Am a 31 years old guy dating a 24 years old lady,I graduated 5years back after searching for job for 2 to 3 years I decided to go into my own small scale business which I believe is going to get bigger in the nearest future.
My parent and siblings expect me to settled down and start my own family very very soon like this year or latest next year,
The lady am dating told me she will like to complete her education which will take her up to 3 to 4years to achieve it and every attempt to persuade her is not yield anything good, with my age to add another 4 years I think is a bit late moreso I like to settle down this year or the coming one
Pls ADVICE me should I leave her or should I wait for another 4years would I regret my action later on in the future moreso am I into a wrong relationship

If you cannot wait for her, then let her go and look for another person that is ready to marry.

Bros is beter u carry on wit your life if u have ever experience any disappointment from ladies of today u will not try to wait for her u hardly see 5percent out of 100 DAT keep to promise

if u leave her now, will u now look for a girl and still marry her this year?

Ha!
Why not get her pregnant?
Tell her parents she's pregnant for you and you won't forgive her if she dares terminate
It will lead to an uproar.... During whichj you'll let her parents know you're not ready to have a kid out af wedlock .... She won't have any option iF you are smart and know how to play this kind af game.

olaafirst:
Bros is beter u carry on wit your life if u have ever experience any disappointment from ladies of today u will not try to wait for her u hardly see 5percent out of 100 DAT keep to promise

lol
Make Bro no enter one chance

Sabrwahaqqo:
Ha!
Why not get her pregnant?
Tell her parents she's pregnant for you and you won't forgive her if she dares terminate
It will lead to an uproar.... During whichj you'll let her parents know you're not ready to have a kid out af wedlock .... She won't have any option iF you are smart and know how to play this kind af game.

Baba ooo

Sabrwahaqqo:
Ha!
Why not get her pregnant?
Tell her parents she's pregnant for you and you won't forgive her if she dares terminate
It will lead to an uproar.... During whichj you'll let her parents know you're not ready to have a kid out af wedlock .... She won't have any option iF you are smart and know how to play this kind af game.

My religion does not allowed pregnant b4 nikkah

You completed your own education, you don't her to complete hers? Bro... You better swerve unto the the fast lane, Do you think she would concur to marry you after 4yrs?

sseunth:
if u leave her now, will u now look for a girl and still marry her this year?

I don't believe in long time relationship if a lady fit into my own want 3month its okay to settled down with her

Bolajihefty:
My religion does not allowed pregnant b4 nikkah

Be sincere wd me, have you guys EVER had sex?

ArchEnemy:
Baba ooo

Afi ka sa ma se daada!

Sabrwahaqqo:

Be sincere wd me, have you guys EVER had sex?

I have not even touch her breast not to talk of sex, I just hold her hand

Bolajihefty:

I have not even touch her breast not to talk of sex, I just hold her hand

Mashallah! You shouldn't even hold hands, you know?

sseunth:
if u leave her now, will u now look for a girl and still marry her this year?

Bros, U really made sense sir. But let me add this to it. The Op said and I quote 'my parents and siblings expect me to settle down' meaning the Op isn't even ready yet. Pls don't take this as an insult Dear OP sir,... U should be taking decision(s) on ur own and not anyone influencing your decision(s). Nobody will be there to enjoy/endure the aftermath of any decision(s) you take. If you are convince and ready to get married, speak to ur fiance and let her see the reason for this but if you are still unsure basically for financial reasons, please try to work more and save more.
May the Almighty God give you the wisdom to take the right step sir.

Bolajihefty:
Am a 31 years old guy dating a 24 years old lady,I graduated 5years back after searching for job for 2 to 3 years I decided to go into my own small scale business which I believe is going to get bigger in the nearest future.
My parent and siblings expect me to settled down and start my own family very very soon like this year or latest next year,
The lady am dating told me she will like to complete her education which will take her up to 3 to 4years to achieve it and every attempt to persuade her is not yield anything good, with my age to add another 4 years I think is a bit late moreso I like to settle down this year or the coming one
Pls ADVICE me should I leave her or should I wait for another 4years would I regret my action later on in the future moreso am I into a wrong relationship

Left to me a 24 year old girl that still has 3-4 years to graduate is an olodo. I graduated at 21! I can't deal with such backwardness/liability or allow it impede my shine. My advise is to ditch her and get an asset of a lady.

3doursdown:

Left to me a 24 year old girl that still has 3-4 years to graduate is an olodo. I graduated at 21! I can't deal with such backwardness/liability or allow it impede my shine. My advise is to ditch her and get an asset of a lady.

Very silly way of thinking.

Bolajihefty:
Am a 31 years old guy dating a 24 years old lady,I graduated 5years back after searching for job for 2 to 3 years I decided to go into my own small scale business which I believe is going to get bigger in the nearest future.
My parent and siblings expect me to settled down and start my own family very very soon like this year or latest next year,
The lady am dating told me she will like to complete her education which will take her up to 3 to 4years to achieve it and every attempt to persuade her is not yield anything good, with my age to add another 4 years I think is a bit late moreso I like to settle down this year or the coming one
Pls ADVICE me should I leave her or should I wait for another 4years would I regret my action later on in the future moreso am I into a wrong relationship

- does this lady have the same religious beliefs as yours?
- how long have you guys dated?
- what do you know about this lady?
- obviously you guys dont have the same aim in life, so why want to marry her?
- if these are the reasons why you want to get married then, i am sorry to say that you want to get hitched for the wrong reasons... what do YOU want?!
- you are desperate due to family pressures, and subsequently, pressuring a lady who barely knows you. marriage is not a gamble, beware of what you wish for.
- there is only ONE thing to do here, and thats to take it easy and get married when you will find the RIGHT lady... this one aint it!