You are fun, vibrant, attractive -- an all around great catch, doing everything you can think of to find "the one." So, why can't you? You might be surprised by the answer.


Be Yourself.

If you are doing things you don't normally do and acting like someone you aren't, solely in the name of finding love, you are never going to find who you are looking for. It also isn't fair to those you start to date. It's not his or her fault you pretended to be someone you weren't. Here are a couple situations to avoid when searching for love:

1. Posting false information on social media.

For example, don't claim to enjoy partying when you are really more of the stay at home type. Don't claim to be quiet when in fact you cant help but talk, stop making people see you for what you are not. Guess what? You are great just the way you are.
You want to find someone who loves you for you, and not for who they think you are.

2. Going to places you aren't comfortable at or doing things you normally wouldn't

If you don't enjoy going to the bar, don't go there to find someone. If you don't want to go to church every Sunday, don't tell someone you will. It's not fair to either of you. If you don't like skirts don't pretend that you do. BE YOURSELF.


3. Expecting others to be who you want them to be.

Accept them and they will accept you. You can't change someone, you can try but its hard and almost impossible. If you aren't willing to change for them, accept that he or she won't change for you. Acceptance will give you peace of mind at the end of the day trust me.


4. Changing your personality or looks to be how you think someone wants you to be.

You met this really hot guy who typically goes for fair curvy girls -- that doesn't mean you should go out and bleach your skin and harm yourself in the process. In the long run, neither of you will be happy. I can't say it enough: You are good enough just the way you are and your "soulmate" will see that. You won't need to change a thing.

If you sincerely want to find someone to spend the rest of your life with, be honest with yourself. Then, remain true to yourself. In turn, you will find someone who values you and truly wants to be with you. Don't force love. Relax and let it come to you. You are worth it and true love is worth the wait.

Tell them....

Hope they gonna hear

Well said bro

Gbam!