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Re: :-* by Nobody: 4:03pm On Sep 04, 2015
Dapo777:
So its marriage that will make you happy? Whatever rocks your boat man.
Yh, whatever rocks my boat.

Mind you, we are in the same river and our boats are not dissimilar.
Re: :-* by Nobody: 4:10pm On Sep 04, 2015
elantraceey:
I'm not surprised since you could compare yourself with a dog.
Ya heard the man
He said its Ur opinion and Ure entitled it it
And he wont be moved by your opinion

This is a nice way of saying go fùck yourself
Re: :-* by Rukkydelta(f): 4:10pm On Sep 04, 2015
Op wetin concern us if you not wan marry ? After all marriage is not a must its a decision
Re: :-* by Nobody: 4:13pm On Sep 04, 2015
Dapo777:
Lol wink angry grin

When one gets to a level where opinions means nothing more than just opinions , you are getting dangerously close to self mastery and complete freedom. kiss
If I can't buy sachet water with your opinion why should I be concerned about it? undecided
You should all try it. It feels good.
Dude I may not agree with everything you put up there, but I know where U coming from and I respect a man who stays true to his convictions
as long as you dont hurt nobody bro Ure on the right path. Keep doing Ur thing man

Re: :-* by Nobody: 4:49pm On Sep 04, 2015
Sabrwahaqqo:
Yh, whatever rocks my boat.

Mind you, we are in the same river and our boats are not dissimilar.
Ok
Re: :-* by Nobody: 7:14pm On Sep 04, 2015
The TRUTH is.. .. .......

MOST married men with kids behave irresponsible these days, likewise women. Some even RAPE kids like we see on nairaland everyday.

U hear Married man murdered by wife or wife by husband.

U don't need MARRIAGE to make HEAVEN.

U don't need MARRIAGE to have KIDS.

U don't need MARRIAGE to become RESPONSIBLE

U don't need MARRIAGE to become SUCCESSFUL

U don't need MARRIAGE to get WEALTHY

The moment some dudes get married UPLIFTMENT begins WHILE some get married and experience MAYHEM

MARRIAGE is always a LOTTERY... some pick demons for a wife while some pick real angels.
It is doesn't matter how FAR and WELL u served in GOD'S vineyard.

It is just FAVOUR, LUCK and GRACE
Re: :-* by Nobody: 7:27pm On Sep 04, 2015
Getting married can be frightening to both women and men and the fear has nothing to do with sex. The thing is marrying someone that is not right for you can turn your life to a nightmare. Being stuck with the same person and no way of getting out if you're the type against divorce. It could be hard to relate with someone completely opposite and incompatible with you for the rest of your life. So marriage could be a dangerous game especially when you're playing with the wrong person. But it can also be the sweetest thing when you marry a man/woman who makes you feel complete and satified. Who would make you feel like going home in the afternoon when you're at work and who you can share all your secrets and burdens with. Who could dry your tears while you sad and make you smile. That's how it is when you've found someone that you love and who loves you back unconditionally and then the urge of keeping this person next to you for the rest of your life wouldn't be scary but rather exciting. After the attractive body and the beautiful face has gone what would remain is the love and enjoying each others company and that could keep someone happy for a lifetime.
The thing about most players and anti-marriage people is that they fail to see the future. When you're sixty and the last thing on your mind is sex and most if not all your friends are married and you're alone in your house with no kids or a companion to lean on and nothing but a phonebook of all the people you've banged who are probably also married and forgotton all about you, you then come to realise the grave mistake you make when you had the chance but then it would be too late and when the time comes you die alone, childless with no immediate family who would be responsible for your body but it falls in the hands of one distant relative or friend who dosent really care. But at least you had a wonderful sex life and five different STDs so that can compensate everything
Re: :-* by Nobody: 7:37pm On Sep 04, 2015
Crystal5:
Getting married can be frightening to both women and men and the fear has nothing to do with sex. The thing is marrying someone that is not right for you can turn your life to a nightmare. Being stuck with the same person and no way of getting out if you're the type against divorce. It could be hard to relate with someone completely opposite and incompatible with you for the rest of your life. So marriage could be a dangerous game especially when you're playing with the wrong person. But it can also be the sweetest thing when you marry a man/woman who makes you feel complete and satified. Who would make you feel like going home in the afternoon when you're at work and who you can share all your secrets and burdens with. Who could dry your tears while you sad and make you smile. That's how it is when you've found someone that you love and who loves you back unconditionally and then the urge of keeping this person next to you for the rest of your life wouldn't be scary but rather exciting. After the attractive body and the beautiful face has gone what would remain is the love and enjoying each others company and that could keep someone happy for a lifetime.
The thing about most players and anti-marriage people is that they fail to see the future. When you're sixty and the last thing on your mind is sex and most if not all your friends are married and you're alone in your house with no kids or a companion to lean on and nothing but a phonebook of all the people you've banged who are probably also married and forgotton all about you, you then come to realise the grave mistake you make when you had the chance but then it would be too late and when the time comes you die alone, childless with no immediate family who would be responsible for your body but it falls in the hands of one distant relative or friend who dosent really care. But at least you had a wonderful sex life and five different STDs so that can compensate everything
Am sorry but U have REASONED beyond a normal lady.
U have made my evening.. ... ..

