I need advice from u guys my uncle who just married for three years now with two kids and his wife i have being wit the man for 2 two years now it's happens that the girl that normally deposited money for us in bank my uncle came to know her sister and fell in love with her what barfulls me most is that the man has never give me #5000 for shoping but he her the sum of #13000 for shoping guys i need ur advice should i tell his wife about his relationship with girl or not pls i need help. Guyz pls dont me abeg i dey rush so dat de man know go no dats is de reason why their's alot of erros ok i aplogice pls and tanks 4 ur advice including does dat insulted me tanks alot.I need advice from u guys my uncle who just married for three years now with two kids and his wife i have being wit the man for 2 two years now it's happens that the girl that normally deposited money for us in bank my uncle came to know her sister and fell in love with her what barfulls me most is that the man has never give me #5000 for shoping but he her the sum of #13000 for shoping guys i need ur advice should i tell his wife about his relationship with girl or not pls i need help. Guyz pls dont me abeg i dey rush so dat de man know go no dats is de reason why their's alot of erros ok i aplogice pls and tanks 4 ur advice including does dat insulted me tanks alot.I need advice from u guys my uncle who just married for three years now with two kids and his wife i have being wit the man for 2 two years now it's happens that the girl that normally deposited money for us in bank my uncle came to know her sister and fell in love with her what barfulls me most is that the man has never give me #5000 for shoping but he her the sum of #13000 for shoping guys i need ur advice should i tell his wife about his relationship with girl or not pls i need help. Guyz pls dont me abeg i dey rush so dat de man know go no dats is de reason why their's alot of erros ok i aplogice pls and tanks 4 ur advice including does dat insulted me tanks alot.

Bettet mind your business. Is he your husband?

Jiokezee:
I need advice from u guys my uncle who just married for three years now with two kids and his wife i have being wit the man for 2 two years now it's happens that the girl that normally deposited money for us in bank my uncle came to know her sister and fell in love with her what barfulls me most is that the man has never give me #5000 for shoping but he her the sum of #13000 for shoping guys i need ur advice should i tell his wife about his relationship with girl or not pls i need help.

It shouldn't barfulls you because if he coughts you telling his wife ehh

Mind your business if you never get your own apartment to live in. So like say the man de give you pass 5K you for nor tok eh? Corruption for naija nor go end shaaaaa

Jiokezee:
I need advice from u guys my uncle who just married for three years now with two kids and his wife i have being wit the man for 2 two years now it's happens that the girl that normally deposited money for us in bank my uncle came to know her sister and fell in love with her what barfulls me most is that the man has never give me #5000 for shoping but he her the sum of #13000 for shoping guys i need ur advice should i tell his wife about his relationship with girl or not pls i need help.

Keep mute dear, let things play out demselve,as for d money ish, dats how some silly men bhav, hustle for ur own money, cos in this life ur On Your Own.

Things hardly stay in people's head these days

OP what are you yammering about?!
Is this typo/shorthand abi you can't type correctly?

Biko mind your business and go and make your own money,quit waiting for him to 'dash' you 5k for your silence.

i wasn't hungry till i finished reading ya post...@OP dis ya engRish eh!


#u no sabi do kpalasa or aprico or nzama

You don't have to do that Op, you might destroy their marriage. What you need do is advice your uncle or the lady if you are close. Even if you caught your own father having an affair, reporting to the wife is not wise except if you meant destroying their marriage.

As u dey stay under d man roof u no lyk am abii.Jst dey luk lyk Lukumon vry soon evrythg go expose.

so if he gives you the #5000 your mind will calm down. yeye better face ur front !!!!

You should tell the wife......., but make sure you get an apartment and a job before doing so

Tell abeg

The way I see it, na that money issue pain you pass. Not like you care much about him or his wife.

So let's make some money out of him.

Wait till you catch him next time and get a solid proof (picture, video, audio). Go to him with this proof. Tell him what you saw. At first, he might want to bully or threaten you into keeping quiet. Stand your ground, tell him you have proof and will go to his wife with it. He will mellow in the end and ask you what you want. State your conditions. A substantial amount and let him negotiate. Don't go below that 13k he gave that girl.

When you get tired of milking him, you can then go to his wife.

*This is Phema's alter ego*