Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 1:13pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Blizzyblinkzy:
ok thanks.
So my boyfriend loves me?
hmmmm...it feels good to know someone you love feels same way also to you. |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:16pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
charijee: I know You have no idea.....trust me Btw, how's the squad? |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 1:20pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez:
You have no idea.....trust me
Btw, how's the squad? So cool ...gist me what's new |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:25pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
charijee: So cool ...gist me what's new Apart from the fact that I'm now a glorified junkie..... nothing is new. |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 1:47pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez:
Apart from the fact that I'm now a glorified junkie..... nothing is new. Huh? ....meaning what exactly? |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:52pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
charijee: Huh? ....meaning what exactly? What does "junkie " mean?.. Lol..... Oh I forgot to add....I dey look for who get 50k wey them no dey use |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 1:57pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez:
What does "junkie " mean?.. Lol.....
Oh I forgot to add....I dey look for who get 50k wey them no dey use Don't get you at all....Speak the language I'll understand |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:58pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
charijee: [i][Don't get you at all....Speak the language I'll understand/i] I'm on drugs |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by charijee(f): 2:12pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:31pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by iamrealdeji(m): 2:32pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Op's writes this like Tosyne2much 1 Like |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by erusen: 3:20pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
and still life goes on |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by tosyne2much(m): 7:34pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
iamrealdeji: Op's writes this like Tosyne2much Oh seriously ? |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by Blizzyblinkzy(f): 9:21pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
zadok60:
hmmmm...it feels good to know someone you love feels same way also to you. yea its a nyc feeling. Thanks |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 8:13am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Glowstone: n then u know u'v been friend zoned and scammed |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by Nobody: 9:09am On Sep 06, 2015 |
zadok60: We all fall in love for someone at least once in a lifetime.Love is that indescribable and unmeasurable feeling of joy that fills our entire body.It’s an amazing feeling that can bring us the happiest moments in our lives, as well as the worst.
You dedicate completely to that person to the point that all your needs are second place compared to her needs. But what happens when that person doesn’t love you back?
1. The pain will come You’ll start feeling that the world is tearing apart and you’ll feel like every single piece of you is shattering into pieces. You can’t believe that after everything you’ve done and all you’ve been through, someone else got that place in her heart. Pain will slowly take possession of your body and eventually you’re gonna cry. Yes, you’re gonna cry no matter how tough you are, because you really loved her and losing her wasn’t on your plans.
2. …and then the denial You’re gonna deny the fact that she’s in love with someone else. You’re gonna try not to face the truth about the situation and will try to convince yourself that it’s just a bad dream. Every part of you knows the truth, but you won’t face it and that will make you feel even more pain. Probably you’ll ask her to have lunch together and she’ll tell you that she has plans with her date and you will be in that awkward moment when you’re left speechless and you will tell her how happy you’re for her, but you’re going through a heartbreak that will make you cry again.
3. She’ll be closer to you than ever To add salt to the wound, she’ll be closer to you than ever. She’ll tell you everything about the guy she’s dating and how nervous she is about him because she’s really into him and you’ll be like “please stop, don’t you see I love you and it hurts me to know all of this…” She’ll tell you how much she needs you right now and even though you don’t like the idea you will support her just to be near her and to make her happy. Her smile will motivate you and little by little the pain will be replaced with hope that someday maybe she’ll be interested in you.
4. One day she’ll introduce you to the guy The day you meet the guy will be a tough one. You’ll question yourself why she chose him over you. It will be really hard to be neutral with your comments, because you’d want to tell her she’s making a terrible mistake, but you won’t do it because you want her to be happy even if that means to let her go.
5. And then comes the moment of truth Either she will be the guy’s girlfriend, or she’ll change her mind and leave him. Let’s be honest, the first one is the most probable option. You will still be hurt, but the wounds will start healing, and the fact that she’s happy will make you feel a bit better.
