What exactly constitutes cheating? Not everyone
defines cheating the same way. Society may
condition us to think of cheating a certain way,
but deep down we may not feel the same. From my own definition; cheating is having a secrete/open sexual affairs of any kind wt d HUSBAND OR WIFE of someone else

Wen viewed 4rom christian n traditional perceptive u will agree wt me dat d word "cheating" exist only in marriages n not outside marriage relationship...in christian religion sexual activities outside marriage is prohibited same way wt traditional n oda religions..

D question now is y re pple in mere relationship crying of been cheated on wen dey re not yet d actual owners of d partner...remb u if u re not yet married 2 d person u re not legally n culturally entitled 2 d benefits dat come wt marriage -a reason u re not expected 2 cry foul

Remb if u visit public places dey use d words "cars parked @ owners's risk"dis is as a result of lack of trust same reason 4 d so called cheating

#teamsearching4workingclassmaturelady#

Op this is because relationships of now adays arent christian like at all. Now people in relationships go into it for sex. Infact the relationship at a point begins to look like a marriage cos dey have sex, she cooks for him, she washes his clothes n d guy in return probably pays her house rent n takes care of her every need.
At this point if one of dem gets involved with another person outside marriage it becomes cheating. Cos the relationship was way too deep than d way a relationship is supppsed to be.

But then, i believe even a relationship without all this should be with all sincerity. You cant be in courtship with someone n still be involved with someone else can you?

Real talk

Relationship this days, is more like marriage. One would see a lady living with a man whom she isn't yet married to. Relationship already lost it real value. People go into it for different reasons. Some for the sake of having a companion, for sex, for money extortion, and other reasons.

truer words.... but @ greatiyk4u, this your last hash tag is kinda hard to find in this present day Naija.

#teamsearching4workingclassmaturelady#

They are very very matured as in OLD. like 39/40 years old.

Mhizkel:
Relationship this days, is more like marriage. One would see a lady living with a man whom she isn't yet married to. Relationship already lost it real value. People go into it for different reasons. Some for the sake of having a companion, for sex, for money extortion, and other reasons.

It isn't like marriage , you keep hearing girls say why give him the cookies when he hasn't paid for it or if he wants me to do like a wife is supposed to do, he should marry me first. Relationships these days is just rubbish

Tho i didn't read everything to me Cheating in a relationship is wen giving the attention you give ur wife to anything/person eg Games,Movies, A woman etcetra

passionate88:
truer words.... but @ greatiyk4u, this your last hash tag is kinda hard to find in this present day Naija.

#teamsearching4workingclassmaturelady#

They are very very matured as in OLD. like 39/40 years old.

Lolz.....it all depends on ur location n orientation I guess

Aren't dia young working class single ladies in Naija again? Dow dey may b hard 2 find but I tink I av not searched @ d ryt place

Mhizkel:
Relationship this days, is more like marriage. One would see a lady living with a man whom she isn't yet married to. Relationship already lost it real value. People go into it for different reasons. Some for the sake of having a companion, for sex, for money extortion, and other reasons.

sake of companion...sharing my problems when am down.appriciate pple who put smile on my face when im down. Depression is Real!

The truth is,it very hard to find a guy who is after making u a better person(sex starv niggas everywhere).


Also hard to find a woman who is not after a guy for monetry value. You hear them say "He cant take good care of me,i dumped his silly ass".


Ts jus Vice Versa.
If you gt a goodman/woman hold dem tight,they are very rare to come by!

greatiyk4u:


Lolz.....it all depends on ur location n orientation I guess

Aren't dia young working class single ladies in Naija again? Dow dey may b hard 2 find but I tink I av not searched @ d ryt place

just like nobody knows the location of buhari lost land in Port Harcourt, You go search tire for those kind girls for naija

Mhizkel:
Relationship this days, is more like marriage. One would see a lady living with a man whom she isn't yet married to. Relationship already lost it real value. People go into it for different reasons. Some for the sake of having a companion, for sex, for money extortion, and other reasons.

If e no b panadol it can neva be panadol........once we call a spade a spade we will realize dat once he/she is not ready 2 marry he/she is in 4 games n games re not supposed 2 b played wt sympathy...................2 d ladies y cry of cheating wen he is virtually paying u even beyond ur services.....?