Mamatee07:


Out of spite Ke, do you think those women care again . It's It's case of let me eat my cake and have, remain married so society can call me a "respectable married woman" while I enjoy myself whoever I fancy what's not to love. After sleeping with one pot-bellied husband for years it's a nice break to get a correct guy with 6-packs by the side you men just opened women's eyes to what they've been missing, it's the best of both worlds really how many men do DNA test, you always think you are the smart ones lmao

Vikky014:


5 smetimes 4 and i will do dt 4 with his friend then divorce him straight away and will never look back

sinizia:





Aww. Pele. But you know Karma is a biatch. You got me my first ban on NL. You threw shots at me sublimnally on that infamous day, and when i retaliated, Antispambot banned my ass for breaking rule 2 (you must have forgotten plus i never complained openly about my unjustified imprisonment). Let's just say justice has been served finally.

NiGeRianTr0ll:




Please only quote me if your IQ enters the 3 digit zone....I APPRECIATE YOU

ronald4lif:
I read some saying if a man cheats a woman too should but how many women have the emotional sturdiness and stability to cheat randomly as compared to the men?

How many married women can embark on a fvcking spree without feeling worthless and empty even as some have now mastered the act of body counts? What concerns an average guy with keeping tab of the women he has shagged.

A man can fvck Temi, Oge, Amina on same day without even remembering the next morning, how many women can to do this compared to men? If you think you have what it takes to cheat as much as men then feel free to do so make we see who go taya.

Toks2008:


Its even lesser than 5%.

Very soon,it will likely be a global law that every man can marry at least 2wives.

O si n rin yin..ladies better wake up...and learn how to focus on your life and that of your children after marriage and let the man be.

Memejem:
I would like to begin my accepting your apology. Thank you.

Nobody is perfect in religion, we are all learning and growing with each others help as well as through discourse.

In regards to my previous statement about the old testament, based on my understanding the old testament as well as the laws contained in them were given to the israelites (jews) and not the gentiles (modern day Christians) as means to govern them and keep them until the promise of a Savior for the world, a descendant from Abraham would be fulfilled. these laws were also put in place to keep the jews as a people distinct from the gentiles.

This was prophesied in the old testament:

Jeremiah 31:31 "BEHOLD, DAYS ARE COMING, DECLARES THE LORD, WHEN I WILL MAKE A NEW COVENANT WITH THE HOUSE OF ISRAEL AND WITH THE HOUSE OF JUDAH"

In the new testament:

Hebrew 8:13 "when he said "a new covenant" he has made the first obsolete. But whatever is becoming obsolete and growing old is ready to disappear"

Luke 22:20 " this cup which is poured out for you is the new covenant in my blood"

Based on these passages and a few more I was taught that these are some of the reasons why Christians for the most part do not follow the laws of the old testament as least not strictly. Based on the old testament we are not to eat shellfish, work on the sabbath which is actually begins on Friday evening to Saturday evening, but we Christians have moved our day of worship to Sunday. to be honest im not really sure what the truth is as vie heard different interpretations from different pastors and sunday school teachers and the like.

this debate on the rules of the old testament as it relates to Christians is a little controversial and no school or though or branch of the christian religion has come to agreeance over it. At the end of the day, i know that i mostly follow the teachings and laws of the new testament, and draw the wisdom of the old testament as well.

Please where does it say that women can not divorce men? I was told by my pastor that when the bible utilizes the word "he" it is to be interpreted in a plural form as when Jesus or one of the disciples are speaking to a group of people. we should only interpret "he or him" when they are specifically speaking about the male gender. if this isn't the case then the majority of laws and rules in the bible is not applicable to women at all. we have to keep in mind that in the new testament many of the laws regarding divorce was when the pharisees (which were men) were questioning Jesus about divorce and he replied to them. Unfortunately the bible is written as a biography of sorts from the interpretation of the disciples and prophets which were men. (meaning they will ask Jesus questions as it pertains to themselves and will record it as such, which i will add is NOT A PROBLEM TO ME)
Anyways, to the best of my knowledge there is no documented passage where a woman or group of women questioned Jesus about divorce.

But regardless in Mark 10:4-5
"they said "moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away, but jesus said to them. "because of the hardness of your heart he wrote you this commandment"

Mark 10:11-12
"and he said to them, whoever divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her and if she herself divorces her husband and marries another man, she is committing adultery"

This is the proof here that Jesus was talking about both sexes and their ability to divorce, though in this particular passage he does not mention the only reason for divorce which is adultery OR abandonment. He mentions that in Matthew 19:9 "And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery" BUT also in Matthew 5:32 "But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery". Like i said before in THIS case this scripture is applicable to both men and women. This is how it has been interpreted by every church ive attended as well as every pastor ive ever asked as well as scriptural teaching i have read online.

and abandonment reason is which is found 1 COR7:15 "Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace,"

in the case of abandonment it is the other spouse who gets the divorce as they do not believe in the covenant of marriage as it pertains to the christian religion

Thanks

Dirkcoyt:
All married women on this thread are retards who live in self denial! toks2008 questions are reality check you can find in every part of the world.

We cheat cause its just a natural phenomenon without an answer to, it doesn't mean we don't love you just the way we're wired!

Y'all men should leave all these creatures that are controlled by emotions than using their brains. I only pity the married folks who live with you married lots on these thread cause you're really something deluded.

