My friend told me that his girlfriend keep asking him how much is his salary.The first time she asked him they fought because he didnt tell her and told her that she is after his money but after they settled she still asked him again but this time he didnt show his anger he just changed the topic of discussion.So he asked me for advice and i decided to share it with nairalanders.

Is she suppose to ask him that question in the first place?.And what do you think is the appropriate response?

Just the way my girl has been asking me all this while.

In my own case I told her to suggest and it works for me

They just want to know how much u earn as salary, so as to know where to drill hole in ur pocket

Any question you don't want to answer is not a legit question.

Treat it as a joke.

Tell her you work for free.

What's the big deal?

If you feel you don't want her to know, just quote a figure.

I think she wanna compare you to Mr X Y Z

all this naija galz b like............
I DON'T DATE LOSERS

Whats the point dating a lady whom you cant disclose ur salary to ?

May God open our inner eyes and deliver us from scammers who come in girlfriend clothing

Guys, run from any lady that's bent on knowing your monthly income.. Et al Tosyne2much (1952)

Click like and share if you want God to open your inner eyes so that you can decifer good girls from scammers

"How much is my salary?" "How much is your father's salary?"

If you ask us na who we go ask... Since you will bring everything here

I'll just say its enough to take care of her, since na wetin she wan hear be dat

It's simple, 'I earn more than you'

She just wanna compare you with some other dude

the simple answer to this question IS:
- (if she is a new gf): i dont think it is relevant in our r/ship for me to tell you how much i earn, but if you truly believe that it is, then tell me exactly HOW/WHY?!

- (if she is a long term gf): i dont think it is RIGHT (or i dont feel comfortable) telling you, at this point in time, how much i earn. i think this will bring confusion into our beautiful picture here. have i done something wrong?! so long as i DO and ACT right in our r/ship, then why should this be an issue?!

As her how much is her father's salary.

Men dis question got one girl frm Benin hating me oh til now oh

A girl with a clean and love filled conscience wouldn't ask such irrelevant question,any girl who does has an agenda.

RickRichards:
"How much is my salary?" "How much is your father's salary?"

too harsh!

I dnt mice words, but I'll always make it fun My salary is not yet big enough to purchase a Brazilian wig.

5 thousand

MRBrownJ:
the simple answer to this question IS:
- (if she is a new gf): i dont think it is relevant in our r/ship for me to tell you how much i earn, but if you truly believe that it is, then tell me exactly HOW/WHY?!

- (if she is a long term gf): i dont think it is RIGHT (or i dont feel comfortable) telling you, at this point in time, how much i earn. i think this will bring confusion into our beautiful picture here. have i done something wrong?! so long as i DO and ACT right in our r/ship, then why should this be an issue?!

that's a budjet story

[quote author=MRBrownJ post=38284913]the simple answer to this question IS:
- (if she is a new gf): i dont think it is relevant in our r/ship for me to tell you how much i earn, but if you truly believe that it is, then tell me exactly HOW/WHY?!

- (if she is a long term gf): i dont think it is RIGHT (or i dont feel comfortable) telling you, at this point in time, how much i earn. i think this will bring confusion into our beautiful picture here. have i done something wrong?! so long as i DO and ACT right in our r/ship, then why should this be an issue?!
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Hmmmmmm, men with insecurity problem.....Wats wrong with just telling her...it gud u let her knw ur financial status so she doesn't make unreasonable demand...Imagine a man who earn an average salary, pays his galfrnd's bill all d tym nd gives her money at d detriment of wellbeing even wen she didn't demand 4 it. Don't u tink such actions will give d gal a wrong notion of wat he earns nd might even make her demand 4 sth he cannot afford. nd wen d man try 2 explain tins 2 her she might not believe him thereby making her see him as a stingy person...

If she isn't your wife or fiance, it is none of your business.

"My salary is enough to feed your past,present and future generation"

MostSoughtAfte:

Hmmmmmm, men with insecurity problem.....Wats wrong with just telling her...

women call it insecurity, we men call it common sense.
again, care to explain to us all how is this any relevant in any r/ship?! whether your man earns thousands or millions does not matter to yoy so long as he treats you RIGHT!

it gud u let her knw ur financial status so she doesn't make unreasonable demand...

a partner shouldnt make ANY financial demands, to begin with, thats what broke ass desperate deluded golddigging women do!

Imagine a man who earn an average salary, pays his galfrnd's bill all d tym nd gives her money at d detriment of wellbeing even wen she didn't demand 4 it.

that man is a fool, no questions about it... and telling a woman about how much you earn is certainly not a cure for foolishness!

Don't u tink such actions will give d gal a wrong notion of wat he earns nd might even make her demand 4 sth he cannot afford.

again, if a man desire to reward a lady with gifts then he has all the right to do so.... so long as its HIS decision. the minute some deluded woman takes such occasional gifts as a "freeloading certificate" and now DEMAND fo r these gifts, thats when something is really wrong here.

nd wen d man try 2 explain tins 2 her she might not believe him thereby making her see him as a stingy person...

who cares what any deluded desperate golddigger thinks, so long as a man does the needful and subsequently gets rid of her desperate broke ass

just tell her "babe I will give you just one guess,with a frown"
that frown that states "never ask me that question again"

When my Ex girlfriend asked me that question, knowing that she is a wasteful head, i didnt answer that question til today..

Hope he is not under oath to answer ?