MarvellousGod:
Marriage is a good thing which everyone should naturally desire but it shouldn't be imposed. ..

Op, I like what you said "marriage is part of life and not life itself".. so true. ..

However I don't like it when people say most married people ain't happy, bla bla bla.. how do you know this? Have you visited all houses? Wonder why people always want to key into bad stories and neglect the good... Just as there are bad marriages, there are good marriages too.. it's all up to you. ..Or maybe because you hear/see bad marriages, you believe yours will be bad too?

If you don't want to get married, fine but don't try to justify it by saying married people ain't happy, makes no sense. ... People are happy whether single or married, it's up to you to choose to be happy or not by playing your cards well....

Then, the society generally needs to change its outlook on marriage, stop making single adults feel like failures. . There's more to life....

edwife:
double post.

lilmax:
and the singles be like “mehn i have role models east,south,west and north ......ayam a feminist i dont need a man to be happy ......not knowing that the lardasses got married @21,22,23,24,25

edwife:
I agree that the society has something to do with it,but the women themselves too.I know Nairaland is very fake with many pretentious folks who derive the pleasure of portraying something they are not.There is a site i visit,it is when i realise that things were not really what they seem to be,this is not to mock women or those ladies writing there because i respect them for their honesty and courage but to just see the real situation and i honestly wish them well.

Now looking for serious relationship and the percentage of ladies to men is 90% to 10%.


Just a few...

crackhaus:

Lmao...

Go back to the previous page, the guilty will always reveal themselves - they're like chicken, throw a little corn and watch them peck away...

lilmax:
mad single nigerian women

edwife:
I agree that the society has something to do with it,but the women themselves too.I know Nairaland is very fake with many pretentious folks who derive the pleasure of portraying something they are not.There is a site i visit,it is when i realise that things were not really what they seem to be,this is not to mock women or those ladies writing there because i respect them for their honesty and courage but to just see the real situation and i honestly wish them well.

Now looking for serious relationship and the percentage of ladies to men is 90% to 10%.

Just a few...

crackhaus:


Go back to the previous page, the guilty will always reveal themselves - they're like chicken, throw a little corn and watch them peck away...

Timbuktou:


Look at this village farmer. E don tey wey I see chicken wey dey chop corn o. You got that local fowl, bruh? I need some real chicken in my life right now.

crackhaus:
Brother, local fowl no dey your area?

Timbuktou:


I think I have faith in your breeding techniques.

crackhaus:

Lol, as long as you got enough corn to attract them...it's easy from there on out, you won't be needing my breeding techniques.

Esthersblog:
There is a general misconception that every single woman is praying day and night, for a spouse. This is incorrect. Personally, I find myself praying more about my career and bank account balance than I do about a potential life partner.
This isn’t an article about how we don’t need a man or how men aren’t important. Truth be told, men are important and marriage, when done properly, can be a wonderful thing. But I have come to the realization that marriage is a part of life and not life itself. I came to this realization a few years ago. There I was, single and heart broken over another failed relationship when the thought hit me. “What if God, has decided that you won’t get married for another 5 years? Are you really going to spend the next 5 years of your life, throwing pity parties and wondering if the next guy, who says ‘hello’ is the one? Surely, there has to be something more fulfilling to do with your time”. There and then I made my decision to focus on things that were within my control, that i, finishing graduate school, my career, focusing on building my character and other aspects of life.............

Continue Reading: http://www.esther.com.ng/2015/09/diary-of-mad-single-nigerian-woman.html

Phema:
Damn! The men are going to hate this.

How dare you breathe without them?

Timbuktou:


Hehehe. Thing is, I don't see any locals here. Na only agric full my neighbourhood. So, I'm confident of getting a pure breed local black fowl from you, or two sef. . And yes, I've got enough corn to keep them healthy.

Phema:
Damn! The men are going to hate this.

How dare you breathe without them?

edwife:
I agree that the society has something to do with it,but the women themselves too.I know Nairaland is very fake with many pretentious folks who derive the pleasure of portraying something they are not.There is a site i visit,it is when i realise that things were not really what they seem to be,this is not to mock women or those ladies writing there because i respect them for their honesty and courage but to just see the real situation and i honestly wish them well.
Now looking for serious relationship and the percentage of ladies to men is 90% to 10%.

Just a few...

crackhaus:

Guy you greedy oo, you mean you are surrounded by fat agric fowls and you still interested in the pure local breed that will eat anything it sees including earthworm?

Timbuktou:


Hehehe. Bros, why you wan fall my hand na? You know that local fowl has a flavour unparalleled by no other. That's what I need, that authentic chicken taste. Make it happen, senor

crackhaus:

You just don't let up, do you?

Okay how do you like your local chicken served?
Crispy and crunchy or soft and tender?

MizMyColi:
Such negativity and pettiness flowing from this thread.

After all is said and done, BE!

Timbuktou:


Thanks for reconsidering, but I'd rather receive a live hen . I want to kill and cook it myself.

crackhaus:

If that's the case baba, no need to look too far for a very local corn-pecking hen... One is on this thread right now and has been talking to herself non-stop begging to be killed and cooked.

Timbuktou:


Oga, that is a pseudo-hen, and it's even poisoned sef. You want make I chop wetin go make me purge? I have lifted the feathers and checked the yansh and it has been found wanting. . Biko, I'll pass on that thing.

crackhaus:

Lmao...

So how you want us to take settle this matter na?