This actually happened to my aunt,she has been in this relationship for ten years that everyone thinks or knows they are gonna marry eachother eventhough he wasn't employed before but just of recent too before their breakup.
He got a job working in one those of bank now that he's gotten a job he broke up with her.do you know the funniest part?ofcos it was hard for him to break up that easily he used an excuse..of emm,emm,I went to about four pastors and I was told same thing by all of them that I can't marry you,that God can't bless our home....you see!he doesn't know that before just after ten years relationship...since then I don't believe time matters in relationship and it really pain me oo was just thinking if such happened to me what would I have done?so I am directing this question to everyone out there I wanna gain...if it was you(dorsnt pray it should happen to u)what would you have done This actually happened to my aunt,she has been in this relationship for ten years that everyone thinks or knows they are gonna marry eachother eventhough he wasn't employed before but just of recent too before their breakup.
He got a job working in one those of bank now that he's gotten a job he broke up with her.do you know the funniest part?ofcos it was hard for him to break up that easily he used an excuse..of emm,emm,I went to about four pastors and I was told same thing by all of them that I can't marry you,that God can't bless our home....you see!he doesn't know that before just after ten years relationship...since then I don't believe time matters in relationship and it really pain me oo was just thinking if such happened to me what would I have done?so I am directing this question to everyone out there I wanna gain...if it was you(dorsnt pray it should happen to u)what would you have done

Sorry

I don't want to be hanged for murder so I move on.

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Well i don't want it to happen to me, so i don't know.

Did he promise to marry her?

Why will you date for 10 years?

christinie:
Did he promise to marry her?

Good question!

so when the money wasnt there...he didnt know what God thought about their union....

I don't get you

wetin make her stay 4 a relationship ten yrs @ d first place?mtchwww

christinie:
Did he promise to marry her?

ofcos...it is obvious....everyone knows him in our family...even more Dan family same to his family too...nd moreover,dere was even a day he came to our church saying very soon he is going to come dr nd pick his wife...unknownly everyyhing is just a cajole

Ariani:
wetin make her stay 4 a relationship ten yrs @ d first place?mtchwww

Wat r u saying?Dey have been dating from their teens age?now the guy is 28 nd d lady is 27

bobolizim:
Wat r u saying?Dey have been dating from their teens age?now the guy is 28 nd d lady is 27

tell ur aunty to move on cos nowadays d boiz ain't loyal

Ten whole years is no joke,but from his reason,am tempted to say that she had better taken it now than face unknown consequence in future,if we to beleive him hook line and sinker.

vizkiz:
naija pastors been destroying relationships with their "visions" since 19BC

thinking about it very well do u even think he went to any pastoras young as I am,such thing if u wanna do it nd u r clean I think dt calls for both party going together....if dr is strong bond dr

nseke:
Ten whole years is no joke,but from his reason,am tempted to say that she had better taken it now than face unknown consequence in future,if we to beleive him hook line and sinker.

the problem here ,if he truly loves her,ten good years...now she's getting old if not that she has small stature ni....27 years for God sake...if he had known that why couldn't he have told her earlier on why now?and he's dating someone else now

i mean no insult but dating for ten years !? thats sex slave niyen oo

bobolizim:
ofcos...it is obvious....everyone knows him in our family...even more Dan family same to his family too...nd moreover,dere was even a day he came to our church saying very soon he is going to come dr nd pick his wife...unknownly everyyhing is just a cajole

I'm sorry but your Anutie only assumed....That's why it's always good to define a relationship to know your stand.

I feel bad for her sha but she has to move on though it's difficult but she no get choice.

Eyah. 10 years with the wrong person. Luckily life has smiled on her she can hook up with the right man no bitter divorce, sorrowful, painful marriage. Good riddance I say.

ammyluv2002:
I'm sorry but your Anutie only assumed....That's why it's always good to define a relationship to know your stand.

I feel bad for her sha but she has to move on though it's difficult but she no get choice.

nd u r d one assuming!how would u have known she assumed??i am not between then so I don't no what Dey discuss but I know marriage is involved....if a guy doesn't wanna marry a lady,why dating for ten Yeats?why allowing everyone to know Dey r dating??including her dad nd everyone else,and besides is it possible to have such relationship without talking about marriageofcos not...funniest part Dey even went to same higher institution

bg0074real:
i mean no insult but dating for ten years !? thats sex slave niyen oo

I doubt that though....cos even d guy wanna be a pastor.....he attends cac though...sex slavenot everyone wants have urge for sex like that....though I didn't exclude the fact Dey might have had sex ooo

bobolizim:
the problem here ,if he truly loves her,ten good years...now she's getting old if not that she has small stature ni....27 years for God sake...if he had known that why couldn't he have told her earlier on why now?and he's dating someone else now

certainly ,he has shown no sign of love.my advice,not until ten yrs has past,looks wicked, she should find Christ, for He alone give her good things of life

bobolizim:
ofcos...it is obvious....everyone knows him in our family...even more Dan family same to his family too...nd moreover,dere was even a day he came to our church saying very soon he is going to come dr nd pick his wife...unknownly everyyhing is just a cajole

he promised by inference. She can sue him for breach of promise of marriage.

nseke:
certainly ,he has shown no sign of love.my advice,not until ten yrs has past,looks wicked, she should find Christ, for He alone give her good things of life

yes bro....we r hoping for the best for her....she was just trying to be strong but we all know it really got her

christinie:
he promised by inference. She can sue him for breach of promise of marriage.

Lols...abi oo...but that doesn't solve anything....she left him and she hopes she gonna find someone bera off Dan him sha

10yrs! Op no offence but ur Aunt no wise at all. This days 3 months is enough for me for two ppl to get married

bobolizim:
Lols...abi oo...but that doesn't solve anything....she left him and she hopes she gonna find someone bera off Dan him sha

all the best to ya!