As for me I'm of the opinion that I'm liberal in any relationship I'm in, I Bleep other women then you Bleep other men, you can do this if you not caught if you're caught you get kicked out! I own my home and my stipends that runs the home, reasons I say a man should be made before marrying if you want to all, if she bleeps up then she get kicked out!

ronald4lif:
I read some saying if a man cheats a woman too should but how many women have the emotional sturdiness and stability to cheat randomly as compared to the men?

How many married women can embark on a fvcking spree without feeling worthless and empty even as some have now mastered the act of body counts? What concerns an average guy with keeping tab of the women he has shagged.

A man can fvck Temi, Oge, Amina on same day without even remembering the next morning, how many women can to do this compared to men? If you think you have what it takes to cheat as much as men then feel free to do so make we see who go taya.

Toks2008:


Its even lesser than 5%.

Very soon,it will likely be a global law that every man can marry at least 2wives.

O si n rin yin..ladies better wake up...and learn how to focus on your life and that of your children after marriage and let the man be.

ronald4lif:


Lol. Fair retort. That's not a problem. They should keep following us and don't complain about men being cheats. Let's have an open relationship and free for all fvcking. For men who cheats they don't wince about but for women it's always lamentation here and there.

Ours is out fun and the excitement it brings but for someone who copies like women it appears theirs is to spite and can an act of spite be joyous as that of men who revels naturally?

And I'm still wondering if any man will father a kid(s) that's not his for longer than a year in this times where any reasonable fella should confirm paternity of their wards as soon as they are birth.

uzolexis:


I am angry cos of the unfortunate ladies that have come your way seeking for advise and have been ill advised by you.... I really feel bad for them.

Joy1706:

You are a very big fool. I say that with no apologies. It's something I've always known sha since I read ur first post. What's the point of marriage then if I will have to "let the man be" and gave my children. What's the difference between such a man and a sperm donor? Ode to power 100

Kachisbarbie:


Then it's obvious English is complex for you too. My post answered that, go read it slowly...
For the records, the two questions are entirely different.

doveda:

Do you know

That some stupid married women on this forum have made him their marriage counsellor

cococandy:
This Tok boy is foolish sha. But he doesn't know.
I'll spank him one day.

ronald4lif:


In a world where people marry for personal gains and selfish interest I see no reason why any man will father a child without DNA, that's why I added reasonable ones and not those blinded by imaginary love. DNA should be a must, well perhaps to me.

But that's not even the issue as a woman who want to cheat would ensure she's on contraceptives whenever she mates her side lover or insist he puts on a condom so there won't be any pregnancy in the process of her extra marital affairs.

I don't have a problem with a woman cheating on me really and I also expect she feel same to me provided none of us get busted. But here's the catch, once I find out the marriage is over. She can also decide to put an end to the marriage if I'm caught but one thing I'm certain about is that I can't stick to one woman forever without having flings once in a while.

And in any event my relationship or marriage crumbles I move on to the next one. Relationship or marriage shouldn't be an evermore journey after all.

cococandy:
What would the guys do in such situations?
That's what we will do.

Yeye questions.

iPopAlomo:



Ma'am you haven't said anything... you're still being defensive... and the two questions are absolutely the same albeit one in simpler English...

Yawns...

uzolexis:


That's why he has the guts to spill the trash he spills regularly.
btw I love your signature, think I am going to do the same for this OP.

Toks2008:


I don't write to get accolades and by now im happy many nairaland ladies have realized that im not trying to impress them lin anyway cos the last time i checked,i have passed the age of reproach or fooling around.

As a lady, if you don't have the psychological shock absorber to cope with the possibility of your man cheating on you PLEASE DON'T EVER BOTHER GETTING MARRIED..Period.

As i wrote, i write in a no holds barr manner and im so realistic and down to earth.

I am not interested in any form of bragadocio remarks from the unmarried ladies who still believe in me and my hubby alone and how i wish each lady that have ever commented put their marital status so that i will know who to respond to cos as far as i am concerned,every reply i make to any comment of an unmarried lady is a total waste of time.

This thread is for married ladies to comment while the unmarried just read and learn.

doveda:


Your mother is a retard!!

So you know you cannot kick her out of the family home. It will take an ignorant woman to leave her family home just like that!!!

Omotayor123:

I use the word crazy because your 5 questions only give married women one Option And that is to stay with a philanderer husband.

Don't women deserve more than that Why should women stay with a philanderer Why not talk to the men to be a faithful and caring husband Men deserves a faithful wife but women don't deserve a faithful husband shey

The thing dey vex me seriously. No, I'm not married But I will sooner or later.
Letz say A big No to Cheaters!!!

habsydiamond:
From the responses of some ladies, I can see they don't have something good in mind for their hubby In case he cheats on them. some ladies are even planning Coup No wonder some guys no won marry. God help me shine my eye so that I won't use my hands to cause my own downfall. Ladies I shake yarnsh for una ooo

Dirkcoyt:


Don't be deluded in your own world miss thang! Its my opinion you've got no right to oppose it just create yours.

doveda:


Wow! Have you been a woman before?

sunnyt1:


This is the reasons why a lady/guy shd discuss at length with the partner, you can only know someone you talk with extensively. The opinion above says a lot about this person and the kind of future he wants for himself except its a kind of prank.

You wont stick to one partner your entire life and you dont mind if your wife flies around but if you get her, its the end of the marriage and she can do same if its the other way round. Haba

doveda:

You have no right to hold a Stu.pid opinion