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Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by ifyalways(f): 1:13pm On Sep 09, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


Look well na! wink
BOOOOOOOB-PHOCKING TOOLS! wink

In matching pillows and slippers! wink
Chineke cheesy

My innocent eyes. Thank you oo.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 1:13pm On Sep 09, 2015
Kanwuliajeje:


In 3D! wink

Not for PEEPS WITH NO BOOOOOOBS, or FAAAAAAAAAT MEN AND WOMEN. cheesy
Na so-so MESS AND POOO una go take spoil show!!! grin
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 1:14pm On Sep 09, 2015
ifyalways:

Chineke cheesy

My innocent eyes. Thank you oo.

Yeah RIIIIIIIIGHT!!!!
Na "HOLY WATER" you take hol ya man for bedroom? cheesy
Advice for END TIMES OF MARRIAGE, when TOTO don turn HELI-PAD of DAURA, and BLOKOS don turn to "BAZOOKA-JOE" chewing-gum!!!! cry
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Missy89(f): 1:44pm On Sep 09, 2015
Shymm3x:


My chest? Why would I be talking about my chest? Loool

You are weird.

Anyway, are you also packing some huge mammary glands? tongue

Very Average smiley
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 2:55pm On Sep 09, 2015
KanwuliaJara:

Tufiakwa!!!!! You nor see dem for NL? grin
Once upon a time POLYMONIKERING, LovePeddler-FOR-CHRIST GANGS would have been reporting posts and banning hiarrrrrrrandiaaaaa WITH E BADU BELLE AND E JOLOSI!!!! grin
I TUNDA-FAYA ALLOF DEM THE WAN BY WAN FROM A TO Z, till dem TAKE SHAME BAN DEMSEFS WITH DE-ACTIVATION OR NATURAL DEATH!!!!! cheesy

Muchechechecheche!!!!!!

Looooool.

I know 'em "polymonickering" fake/phoney/cowardly fvckers. They are the ones who will quote you with one handle and talk decent - then pick up a fight with a next one lool. Don't watch that cos they troll one another with their different alt handles - just enjoy the comic relief. Life's short - if these clowns can be so cowardly on the internet, only God knows how fvcked they are on the real world. Shyte, these mofos like their own posts with their alt handles looooooool.

Anyway, it seems the final phase of marriage starts when a woman is her in her mid thirties cos of late I've been meeting a lot of lonely women like that who just wanna have fun. Educate me, NL's only legendary Queen Tiye lool.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 3:09pm On Sep 09, 2015
Missy89:


Very Average smiley

I know - I was just messing about with you. You can't be bigger than a C-cup. I know what you look like. Average ti.ts and batty - I guess that is why you like 'em white boys, perfect shape for them innit?

Err, since you're into white boys - I want to ask you what most black chics find attractive in them since a lot of white chics these days are getting with black guys and every time you beat a white chic, she's always full of praises about how hard the black Mutombo is loool. And I don't even know any white guy that rates his chic - they always have something negative to say. Almost all the ones I work with sniff coke.

Like the Jamaican old head I jam with whenever I'm bored always say, "dem white gyals ah luv ah strong black thing...dem ah nuh wann ah soft white boy. Put ah black man thing pon dem and dem ah keep coming back. White boys ah pu.ssies, dem ah drink alcohol, tek class A & B drugs and gwan inna da yard and beat their gyals lek ah slave ya noe". And these are the same folks you lot put on a pedestal smh.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 3:12pm On Sep 09, 2015
Shymm3x:


Looooool.

I know 'em "polymonickering" fake/phoney/cowardly fvckers. They are the ones who will quote you with one handle and talk decent - then pick up a fight with a next one lool. Don't watch that cos they troll one another with their different alt handles - just enjoy the comic relief. Life's short - if these clowns can be so cowardly on the internet, only God knows how fvcked they are on the real world. Shyte, these mofos like their own posts with their alt handles looooooool.

Anyway, it seems the final phase of marriage starts when a woman is her in her mid thirties cos of late I've been meeting a lot of lonely women like that who just wanna have fun. Educate me, NL's only legendary Queen Tiye lool.


Muhehehehehe
Truth be told, end stage of marriage begins when you say "I DO"!!!! grin

Nothing to do with the age of a man or woman!

Look around you and observe NIGERIAN MARRIED COUPLES interact with each other.