6. Someday you’ll find someone else in which you’ll fall for You’ll eventually heal, but you’ll always remember her and that will haunt you for some time. You’ll be scared to let love come to your life again. Calm down, it’s normal. When something or someone hurts us it’s difficult to forget it and we tend to be scared, but someone will eventually help us heal. Someday you’ll meet another girl that will make you fall for her and the feelings that once belonged to another girl will awaken and fill your heart with hope. And at that moment, you’ll make a tough choice between giving yourself a chance to love again, or not. Hopefully that person you fell for will love you too. very true |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by malele(m): 11:01am On Sep 06, 2015 |
zadok60: We all fall in love for someone at least once in a lifetime.Love is that indescribable and unmeasurable feeling of joy that fills our entire body.It’s an amazing feeling that can bring us the happiest moments in our lives, as well as the worst.
You dedicate completely to that person to the point that all your needs are second place compared to her needs. But what happens when that person doesn’t love you back?
1. The pain will come You’ll start feeling that the world is tearing apart and you’ll feel like every single piece of you is shattering into pieces. You can’t believe that after everything you’ve done and all you’ve been through, someone else got that place in her heart. Pain will slowly take possession of your body and eventually you’re gonna cry. Yes, you’re gonna cry no matter how tough you are, because you really loved her and losing her wasn’t on your plans.
2. …and then the denial You’re gonna deny the fact that she’s in love with someone else. You’re gonna try not to face the truth about the situation and will try to convince yourself that it’s just a bad dream. Every part of you knows the truth, but you won’t face it and that will make you feel even more pain. Probably you’ll ask her to have lunch together and she’ll tell you that she has plans with her date and you will be in that awkward moment when you’re left speechless and you will tell her how happy you’re for her, but you’re going through a heartbreak that will make you cry again.
3. She’ll be closer to you than ever To add salt to the wound, she’ll be closer to you than ever. She’ll tell you everything about the guy she’s dating and how nervous she is about him because she’s really into him and you’ll be like “please stop, don’t you see I love you and it hurts me to know all of this…” She’ll tell you how much she needs you right now and even though you don’t like the idea you will support her just to be near her and to make her happy. Her smile will motivate you and little by little the pain will be replaced with hope that someday maybe she’ll be interested in you.
4. One day she’ll introduce you to the guy The day you meet the guy will be a tough one. You’ll question yourself why she chose him over you. It will be really hard to be neutral with your comments, because you’d want to tell her she’s making a terrible mistake, but you won’t do it because you want her to be happy even if that means to let her go.
5. And then comes the moment of truth Either she will be the guy’s girlfriend, or she’ll change her mind and leave him. Let’s be honest, the first one is the most probable option. You will still be hurt, but the wounds will start healing, and the fact that she’s happy will make you feel a bit better.
6. Someday you’ll find someone else in which you’ll fall for You’ll eventually heal, but you’ll always remember her and that will haunt you for some time. You’ll be scared to let love come to your life again. Calm down, it’s normal. When something or someone hurts us it’s difficult to forget it and we tend to be scared, but someone will eventually help us heal. Someday you’ll meet another girl that will make you fall for her and the feelings that once belonged to another girl will awaken and fill your heart with hope. And at that moment, you’ll make a tough choice between giving yourself a chance to love again, or not. Hopefully that person you fell for will love you too. I have been in this shoes. Atimes it can take 5 to 6 months before u can move on. |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by malele(m): 11:04am On Sep 06, 2015 |
Ladies and gentlemen, only give 100% love to ur truly wedded spouse. Don't release much love in relationships else u in be hurt 1 Like |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 2:39pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
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Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 2:41pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
reminiscing:
very true
I can guess you've been a victim.. |
Re: 6 Things That Happen When You Love Someone Who Doesn't Love You Back. by zadok60: 2:44pm On Sep 06, 2015 |
malele:
I have been in this shoes.
Atimes it can take 5 to 6 months before u can move on.
I used to tell people it's not easy to move on just like that.. |