Hello people, i need ur comments and advice on this. I'm a young dude in a relationship that has lasted for about 2yrs now and discovered 4mths ago dat my gf is a yr older than me n i have been dealin with it somehow, lookin for answers. I love her so much and was actually thinkin she cld be my wife next yr. She also jst found out lately about my age cos we both lied to ourselves from the begining(didnt think it was gonna get this far). Now m not too comfortably with the fact that she's older n she now knows cos i found out before her. We have talked about it n i had to admit to her, since then i v bin disturbed n m sure she has been feelin same too.
Plz pple, i nid to know if age is just a number like they say especially in this part of the world or if we should break up cos i dont want to waste her time.

kelvinnile:

I was almost 1daring, if i was d 1 that posted this story unknowingly, because my case is just as similar. Just that, i alone lied abt my age to her when i discovered, that she is a year older, our rlshp is now over 2yrs, and i am yet to tel her. . U nid to see d way i do shout on her atimes when she does smthng wrong. inside of me, i keep saying to myself 'this is an older felow u re shouting at, you no get respect?' u knw d african mentality na, we both rock each others world very well.
Should i just continue like dat wit the skeleton in my closet or tel her! I am realy serious with this chick o!
I remenbre when we once had an indoor li2 debate, about age nd rlships, she was of the opioin that it is wrong to date a younger guy, and that she would never do such a thing. . Not knowing dat her's is also younger. What do i do?
@original poster, sory i had to use ur thread as an avenue to also seek remedy to my ailment, just dat, we seem to suffer 4rm similar problem. Greetings!