Sooooooo FAKE and UNINSPIRING!!!!
The next thing na to jump h-enter CHURCH o, dey shout "SWEEEEET JESUS - SWEEEEET-JESUS!" grin
With WOR-WORITY FIRST CLASS!!!! grin

The FINAL PHASE OF MARRIAGE begins with
THE FRUIT OF THE WOMB/BLOKOS or LACK DIARRRROFF!!!!

By the FIRST YEAR OF MARRIAGE. . . . . GAME OVA!!!!!

The rest na ANGER MANAGEMENT THERAPY!!!! cheesy

All these women wey dey chant "my honey boo-boo" for NL DEY FOR SINGLE LANE ROMANCE BY DEMSELVES!!!

If you check whia dem MANS dey. . . . WITH OTHER WOMEN!!!! cheesy

Na only for NL dem fit "shako" o!!!

Gba beeeeeeeeeee!!!!!
Tian dem "GOD" for H-INTERNET to take DECEIVE DEMSEFS AND POOOOOOOOOSE!!!!! grin

Muchechechechecheche

H-Enjoying my continental breakfast in my hotel room jor! Marriage ko, marriage ni !!!!!

Shior!!!!!! grin

Make I "step dan"! grin

Kpekus gooooooood oooooooooh! See as I dry "HIGH" like "KITE"! Chai!!! Bobo shine me weh-weh!!!!! cool
See "BRRRRRUUUUUUSSSSSSHHHHHHIIIIIINNNNNNGGGGGG"!!!!!! AKA "One For The Road"! wink

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Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Missy89(f): 3:43pm On Sep 09, 2015
Shymm3x:


I know - I was just messing about with you. You can't be bigger than a C-cup. I know what you look like. Average ti.ts and batty - I guess that is why you like 'em white boys, perfect shape for them innit?

Err, since you're into white boys - I want to ask you what most black chics find attractive in them since a lot of white chics these days are getting with black guys and every time you beat a white chic, she's always full of praises about how hard the black Mutombo is loool. And I don't even know any white guy that rates his chic - they always have something negative to say. Almost all the ones I work with sniff coke.

Like the Jamaican old head I jam with whenever I'm bored always say, "dem white gyals ah luv ah strong black thing...dem ah nuh wann ah soft white boy. Put ah black man thing pon dem and dem ah keep coming back. White boys ah pu.ssies, dem ah drink alcohol, tek class A & B drugs and gwan inna da yard and beat their gyals lek ah slave ya noe". And these are the same folks you lot put on a pedestal smh.


I think it has a lot to do with where i stay and work. After all, we all hang out within our social circle most times and there are few black guys in my field. The few find me a little strange. I generally dont date much anyway. I just like someone passionate about what they do. doesn't have to be white. But if we are being honest, Few Black guys are (my opinion) or should i say the ones that i have meet.

Dont like sex either. Probably why. I think you are generalizing thou. But on the average people say black guys a better but I have meet few one minute men from both races tongue. I feel black guys can be controlling too so it is a clash of personality for me.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by starsult: 4:27pm On Sep 09, 2015
No,am not new on nairaland ooo.
Why that can of question ,waiting happen.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 4:55pm On Sep 09, 2015
KanwuliaJara:



Muhehehehehe
Truth be told, end stage of marriage begins when you say "I DO"!!!! grin

Nothing to do with the age of a man or woman!

Look around you and observe NIGERIAN MARRIED COUPLES interact with each other.

Sooooooo FAKE and UNINSPIRING!!!!
The next thing na to jump h-enter CHURCH o, dey shout "SWEEEEET JESUS - SWEEEEET-JESUS!" grin
With WOR-WORITY FIRST CLASS!!!! grin

The FINAL PHASE OF MARRIAGE begins with
THE FRUIT OF THE WOMB/BLOKOS or LACK DIARRRROFF!!!!

By the FIRST YEAR OF MARRIAGE. . . . . GAME OVA!!!!!

The rest na ANGER MANAGEMENT THERAPY!!!! cheesy

All these women wey dey chant "my honey boo-boo" for NL DEY FOR SINGLE LANE ROMANCE BY DEMSELVES!!!

If you check whia dem MANS dey. . . . WITH OTHER WOMEN!!!! cheesy

Na only for NL dem fit "shako" o!!!

Gba beeeeeeeeeee!!!!!
Tian dem "GOD" for H-INTERNET to take DECEIVE DEMSEFS AND POOOOOOOOOSE!!!!! grin

Muchechechechecheche

H-Enjoying my continental breakfast in my hotel room jor! Marriage ko, marriage ni !!!!!

