I was formerly engaged to a very nice guy who luckily for me was very rich and also got a very good job while we were dating in an oil firm. Unfortunately it did not work out due to external factors (folks). After healing and all, I started to open up again and have and still meeting a lot of men, both rich and not so rich, bad and good etc.

My problem here is that maybe having dated someone that was very rich and also having met and meeting still very rich guy, I'm finding it difficult settling for less. I met this wonderful guy who I'm also attracted to but he is not very rich. Meanwhile, I do have another suitor or two who are extremely rich but I'm not so attracted to them and I know marriage, that attraction is important.

I really like this guy but then again, I start battling with the fact he is not so rich as the previous and the others and what people might say in me settling for less. Even one time he visited, while I was trying to talk to my brother about him, before I could finish, my brother had already said who is this guy that does not seem like he's rich.

It's now making have conflicting feelings and thoughts and I don't want to miss out on a good person but what if I force and maybe get attracted to those other rich suitors but my mind is more on the not so rich.

Please advise sincerely and judging. Thank you.

Hmmmmm... You knew the answer or do i say solution to your problem already..

First and foremost, if u're going to work things out for urself in settling for the less.. Dont let ur brother control u or criticise ur opinion.

If you're sure, that u really found that happiness in that struggling guy and as well study him to be sure he wont disappoint if u could try ur best in making him the man of ur drm. u can join hands together in making him the man of your dream.

Remember, its always about jumping at whatever life throw at us but jumping at the one who gives us that inner happiness.


All the best!

So much emphasis on rich!
Haba!
You think all that is need in marriage is wealth? well maybe I'll rather cry in a limousine than on a bicycle fits in here.


let someone else continue

It's not all that glitters is Gold.

If u ask urself the ten most important things in life, u will so be amazed to find out that wealth isn't the first on d list.

lolx...

i cant.stop laffin. your brother.crying fowl yansh. i hope after all this hulabalu, you guys are also rich other wise u are a diamond digger.

next........

Instead of waiting for a guy to give you money, you should be making it yourself.

make I laugh what if you marry a rich guy after marriage tins start going bad and your husband becomes poor what will you do? NO ONE KNOWS TOMORROW.

OP, do you know the story of the RICH fool in the Bible?

I'll be back to share the story of a f00lish spinster.

Op how rich you and your family are?

Bonita101n2, please leave this poor bloke alone, he's too poor to deserve you abeg. Don't you know your class? No be attraction and love dem dey chop for marriage o. Besides, money answereth all things. Can this guy's brokeness answer any of the challenges in your life? Please, be guided

PS: Hope I told you what you wanted to hear?

Love does not know any background once it's genuine. I'll advice you to see from all and choose from what or where your heart belong than thinking of the wealth.

Wealth flies away anytime not minding the owner. It's better you suffer the shame now and enjoy later or enjoy it now and the shame comes afterwards.

Nonetheless, you can brush the "poor guy" to your taste if you really want to getting him something meaningful if within your reach.

I counted 11 'rich' from this thread

Op...., are you a gold digger?

I cant make head or tail of sunita's post.

can you rephrase?

very beautiful name btw, reminds me of one Indian movie like that.