice according to their
experience but it will not necessarily work for
you the way it worked for them.
Let us take a look at seven love advice that
you should think twice about:

1. Forgive and forget:
Yes, forgiveness is a
very important aspect of every relationship,
but this is usually easier said than done,
especially the part about forgetting. When you
have been hurt, letting-go takes time and you
never forget..
If you try to rush this process, you will end up
finding that all you did was sweep everything
under the carpet and soon after, things will
only blow up in your face. Take your time, talk
it out with your partner and do not rush so
that when you do forgive, you forgive for real.

2. Love conquers all:
Love conquers a lot of
things, no doubt, but it does not conquer
every single thing you will face in your
relationship. With some issues, only patience,
time and maturity or even a breakup will help
you solve it.
A lot of people are in relationships that are
not working out simply because they
stubbornly believe that just because they are
in love, everything should be okay. You need
to recognize the things that love is incapable
of dealing with and work on them with what is
needed.

3. Never go to bed angry:
This advice is
basically saying you must solve all problems
and deal with every argument all within the
day. Frankly, this is just impossible.
Sometimes, some problems need time to be
solved.
Sometimes, all you need is a break, to sleep
on your argument and get some much needed
space for things to get better. If you have a
time limit on all your fights, a lot of things will
not be tackled and at the end of the day, you
will say good night when you know you are
not really at peace with yourself and your
relationship.


4. Love hurts:
Betrayal hurts, pain hurts,
heartbreak hurts, but love is the one thing
that should make you feel good. A lot of
people repeat the “love hurts” mantra to
themselves to justify being in a hurtful
relationship. True love should never bring
about pain and despair. Yes, there will be
stormy waters, but true love should be the
only light during this time.


5. Love is blind:
Finding someone you love
should never be a decision to be made blindly.
You cannot go through the true challenges of
any relationship if you entered into it blindly.

6. Money does not matter:
Money is never
everything, but it sure matters. You cannot
have a strong relationship without having
some sort of financial stability. You might not
have it all, but in a relationship, you have to
both be content with where you are with the
belief that things can and will get better.
Pretending money is not an issue will only
lead to each of you feeling discontent and not
being able to discuss it or find a solution.

7. True love is forever:
There will be times in
your relationship when you are not even sure
you love your partner. There will be times you
feel numb or unhappy with them but this does
not mean what you have is not true love.
Love ebbs and flows. Sometimes you love
them so much you cannot imagine life without
them, and sometimes, you just want to run
away, but underneath it all, you both share a
bond that will never be broken. That is love.

8. Follow your heart:
Your heart is important
in determining what you feel for someone but
you should not make all your love decisions
based on how you feel. It is important that
you use your brains and intuition to also
determine whether or not someone will make
the best fit for you.

You too much...OP where did u get this inspiration thus this article?

Noted

the 'money does not matter' is a real joke. No matter ke?

lagmostkuit:
9. You don't love for money.

Iffahear, a guy becomes romantic wen he knows how to spend for his bae!

A woman becomes romantic when she showers gifts like iPhone6, iPads, Rolex and brand wears on her boo.

lagmostkuit:

Abi nah..

Naso. Where that agbero hmmm sorry hubby stephenqueen. Hin dey jail?

kia..

U r right op. Mostly on nuba 6.

lagmostkuit:

Ya calling my boo stephenqueen agbero abi?


Been a while I heard 4rm him tho!

Did you ask of me?

lagmostkuit:

I'm sorry sugar..

lagmostkuit my bae

lagmostkuit:

I'm sorry sugar..

Missed you sha .How's osun?

lagmostkuit:

why you dey do face like that?

Abi u no be my bae again?

lagmostkuit:

Starting when?

January 09 2014

lagmostkuit:

Hmmmmmm

yea bae. It's been a while.

Can we talk outside nairaland?

lagmostkuit:
Like we've talked b4..

No, we can't

try nd reply in a polite manner nxt time.

lagmostkuit:

Like we've talked b4..


No, we can't

you mustn't know someone before you initiate a convo or anything similar to that. Apparently we haven't talked before but uy hey : the best couple in the world never knew they would be couple. Such is life.

lagmostkuit:
Did LieDetector complain?

Mind ur business!

hmmm. sorry ma!

lagmostkuit:

Did LieDetector complain?


Mind ur business!

yea. Liedetector is most aggrieved .

mystage:

hmmm. sorry ma!

I hope you're not trying to declare your interest