Shior!!!!!! grin

Make I "step dan"! grin

Kpekus gooooooood oooooooooh! See as I dry "HIGH" like "KITE"! Chai!!! Bobo shine me weh-weh!!!!! cool
See "BRRRRRUUUUUUSSSSSSHHHHHHIIIIIINNNNNNGGGGGG"!!!!!! AKA "One For The Road"! wink

So are you telling me all these women in their mid-30s upwards aren't getting good sex? - now I see why a lot of them want young bloods and are always smiling loooool. Now that's the age bracket I need to start sniping now and they should be cheaper to maintain, with less stress.

Life is short - just ride it till the wheels fall off. Just make sure you give yourself a good treat after putting in work. You earned it.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 5:22pm On Sep 09, 2015
Missy89:


I think it has a lot to do with where i stay and work. After all, we all hang out within our social circle most times and there are few black guys in my field. The few find me a little strange. I generally dont date much anyway. I just like someone passionate about what they do. doesn't have to be white. But if we are being honest, Few Black guys are (my opinion) or should i say the ones that i have meet.

Dont like sex either. Probably why. I think you are generalizing thou. But on the average people say black guys a better but I have meet few one minute men from both races tongue. I feel black guys can be controlling too so it is a clash of personality for me.

I hear that.

However, you never answered my question. What do black chics find attractive in white guys? It is nothing serious nor do I give two fvcks about what race folks choose to date. But it is basically me just being inquisitive and wanting to know why.

For example, I'd say sometimes find white chics attractive cos they are freaky as fvck and after giving them the Mutombo, they tend to show more appreciation. Also, they respect black guys (I don't know if that is cos of fear but they do) and it is less stress being with them - apart from the unnecessary phone calls every minute daily. And if you don't pick up - that automatically means you are cheating. But obviously, my preference will always be black women cos of the body looool.

Err, how are black guys controlling? In the UK for example, the population of black people is less than 3%, yet there's an emergency/special line for domestic violence. Do you honestly think they did that for black guys? Looool. White men are statistically more controlling and violent to chics than black men and I don't know any white guy that has something to say about his partner. They always have something negative to say and they naturally swear more than your average black guy.

Let me give you a next example. I was chatting in general with my boss one time and he asked me where I see myself in 5 years' time. I just told him I'm not into dreaming cos life is short and I might not be alive in 5 years' time cos there are a lot of people I grew up with that aren't here today. So I just live everyday like it is my last and enjoy life to the fullest. But for talking sake, I'd say I want everything I'm working on and have worked hard for to have blossomed by then, with me running my own business/company and working for myself. And hopefully, I should have at least one or two sons by then. Do you know what his response was? He said in whatever you do, don't ever get married cos women are arseholes, slags, and problematic. And this is a top executive. A black man his age with the same achievement in life will never even say that. I get where he's coming from but I'm just trying to make a point.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 5:43pm On Sep 09, 2015
Shymm3x:


So are you telling me all these women in their mid-30s upwards aren't getting good sex?

No! Not what I said. kiss
A LOT of those MISSSSSSERABLE tinz of womanhood were cursed right from birth! They are called "DAMAGED GOODS"! AKA "Die and let DIE"! grin
No hope!!!!! PSYCHOS IN MARRIAGE!!!! cry

now I see why a lot of them want young bloods and are always smiling loooool. Now that's the age bracket I need to start sniping now and they should be cheaper to maintain, with less stress.

Nothing wrong with using "young blood" to rejuvenate your self-confidence! Old men use young girls to that effect ALL DA TIME! Equal opportunity! Shikena!!!! kiss

Life is short - just ride it till the wheels fall off. Just make sure you give yourself a good treat after putting in work. You earned it.

Ha! Tell 'em novices o!
Dem go hia? grin

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Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Nobody: 7:50pm On Sep 09, 2015
Hmmm best thread ever! I can't stop laffin! grin

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Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Missy89(f): 7:52pm On Sep 09, 2015
Shymm3x:


I hear that.

However, you never answered my question. What do black chics find attractive in white guys? It is nothing serious nor do I give two fvcks about what race folks choose to date. But it is basically me just being inquisitive and wanting to know why.

For example, I'd say sometimes find white chics attractive cos they are freaky as fvck and after giving them the Mutombo, they tend to show more appreciation. Also, they respect black guys (I don't know if that is cos of fear but they do) and it is less stress being with them - apart from the unnecessary phone calls every minute daily. And if you don't pick up - that automatically means you are cheating. But obviously, my preference will always be black women cos of the body looool.

