It shouldn't be an issue to debate on that 'love' and 'loyalty' are two different phenomenons entirely, yet, they go hand-in-hand with each other. Getting loyalty from the 'modern' Nigerian city girls sometimes, could be like the proverbial camel passing through the eyes of the needle, as projected by Christ in the Holy Bible!!! ...and especially, when your funds are low!

The average Nigerian girl that lives in the city might be a pain in the ass for you if you take her issues so seriously; carrying it on your head as if it was your destiny...especially, the flashy and trendy ones whose only dream in life is to surround themselves with as much material things as they can get . This situation might even prove worse when you are not aware of the ingredients that can bring about this loyalty. It is true that no one can be absolutely loyal, as other factors sometimes play their roles but disloyalty can be curtailed seriously when in relationship

1) She disappears during festive periods: If you are dating a Nigerian babe and she is fond of disappearing during festive times such as Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, Easter, Eide-Kabir, etc, just know she is the disloyal type. She fake herself to be so busy during these times and absolutely make herself unavailable to you! She's probably in the warm hands of another man who she feels can cater for her expensive taste and needs during the celebration season!!! Young man, you have no business with such a lady! I thought festive seasons were meant to be enjoyed together with friends and loved ones o:

2) She uses baseless excuses to explain her unavailability: Disloyal ladies hardly spend quality time with you except they stand to gain one material benefit or the other from you! To you, you are in a relationship. To them, it is 'business' as usual! . They always put the blame on rain, too much sunshine, breeze, traffic, friend's wedding, etc, to avoid meeting with you but just tell her to come and collect a large sum of money you promised her and she will happily take the next available cab even if the whole rain in China, Vietnam and Cambodia combined is nothing compared to the rain pouring in the area where she resides!!! . Observe watchfully, bro!

3) She is so familiar with the joints you have taken her to and the regular male visitors there: She would know the prices of the range of drinks they have and the amounts they sell the ranges of foods they have in these places!!! She attracts 'funny' eye contacts and body languages from male folks around often and she sometimes wave at them when you act as if you are not looking! . How did she come to know about these places and what they offer if she hasn't been taken to these places by different men on several occassions?

4) Her phone hardly rings in your presence: Yes! Funny as it sounds, it is true. It is a tactful act that you should be a aware of...'your' girl (everybody's friend) could be the disloyal type. If she switches off her phone, you might suspect so she might put an old sim card that no one calls to disguise as a 'good girl' in your presence. This is an expo...if you notice something like this too often when she visits, try to call her number on your phone and see if it goes. If it doesn't, don't try to bother her on why she is using another sim she didn't tell you about!!! Just know she is the disloyal type! You have an option...you can get up and dust your ass to save yourself further stress!!!

5) She spends your money but you can never see her penny: If she is the type that keeps her 20k to feast on your little 5k, just see her as disloyal! I wonder how some young men spend hugely on ladies who have never bought them a boxers or singlet before! Relationship is give and take. If she gives you sex and nothing more for the financial benefits she gets from you, then she's a pros!!! If not, what's the transaction between a guy and a pros? Money for hand=back for ground . After all, who yansh dor help abeg!

Shine your eyes and be a Realist!!!
In the name of success, all women are bound to be loyal and confess that you are the man!!!

Ok

This describes any disloyal person really

Cutehector:
Ok

I know what u are up to!

YourMain:
This describes anyone really

Really? Anyone?

Rapmoney:
I know what u are up to!

what am I up to?

Rapmoney:
Really? Anyone? o:

Any disloyal person. Just not Nigerian women.

YourMain:


Any disloyal person. Just not Nigerian women.

The piece is for the Nigerian environment, romance-wise . Hope u understand

Lists everywhere!

Cutehector:
what am I up to?

Taking a plot!

YourMain:

Any disloyal person. Just not Nigerian women.

Not just Nigerian women.

Dafe20:
Lists everywhere!

Okay oga! Add ur own!

YourMain:
This describes anyone really

huhhhh?


u say?

Gals are cheats............ Especially those that fix artificial longest nails.



Talking from experience, I just need to look at them and tell who really they are.

Rapmoney:
Taking a plot!

lmao, I dnt take plots, I take hectares of land... By derailing... Buh I dnt wana derail urs .

Oya thank me

calls u once in a while, in the afternoons, well shes one her way to anoda guys house, by callin u, u wont bother calling her till shes done in the guys house

Nice observation bro...

Rapmoney:
The piece is for the Nigerian environment, romance-wise . Hope u understand

I live in Ireland and I know women who do that to their boyfriends.

So its not for the Nigerian environment no ?

Cutehector:
lmao, I dnt take plots, I take hectares of land... By derailing... Buh I dnt wana derail urs .

Oya thank me

Oya, I dash u 1 like!

danchuzzy:



huhhhh?


u say?

I mean anyone that's disloyal

RickRichards:



Not just Nigerian women.

Also including men.

YourMain:


I live in Ireland and I know women who do that to their boyfriends.

So its not for the Nigerian environment no ?

I don't know about Ireland or South Korea! I have Nigerian babes in mind

gabinogem:
Nice observation bro...

Thanks man!

panachuku:
calls u once in a while, in the afternoons, well shes one her way to anoda guys house, by callin u, u wont bother calling her till shes done in the guys house

Another plate of eba and banga soup for this guy!

Rapmoney:
I don't know about Ireland or South Korea! I have Nigerian babes in mind

Okay

Just on point! Bravo.

misspicy:
some girls will not do all what OP typed buh are still disloyal to their partner...

Buh why must every thread on NL be biased...like seriously Even guys do this yet all of you focus on girls...well ur cups of tea......

Why not fault guys on a thread? No one is perfect you know

Kingsasian:
Just on point! Bravo.

Thanks!

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