U 1st two sentences were EPIC... .. BUT take note
1)...make your write -up elaborate

2l...U don't need MARRIAGE to make KIDS... what you need is mutual consent between opposite sexes which may not lead to marriage.
Re: :-* by ugojamali(m): 7:45pm On Sep 04, 2015
QueenEdna:
undecided undecided I dont even knw wt to say to U̶̲̥̅̊.
Sometimes it's a pity that nairaland is a faceless forum. This woman is so stunning and appealing and I would woo her totally. But then, shame...
Re: :-* by Nobody: 7:52pm On Sep 04, 2015
I dont have reasons but a reason y i dnt think I will z because "M on a blowing spree" grin
Re: :-* by obontami: 8:52pm On Sep 04, 2015
elantraceey:
I'm not surprised since you could compare yourself with a dog.
that's cold nah
Re: :-* by urheme: 9:33pm On Sep 04, 2015
Dapo777:
Nice cool I can share my happiness with everyone. Complications sets in when I try to single out someone. Thats why I won't do that.
You are just a bad lover, admit it, there will alway be plenty women and you can't finish them.
Re: :-* by tosyne2much(m): 9:43pm On Sep 04, 2015
Sabrwahaqqo:
Your reasons are well absorbed and I think I can relate very well with you. The fact that you don't want to settle down and get caged by the prison marriage is understood and apprehended quite alright.

However , with time your notion will change . You'll get to understand what life stands for as the advanced social animal that you are. That life is way bigger, grandiose and outrightly complex than the way you perceive it to be.
That its more complex than your thoughts can ever see or your sentences can ever express. That our fathers and forefathers weren't at all stupid when they adopted marriage .
That it wasn't that their hormones suddenly shut down or that they didn't want to be free like a wild horse too...
Just few years for life to teach you about himself using agents like family , society , experience and responsibility.
Then, nobody will teach you why you need to marry. Either to be mono or polygamous will just be a matter of choice or circumstance.
You saved me the stress of typing


God bless cool
Re: :-* by Nobody: 9:45pm On Sep 04, 2015
tosyne2much:
You saved me the stress of typing

God bless cool
Amen! wink
Re: :-* by Nobody: 9:45pm On Sep 04, 2015
tosyne2much:
You saved me the stress of typing

God bless cool
Amen! wink
Re: :-* by tosyne2much(m): 9:47pm On Sep 04, 2015
OP, you are so myopic that every of your unreasonable points boils down to the pleasure which you will derive from fornication which will land you nowhere but early grave.

I guess you will soon evolve into a stage where you will see beyond SEX


Btw, how old are you ?
Re: :-* by suzzy16(f): 2:00am On Sep 05, 2015
Shaking my head seriously
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