Err, how are black guys controlling? In the UK for example, the population of black people is less than 3%, yet there's an emergency/special line for domestic violence. Do you honestly think they did that for black guys? Looool. White men are statistically more controlling and violent to chics than black men and I don't know any white guy that has something to say about his partner. They always have something negative to say and they naturally swear more than your average black guy.

Let me give you a next example. I was chatting in general with my boss one time and he asked me where I see myself in 5 years' time. I just told him I'm not into dreaming cos life is short and I might not be alive in 5 years' time cos there are a lot of people I grew up with that aren't here today. So I just live everyday like it is my last and enjoy life to the fullest. But for talking sake, I'd say I want everything I'm working on and have worked hard for to have blossomed by then, with me running my own business/company and working for myself. And hopefully, I should have at least one or two sons by then. Do you know what his response was? He said in whatever you do, don't ever get married cos women are arseholes, slags, and problematic. And this is a top executive. A black man his age with the same achievement in life will never even say that. I get where he's coming from but I'm just trying to make a point.


Well I can't really generalize so I am not really sure. But if I am to talk about myself thou, I can't even point out to a special thing they have that black guys do not.

The controlling part is a matter of opinion. I wasn't really talking about the violent ones thou. I feel most black folks (the ones I have meet) like to remind you they are in charge of how things will go down in the rela. Now this might just be my own biased opinion for few reasons.

Maybe they see me as a control freak or close. And at the same time, my white bfs don't seem to care. Let's just say I have more space and freedom which is important to me personally. One made me watch Jurassic world against my will few days ago. Still pissed.

Might all be a different story with another black girl. Most interracial rela I have seen thou where the black person is the lady, it has more to do with the environment,circumstance, love rather than big manhood, etc. May be wrong

And about your boss.
Marriage generally is complicated and I will disagree with him. It is not a woman thing, humans are generally problematic.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 10:15pm On Sep 09, 2015
KanwuliaJara:

No! Not what I said. kiss
A LOT of those MISSSSSSERABLE tinz of womanhood were cursed right from birth! They are called "DAMAGED GOODS"! AKA "Die and let DIE"! grin
No hope!!!!! PSYCHOS IN MARRIAGE!!!! cry

Psychos in marriage and Die and let's die yano - bwahahahahaha. I defo. need to steal these lines!!! grin

But honestly, a lot of these women are lonely in their marriages, and they need someone to spice up their lives a little bit and make them feel young again. My boy and I took one to the bar at the casino one time and you need to see how she was having a blast. and feeling like a teenager again. grin

Nothing wrong with using "young blood" to rejuvenate your self-confidence! Old men use young girls to that effect ALL DA TIME! Equal opportunity! Shikena!!!! kiss

That's mutual benefits with no strings attached. As long as the two parties involved are happy - there's no harm in it. However, sometimes, it just seems like some of them get their emotions involved and the teenage tendencies that are part and parcel of every woman, regardless of age, always tend to come to the fore...especially when they start demanding that they want to be the main chic and you reject the offer.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 10:34pm On Sep 09, 2015
Missy89:

Well I can't really generalize so I am not really sure. But if I am to talk about myself thou, I can't even point out to a special thing they have that black guys do not.

The controlling part is a matter of opinion. I wasn't really talking about the violent ones thou. I feel most black folks (the ones I have meet) like to remind you they are in charge of how things will go down in the rela. Now this might just be my own biased opinion for few reasons.

Maybe they see me as a control freak or close. And at the same time, my white bfs don't seem to care. Let's just say I have more space and freedom which is important to me personally. One made me watch Jurassic world against my will few days ago. Still pissed.

Might all be a different story with another black girl. Most interracial rela I have seen thou where the black person is the lady, it has more to do with the environment,circumstance, love rather than big manhood, etc. May be wrong

And about your boss.
Marriage generally is complicated and I will disagree with him. It is not a woman thing, humans are generally problematic.

Loool. This line "I can't even point out to a special thing" sounds like what my ex used to tell me every time I asked her why she's madly in love with me cos 1). It happened so quick 2). No has ever shown me that type of love in my life 3). I was super crazy/wild these times and I just thought out of the tons of guys I knew were after her, she decided to pick me. So I never believed that shyte and whenever I hear folks say it, I just treat it with suspicions. grin grin

Err, you're a military chic and you do have a lot of male tendencies, despite being traditional in ya outlook to life. So you might be a control freak, who knows? And perhaps, the black guys view you as a threat to their authority - while the white guys subconsciously fear you, due to the angry black woman syndrome. It's more societal conditioning than anything and I doubt the white guys would give you the same space if you're a white chic. Err, perhaps culture shock as well. Even with being a black chic, over time, as they more comfortable around you - the air of fear will go away and they'll start meting the same treatment they mete out to white chics to you.

