i hav dated him 4 four years bt neva believed wat he believe nd nw he is talkn abt marriage i refused cos i told him i cnt worship were he worship. I dnt want 2 deceive myself anymore. I need 2 break up wit him but dnt want 2 hurt him. Hw do i make him undastand. Pls help me.

na shrine u dey worship wey make u no wan worship 4 wer him dey worship....?
2 brk up dis days no cost at all

bak 2 d topic,tell him u dnt wnt again...shakina

Start by not caling him your boyfriend

Simple,just tell him "u love him no more"

@op u ar wicked, after 4 yrs. Haven't u noticed his commitment at d inception of d relationship. What do u worship sef? Be real, gullible lass!

Na now your eye open say una no get common believes after 4yrs?? You need deliverance!

Put it on a billboard u know he'd definitely see on his way to his house.

Gals! when they want to explore other available options they come up with absurd alibi, after 4 yrs, are you saying you deliderately wasted those years, i dnt believe you, i smell blood, you are nt being fair to this guy.
The stange thing is if a guy shd do a thing like this, it will be all over the internet, you will here all those men are the same, men are wicked, men are heartless stuff.
God is in heaven.

Shortly after sex, tell him uche is better than him......escalate issue n tell him u cant continue cos u wont want 2 cheat on him after marriage.

Interesting. Sit him down and telling him seems like the most mature thing to do

Do we need a soothsayer to tell us that the poster has landed a bigger fish and her prince of 4 years has turned into a toad
There is a new sheriff in town
My sister just find one Kock and bull story and tell him and move on o jare
Things happen
A new chapter begins
You are simply changing diet from ogbono to oha soup
You didn't kill anybody
No need racking your brain nne
Make sure you collect all your valuables that may be in his possession before breaking the news
He will bounce back sooner or later
Do it on a Saturday,so that by Sunday he will go to Church and feel better

Confused being looking for answers to her confused situation from mostly confused people on nairaland.

@all, please let's try to understand wat d OP means by 'wat she worships'..... U̶̲̥̅̊ all knw marriage is for better for worse and I feel she has tot bout it deeply..... I had a friend who has (or who is still in similar situation I really can't say now cos she has not made her self stop loving the guy despite all opportunities.
Some of us naturally would not be interesTed in inter-religious relationships but we find out dat we just get ourselves involved and b4 we know watz up, we find it difficult to come out. Now point is, @Op sit urself down and talk to urself 1st, define wat U̶̲̥̅̊ want from wat U̶̲̥̅̊ need/wat comes ur way, den wen U̶̲̥̅̊'r done, make sure U̶̲̥̅̊ act on ur decision ASAP cos U̶̲̥̅̊ might never get an opportunity again, if U̶̲̥̅̊ do these, U̶̲̥̅̊'ll sure av a lead on how to sort things out.

Cheers

Mynd_44: Interesting. Sit him down and telling him seems like the most mature thing to do

Gbam!

@Op, I dnt believe its just his faith that worries U.

On a broader note, U knw of other things that make U & him incompartible. If U knw dat U wont be happy with him, stop wasting his time...

Like someone said, sit him down & tell him. Tell him d real issues aside ur beliefs. Beta 2 pull out now.

P.S: I support d saturday suggestion.

as in eh, u don chop the money for 4 yrs , now u wan offload am .
Clap hand for urself

babyosisi: Do we need a soothsayer to tell us that the poster has landed a bigger fish and her prince of 4 years has turned into a toad
There is a new sheriff in town
My sister just find one Kock and bull story and tell him and move on o jare
Things happen
A new chapter begins
You are simply changing diet from ogbono to oha soup
You didn't kill anybody
No need racking your brain nne
Make sure you collect all your valuables that may be in his possession before breaking the news
He will bounce back sooner or later
Do it on a Saturday,so that by Sunday he will go to Church and feel better

Nah!
Do it on a Friday. . . so after enough clubbing, shayo-ing, womanizing, hangover and EPL+La Liga viewing center arguments on Saturday; he'd hardly remember you existed!

sunny t: Gals! when they want to explore other available options they come up with absurd alibi, after 4 yrs, are you saying you deliderately wasted those years, i dnt believe you, i smell blood, you are nt being fair to this guy.
The stange thing is if a guy shd do a thing like this, it will be all over the internet, you will here all those men are the same, men are wicked, men are heartless stuff.
God is in heaven.

d tin tire me o..but i'l advise ha to text/cal to tel d guy..secondly,try to travel faraway for 2mnths 4 ur own gud..

Winneygirl: @Op, I dnt believe its just his faith that worries U.

On a broader note, U knw of other things that make U & him incompartible. If U knw dat U wont be happy with him, stop wasting his time...

Like someone said, sit him down & tell him. Tell him d real issues aside ur beliefs. Beta 2 pull out now.

Sense!

Cheat on him (with me), when he catches us, he will break up with yo arzzzzzzz!

@OP.

On a more serious note. . .why are you bothering yourself!!?

You don't want to continue the relationship; it is not by force, any which way he has to accept and come to terms with it. The shoe could have been on the other foot.
Whether four, fourteen or forty thousand years, you're not bound to him by any obligation, so feel free; its up to you to do what you feel is best for you - no matter how absurd it may seem to everyone else, you an only you will be the better or worse for it!!!

my friend, and why have u been wasting his money and time for 4 years when u know that u can never marry him nah.

So, you mean you've wasted four years of the young man's life? Too bad!!!

barbara 142: i hav dated him 4 four years bt neva believed wat he believe nd nw he is talkn abt marriage i refused cos i told him i cnt worship were he worship. I dnt want 2 deceive myself anymore. I need 2 break up wit him but dnt want 2 hurt him. Hw do i make him undastand. Pls help me.

One Major problem in Nigeria.

When he was supporting you through school, you didn't know he is a satanist. After graduation, you suddenly realised he is a satanist. Who is deceiving who?

After dating him for four years you just realize that you can't worship where he worships.
Are you learner?

Someone slap the OP abeg

Mynd_44: Someone slap the OP abeg

Slap too small joor!

Dating someone you can't say 'YES' to his marriage proposal,is that not wickedness and delay to him? Leave him alone to fine his heartthrob pls. Thanks as you do that!

Adaeze003: So, you mean you've wasted four years of the young man's life? Too bad!!!

It works both ways. . .she's equally just wasted four years of her life too!