Anyway, I just used big manhood as example cos it's part of the equation. Then cultural disposition and other miscellaneous things. However, I do get ya point though.

My boss' assertion was based on his experience and I get where he's coming from. And most white guys I know are like that, hence they never have anything positive to say about women, but they'd still gladly sha.g them. However, I was just trying to make point cos a lot of retarded/ignorant folks think only black men are like that. You know the normal nonsense of everything evil being black, when statistically white folks tend to be the biggest culprits. Regardless, I like ya points though.


Off topic:

Getting ready for the NFL season starting tomorrow? - I defo. can't wait for these guys to start banging on the gridiron. The season is back, yo!!! grin
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Missy89(f): 11:22pm On Sep 09, 2015
Shymm3x:


Loool. This line "I can't even point out to a special thing" sounds like what my ex used to tell me every time I asked her why she's madly in love with me cos 1). It happened so quick 2). No has ever shown me that type of love in my life 3). I was super crazy/wild these times and I just thought out of the tons of guys I knew were after her, she decided to pick me. So I never believed that shyte and whenever I hear folks say it, I just treat it with suspicions. grin grin

Err, you're a military chic and you do have a lot of male tendencies, despite being traditional in ya outlook to life. So you might be a control freak, who knows? And perhaps, the black guys view you as a threat to their authority - while the white guys subconsciously fear you, due to the angry black woman syndrome. It's more societal conditioning than anything and I doubt the white guys would give you the same space if you're a white chic. Err, perhaps culture shock as well. Even with being a black chic, over time, as they more comfortable around you - the air of fear will go away and they'll start meting the same treatment they mete out to white chics to you.

Anyway, I just used big manhood as example cos it's part of the equation. Then cultural disposition and other miscellaneous things. However, I do get ya point though.

My boss' assertion was based on his experience and I get where he's coming from. And most white guys I know are like that, hence they never have anything positive to say about women, but they'd still gladly sha.g them. However, I was just trying to make point cos a lot of retarded/ignorant folks think only black men are like that. You know the normal nonsense of everything evil being black, when statistically white folks tend to be the biggest culprits. Regardless, I like ya points though.


Off topic:

Getting ready for the NFL season starting tomorrow? - I defo. can't wait for these guys to start banging on the gridiron. The season is back, yo!!! grin

It should be a good thing when someone tells you they dont have a reason for loving you right? I mean You dont want someone being in love with you because of a superficial attribute. What if you dont have it anymore? what then? Better go find your ex and marry her NOW!

Yeah, playing the dolphins cool
I have been watching a lot of NHL youtube videos lately and will watch some games next month.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by sinizia: 11:27pm On Sep 09, 2015
Kanwuliajeje:


In 3D! wink
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Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Tashaamania(f): 11:31pm On Sep 09, 2015
sinizia:

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Na dis kain thing you dey like, see ya life? undecided
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by sinizia: 11:37pm On Sep 09, 2015
Tashaamania:

Na dis kain thing you dey like, see ya life? undecided

hahahahahahhaah grin grin grin grin grin the thing shock me walayi. grin grin grin grin
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Tashaamania(f): 11:40pm On Sep 09, 2015
sinizia:


hahahahahahhaah grin grin grin grin grin the thing shock me walayi. grin grin grin grin
E shock you abi e sweet you? grin tongue
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 4:08am On Sep 10, 2015
Shymm3x:


Psychos in marriage and Die and let's die yano - bwahahahahaha. I defo. need to steal these lines!!! grin

grin cheesy grin


But honestly, a lot of these women are lonely in their marriages, and they need someone to spice up their lives a little bit and make them feel young again. My boy and I took one to the bar at the casino one time and you need to see how she was having a blast. and feeling like a teenager again. grin

Nna! ALL MEN AND WOMEN ARE LONELY IN MARRIAGES! kiss YAfter a VERRRRY "short" while, WE run out of things in common with our spouses. It is just that some women manage their loneliness INTERNALLY.(the introverts)! kiss



That's mutual benefits with no strings attached. As long as the two parties involved are happy - there's no harm in it.

A RARE OCCURRENCE!
Women are emotional creatures! ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN!!!! kiss


However, sometimes, it just seems like some of them get their emotions involved and the teenage tendencies that are part and parcel of every woman, regardless of age, always tend to come to the fore...especially when they start demanding that they want to be the main chic and you reject the offer.

What PLANET do you live in please? grin
When A BLACK WOMAN PHOCKS, she becomes a virgin all over again. ESPECIALLY, with CHRISTIAN, AFRICAN WOMAN!

Toto is always GOLD, SILVER, BRONZE, TIN AND COPPER!!!!

The reason I respect white women! They do not give a quarter of a PHOCK, even after phocking a man ONCE or TEN TIMES!cheesy If they fall in love with you, GOD or JESUS is NEVER INVOLVED.

All about EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL EVOLUTION/MATURITY.kiss

A TYPICAL BLACK WOMAN FROM AFRICA ESPECIALLY, is an EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL MIDGET!
You date or marry them AT YOUR OWN RISK. . . . Even as a BLACK MAN!cheesy

A case of the BLIND FALLING IN LOVE WITH/MARRYING A DUMB = Double handicap in children produced.

Amen!!!!! cheesy
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 8:24am On Sep 10, 2015
Missy89:


It should be a good thing when someone tells you they dont have a reason for loving you right? I mean You dont want someone being in love with you because of a superficial attribute. What if you dont have it anymore? what then? Better go find your ex and marry her NOW!

Yeah, playing the dolphins cool
I have been watching a lot of NHL youtube videos lately and will watch some games next month.

Lool. It just has to do with how vague the answer is and based on my mentality/experience and where I'm from - you have to threat things like that with suspicions. There should always be a catalyst for something to happen lol.

Err, so I can safely say ya interest in white boys has more to do mental/psychological conditioning of the subconscious mind that has happened overtime due to the angelic imagery they have perpetually fed us - and not cos they're better than black guys in general physically and/or based on behavioural patterns lol. Anyway, I think folks need to start keeping it in this perspective rather than trying to pull black guys down with all kinds of negativity while putting white guys on a pedestal based on mental conditioning and not reality.

My ex is cotching, man. That is the homie and rider supreme right there. Who knows if we're ever going back together? She tried one time but it just never worked...we've both grown apart and a lot has happened since then. Shyte, I'm not as lively/wild as I used to be - more reserved with a whole new game plan, after learning a few tough lessons from Life the master teacher. While she's the lively and outgoing one these days - life of the party and globe trotting everywhere. Roles have changed hands - she's still hurting and you gotta leave people like that to heal lool.

Muthaphuck ya dysfunctional Washington Redskins and ya useless coach, Gruden. That mofo maliciously got RG3 injured, so calamity Cousins could be named starter. I hope the Dolphins whoop ya arses on Sunday and Suh should get at Cousins loool. Anyway, I'm riding with Seahawks and Panthers this season. Hopefully, Kam Chancellor will come back to his senses and stop the hold out. Let's get it.

I don't mess with hockey - too many white thugs in there loool. The black man doesn't play on ice - we play in the sun lool.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 8:30am On Sep 10, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


grin cheesy grin

Nna! ALL MEN AND WOMEN ARE LONELY IN MARRIAGES! kiss YAfter a VERRRRY "short" while, WE run out of things in common with our spouses. It is just that some women manage their loneliness INTERNALLY.(the introverts)! kiss

A RARE OCCURRENCE!
Women are emotional creatures! ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN!!!! kiss

What PLANET do you live in please? grin
When A BLACK WOMAN PHOCKS, she becomes a virgin all over again. ESPECIALLY, with CHRISTIAN, AFRICAN WOMAN!

Toto is always GOLD, SILVER, BRONZE, TIN AND COPPER!!!!

The reason I respect white women! They do not give a quarter of a PHOCK, even after phocking a man ONCE or TEN TIMES!cheesy If they fall in love with you, GOD or JESUS is NEVER INVOLVED.

All about EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL EVOLUTION/MATURITY.kiss

A TYPICAL BLACK WOMAN FROM AFRICA ESPECIALLY, is an EMOTIONAL/PSYCHOLOGICAL MIDGET!
You date or marry them AT YOUR OWN RISK. . . . Even as a BLACK MAN!cheesy

A case of the BLIND FALLING IN LOVE WITH/MARRYING A DUMB = Double handicap in children produced.

Amen!!!!! cheesy

Loooool.

I completely agree with you save for the excerpt about men being lonely in marriages. I don't think all men are, especially the ones who know how to have fun lol.

A real nyggah won't sit at home babysitting and watching all kinds of TV series, movies, talk shows, and gossiping on the phone all day. That is women folks. Shyte, he'd be out there enjoying his life, as long as he puts food on the table and goes home every night to sleep loool.

These women are lonely - they need love loool.

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Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 8:59am On Sep 10, 2015
Shymm3x:


Loooool.

I completely agree with you save for the excerpt about men being lonely in marriages. I don't think all men are, especially the ones who know how to have fun lol.

If men were not LONELY, they would not be having extra-marital affairs or indulge in polygamy. Men and women go through the same things. wink

A real nyggah won't sit at home babysitting and watching all kinds of TV series, movies, talk shows, and gossiping on the phone all day. That is women folks. Shyte, he'd be out there enjoying his life, as long as he puts food on the table and goes home every night to sleep loool.

Why would a MARRIED man be all ova town, IF HE IS NOT LONELY IN HIS MARRIAGE? grin
Again, women are emotional creatures. If they sit at home to baby-sit and watch soaps, it means they have figured out ways to manage their loneliness without WHORRRRRRRING around town like men! Simple. kiss

These women are lonely - they need love loool.

Amen!!!!
Oooooooh? You true color done come out!
Your "sexist" angle of "these women"?
Man nor dey lonely for relationships abi?
Even as they visit ALLLLLL the asssshawo joints in town?
All na h-enjoyment abi? wink

Oya KONTINU!!!!!

Shior!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Missy89(f): 10:01am On Sep 10, 2015
Shymm3x:


Lool. It just has to do with how vague the answer is and based on my mentality/experience and where I'm from - you have to threat things like that with suspicions. There should always be a catalyst for something to happen lol.

Err, so I can safely say ya interest in white boys has more to do mental/psychological conditioning of the subconscious mind that has happened overtime due to the angelic imagery they have perpetually fed us - and not cos they're better than black guys in general physically and/or based on behavioural patterns lol. Anyway, I think folks need to start keeping it in this perspective rather than trying to pull black guys down with all kinds of negativity while putting white guys on a pedestal based on mental conditioning and not reality.

My ex is cotching, man. That is the homie and rider supreme right there. Who knows if we're ever going back together? She tried one time but it just never worked...we've both grown apart and a lot has happened since then. Shyte, I'm not as lively/wild as I used to be - more reserved with a whole new game plan, after learning a few tough lessons from Life the master teacher. While she's the lively and outgoing one these days - life of the party and globe trotting everywhere. Roles have changed hands - she's still hurting and you gotta leave people like that to heal lool.

Muthaphuck ya dysfunctional Washington Redskins and ya useless coach, Gruden. That mofo maliciously got RG3 injured, so calamity Cousins could be named starter. I hope the Dolphins whoop ya arses on Sunday and Suh should get at Cousins loool. Anyway, I'm riding with Seahawks and Panthers this season. Hopefully, Kam Chancellor will come back to his senses and stop the hold out. Let's get it.

I don't mess with hockey - too many white thugs in there loool. The black man doesn't play on ice - we play in the sun lool.



If i get to see 3-5 good games this season from the skins, that is satisfactory. The team isn't that great anymore.By the way,you should check out P. K. Subban.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 10:52am On Sep 10, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


If men were not LONELY, they would not be having extra-marital affairs or indulge in polygamy. Men and women go through the same things. wink

Why would a MARRIED man be all ova town, IF HE IS NOT LONELY IN HIS MARRIAGE? grin
Again, women are emotional creatures. If they sit at home to baby-sit and watch soaps, it means they have figured out ways to manage their loneliness without WHORRRRRRRING around town like men! Simple. kiss

Amen!!!!
Oooooooh? You true color done come out!
Your "sexist" angle of "these women"?
Man nor dey lonely for relationships abi?
Even as they visit ALLLLLL the asssshawo joints in town?
All na h-enjoyment abi? wink

Oya KONTINU!!!!!

Shior!!!!!!!!!!

Loool. Polygamy is part of the game for the average man cos that is all male species of every living creature are wired, hence each testicle produces over 85million sperm cells daily. And that also depends on how the balls are (no homo). So why do you want guys to do with the excessive load? Looool. Gatts empty the tank in any willing receiver loool. Evidently, with men, it isn't about being lonely, it is about the urge to shed the excessive load and empty the tank from time to time.

Men aren't meant to stay at home all day - only a lazy man would do that. Men always have to be out there grinding and working hard to bring something back home. On the flip-side most women don't have that luxury and staying out for too long without catering to the kids would make them bad mothers. And I believe most do against their wish, hence the loneliness. If you can offer to bring fun and spice to where they're at, they will jump at the offer without blinking an eyelid loool. Girls, just wanna have fun loool.

Ha! I'm a realist not a sexist and I did create the society the way it is - I was born into it. My only responsibility is to master it and use it to my advantage.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Nobody: 11:07am On Sep 10, 2015
edwife:
Oops!Wrong thread.... shocked

***walks out***


cheesy
On the contrary, fun thread lady....
I am having a blast here
The lady on here is curaaaaazzzyyyy cheesy shocked cool
I laiiiike it!

I bet you stayed back, to read all the salacious-ness (winks)
Cheers
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 11:10am On Sep 10, 2015
Shymm3x:


Loool. Polygamy is part of the game for the average man cos that is all male species of every living creature are wired, hence each testicle produces over 85million sperm cells daily. And that also depends on how the balls are (no homo). So why do you want guys to do with the excessive load? Looool. Gatts empty the tank in any willing receiver loool. Evidently, with men, it isn't about being lonely, it is about the urge to shed the excessive load and empty the tank from time to time.

Yet, you call women BYTCHES and WHORES doing the same? Women like me have JUST the same urge, because we have liberated ourselves ON AND OFFLINE!!!! cool

My tank got emptied this week! My husband resumes on SUNDAY! wink

Men aren't meant to stay at home all day - only a lazy man would do that. Men always have to be out there grinding and working hard to bring something back home. On the flip-side most women don't have that luxury and staying out for too long without catering to the kids would make them bad mothers. And I believe most do against their wish, hence the loneliness. If you can offer to bring fun and spice to where they're at, they will jump at the offer without blinking an eyelid loool. Girls, just wanna have fun loool.

Ha! I'm a realist not a sexist and I did create the society the way it is - I was born into it. My only responsibility is to master it and use it to my advantage.

This is sooooooo sexist!
It looks like you are discussing "stages of singledom"! cheesy
No surprises coming from you! grin
Anyway, this topic concerns ONLY MARRIED PEOPLE!
Make men like Jaybee3 put mouth abegggggi!

Go and wait your turn, then come back to tell us about the "current state of affairs in ANY STAGE OF YOUR MARRIAGE"!

Till then, no need to argue witcha! kiss

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Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 11:16am On Sep 10, 2015
For the records!
A satisfied man makes a happy woman! cheesy

I was paid $2000 a night! cool
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 11:19am On Sep 10, 2015
Missy89:


If i get to see 3-5 good games this season from the skins, that is satisfactory. The team isn't that great anymore.By the way,you should check out P. K. Subban.

Lmao @3-5 for the cursed Redskins. You'd lucky to get 2 wins lool. Better tank the season and draft a new QB next season since RG3 is damaged goods and Cousins is a disaster waiting to happen. Then you have the worst coach ever whose rise to fame came off the back of his brother.

You have never had a decent team - RG3 just gave you lot that decent one season in 2012, till you lot destroyed that guy. A team that had Rex Grossman as on its books for a long time was never great looool.

A nyggah playing hockey? Now that's nice. Just waiting till nyggahs take over the sport as well loool.

Err, let me gas you a bit lool. You have got a cute and homely Yoruba face, with a nice smile and decent/natural short hair. There are two types of Yoruba faces: the cute/homely ones and owanbe ones. The former is nice to look at, but the latter is off-putting and unattractive lool. But you need to hit some of ya Yoruba sisters with big batty up and ask them the type of diet that gave 'em the humongous batty loool.
Re: The Three Stages Of Growth In Marriage by Shymm3x: 11:23am On Sep 10, 2015
KanwuliaJara:


Yet, you call women BYTCHES and WHORES doing the same? Women like me have JUST the same urge, because we have liberated ourselves ON AND OFFLINE!!!! cool

My tank got emptied this week! My husband resumes on SUNDAY! wink

This is sooooooo sexist!
It looks like you are discussing "stages of singledom"! cheesy
No surprises coming from you! grin
Anyway, this topic concerns ONLY MARRIED PEOPLE!
Make men like Jaybee3 put mouth abegggggi!

Go and wait your turn, then come back to tell us about the "current state of affairs in YOUR MARRIAGE"!

Till then, no need to argue witcha! kiss

Loool.

Can't you see Jaybee3 isn't lonely despite being married? I see him spitting game to chics on here from time to time and the brother does his thing like a real man should loool.

Realist not sexist - I didn't make the rules lool.

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